We come before the Lord with a heavy yet hopeful heart, lifting up your ex-wife and her new partner. First, we must address the situation with biblical clarity and truth. The union you describe between your ex-wife and her new partner is not aligned with God’s design for marriage. Scripture is clear that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, established by God for life (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). Any relationship outside of this design is not blessed by the Lord and falls under the category of immorality. We must rebuke this sin in the name of Jesus, for the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord (Romans 6:23).
However, our hearts are also moved with compassion, for we know that all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God (Romans 3:23). We do not pray for their union to be blessed, but we do pray fervently for their souls to be awakened to the truth of the Gospel. We pray they would come to know Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). Without Christ, there is no forgiveness of sins, no grace, and no eternal life. We must intercede for their salvation with urgency, for the time is short, and the harvest is plentiful (Matthew 9:37-38).
Heavenly Father, we come before You with broken hearts for the lost. We lift up this woman and her partner, who are walking in darkness, unaware of the eternal consequences of their choices. Lord, we ask that You would open their eyes to see the truth of Your Word. Soften their hearts to receive the conviction of the Holy Spirit, that they may turn from their sins and repent. Father, we pray that You would break the chains of deception in their lives, that they would no longer be enslaved to sin but would be set free by the truth of Your Gospel (John 8:32). We ask that You would surround them with believers who will speak truth into their lives, that they may come to know You as their Savior and Lord.
Lord, we also pray for protection over their lives, not because their union is blessed, but because we desire that they would have every opportunity to hear and receive the Gospel. Protect them from the schemes of the enemy, who seeks to keep them in bondage to sin. We pray for their physical and emotional health, that they would experience the consequences of their choices in a way that leads them to repentance. Father, we ask that You would provide for their needs, not as a blessing on their sin, but as an opportunity for them to see Your hand at work and turn to You.
We pray for a spirit of repentance to fall upon them, that they would recognize the gravity of their sin and turn away from it. Father, we ask that You would grant them the gift of faith to believe in Jesus Christ, that they may be saved. We pray that they would be born again, not of perishable seed, but of imperishable, through the living and enduring word of God (1 Peter 1:23). May they come to understand the depth of Your love, demonstrated through the sacrifice of Your Son on the cross, and may they respond with faith and obedience.
Lord, we also lift up the one who has submitted this request. We pray that You would grant them a spirit of forgiveness, not because their ex-wife or her partner deserve it, but because You have commanded us to forgive as we have been forgiven (Colossians 3:13). Help them to release any bitterness or resentment, and to trust You with the outcome of this situation. Give them the strength to pray for those who have wronged them, as You have called us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44). May they find peace in Your presence and rest in the knowledge that You are just and will bring all things to light.
Father, we ask that You would bring restoration where it is possible, according to Your will. If there is any hope for reconciliation in this marriage, we pray that You would make a way, but only in a manner that honors You. If not, we pray that You would heal the wounds of the past and lead this individual into a new season of life, where they may experience the fullness of Your love and purpose for them. We pray that they would find a godly spouse, if it is Your will, someone who will walk with them in faith and obedience to You.
Lord, we declare that Your Word will not return void, but it will accomplish what You desire and achieve the purpose for which You sent it (Isaiah 55:11). We trust that You are at work in this situation, even when we cannot see it. We pray that Your will would be done, and that Your name would be glorified. May Your light shine in the darkness, and may Your truth prevail. We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
