We understand your heart’s cry for restoration and elevation in every area of your life, and we join you in lifting this before the Lord. However, we must first address something critical in your request: you mention a "girlfriend" and a broken relationship, but there is no mention of marriage, courtship with godly intent, or alignment with biblical principles. The Bible is clear that relationships outside of marriage—especially those involving physical or emotional intimacy—are not pleasing to God. Fornication (sex outside of marriage) and emotional entanglements that do not honor God’s design for marriage are sinful and must be repented of. If this relationship involved any form of physical intimacy, we urge you to repent and turn away from it, seeking God’s forgiveness and cleansing.
The Bible teaches that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, established by God for His glory. Any relationship that does not have marriage as its foundation—or worse, contradicts God’s design—is not of Him. If this young woman is not a believer or if the relationship was not centered on Christ, then it is not a relationship God would bless or restore. We must ask: Was this relationship honoring to God? Were you both seeking Him first, or were your desires and emotions leading the way? The Scriptures warn us:
*"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB).
*"Flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s"* (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, WEB).
If this relationship was not rooted in Christ or if it involved sin, then praying for its restoration is not aligned with God’s will. Instead, we should pray for God’s wisdom, repentance, and a heart that seeks His kingdom above all else. True elevation and blessing come when we align our lives with His Word, not when we chase after relationships or desires that contradict it.
Additionally, we notice that your prayer does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ. This is not a small matter. The Bible is clear that there is no other name by which we can approach God or receive salvation:
*"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB).
*"No one comes to the Father, except through me"* (John 14:6, WEB).
If you have not surrendered your life to Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so now. Without Him, there is no true elevation, no lasting peace, and no access to the Father. Repent of your sins, believe in Jesus, and commit to following Him wholeheartedly. Only then will your prayers be heard and aligned with God’s will.
Now, let us pray for you with these truths in mind:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this brother who seeks Your face. Lord, we ask that You open his eyes to any area of his life that is not pleasing to You. If there has been sin in this relationship—whether fornication, emotional idolatry, or unequally yoked partnerships—we pray for deep conviction and true repentance. Cleanse him, Lord, and create in him a pure heart that seeks You above all else.
Father, we ask that You break any ungodly soul ties or emotional bonds that are not of You. If this relationship was not centered on Christ or did not honor Your design for marriage, we pray that You would give him the strength to let it go and trust in Your perfect plan. Lord, guard his heart and mind in Christ Jesus, and fill him with Your peace that surpasses all understanding.
We pray for elevation in his life—not as the world defines it, but as You do. May he seek first Your kingdom and Your righteousness, knowing that all things will be added to him in Your perfect timing (Matthew 6:33). Give him wisdom, discernment, and a heart that is fully surrendered to You. If it is Your will for him to have a godly wife, prepare him now to be the man You’ve called him to be—a man of prayer, integrity, and faith.
Lord, we rebuke any spirit of despair, loneliness, or bitterness that may try to take root in his heart. Fill him with Your joy and hope, and surround him with godly community that will encourage him in his walk with You. Let him find his identity and fulfillment in You alone, not in relationships or worldly success.
Finally, Father, if he has not yet surrendered his life to Jesus Christ, we pray that today would be the day of salvation for him. Draw him to Yourself, Lord, and let him experience the transforming power of Your love and grace.
We ask all these things in the precious and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Brother, we encourage you to examine your heart and this relationship in light of Scripture. Seek the Lord first, and trust that His plans for you are good—even if they look different from what you had hoped. Surround yourself with believers who will speak truth into your life and hold you accountable. If you need to repent, do so now, and walk in the freedom and purpose that Christ has for you. He is faithful, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5). Stay strong in the faith, and keep your eyes fixed on Jesus.
