If you don't want to be a musician just say something like, I respect your thoughts father but I am old enough and I want to do this job/ career...etc. God has your back if He wants you to have kids you will.
Your father is crying out for help, pray for him to be well counsel in what you can listen to him when you can. Ephesians 6:2
Perhaps he can call the number on this post.
I pray for this in your name Lord Jesus Christ, Amen. Praise, bless and thank you Lord Jesus Christ.
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caringfortheheart.com has a christian counselor.
He also has a book biblical concepts counseling for marriage which is good for many things including emotions and deliverance.
Here is his number you can talk to him for free for 30 minutes on the phone in the week days.
(719)-572-5550
Also fathersloveletter.com
if you claim the scriptures in Jesus name it is very healing if you claim the scriptures in Jesus name and start crying let the tears roll.
Also check out pharmakia linked to witchcraft.
newstartclub.com promo code #177 or #443 and amazing discoveries.org
Check out Derek Prince 's book God's Word heals. Look up the dark act and GMOS, eat organic.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mmDOXqiAB-M&t=2s
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EC5lwxA126k
There is Hellen Chens love seminar for relationships, career and Christian Trapper's Love Bound on Youtube.