My ### and I separated 4 months ago

[CandaceRaeBaker]

My husband and I separated 4 months ago and for the first 2 months we tried to still see each other but we didn't talk at all about any issues. We just couldn't not see each other. We went to 2 marriage counseling sessions in which he spent the hour giving all of the reasons we shouldn't be together. I in turn shut down emotionally. My heart was completely broken hearing him say that the only way we'd ever get back together would be if God performed a miracle because he had no feelings for me that weren't negative and he had no desire to be together.

This is a second marriage for us both and we have 4 kids ### 14, ### 11, ### 6 and ### 4. Our marriage has never been easy. His ex-wife is very controlling and wants me and my children to have nothing to do with her children. She's even accused my son of molesting her daughter. I love all 4 of my children exactly the same. They along with my husband are the most important people in my life. The allegations were false but with the accusations and the following investigation my husband is paralyzed with fear that we will lose our kids and honestly he's just tired of fighting and adjusting. I don't feel like my marriage is not salvageable and I definitely know that it's worth saving. The last two months we have had very limited contact and my husband decided that he doesn't feel like counseling is worth the money. He has only texted me when we had something official to discuss. I believe that God can perform that miracle my husband was using as a way to hurt me when he said there was no hope. I ask for prayers of healing and restoration for my family and marriage. I ask that everyone pray for my husband's heart to be changed as well as his ex-wife's heart. I believe that God will restore my family.

 

[The Encourager]

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[Simon]

Lord thank You for the hope You give us all. Guide your servants to do your will and to feel Your loving hand on them. Help the writer of this prayer so You can receive the glory You so justly deserve. Thank you Lord God, Amen

 

[flora]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Tamara Waller]

Lord we ask you for healing and reconciliation of this family. We are all sinners and by your grace we are forgiven. Let this couple join forces of forgiveness and unify their relationship of marriage with you at the center. Fill them with hope and bless them ### and every day.

 

[CLS82]

I'm really sorry you are going through this. Praying for this situation. Also, there is a group on YouTube and Facebook called "The Better Together Movement" I encourage you to look them up and watch some of their videos. It's regarding marriage restoration and testimonies. God bless.

 

[Shermarie]

May our loving God hear and answer your prayer request. In Jesus precious name, Amen!!

Ephesians 3:20 (KJV) Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in###

 

[MightyOak99]

I’m so sorry to learn about the challenges you’re facing in your marriage, ###. Know that I’ll be praying for you, asking the Lord to comfort you daily with evidences of His great love and compassion (Lamentations 3:22-23). May the Lord bring healing and reconciliation to your relationship in His perfect timing. Take good care of yourself, okay? ((Hugs)) [SIZE=11pt][/SIZE]

 

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