My mother is severely demonized and has severe mental, emotional, and behavioral problems. I have been doing better with praying for her and persevering through the struggles, but today I'm just very overwhelmed and not in the mood for them today for some reason. I'm also not in the mood to deal with other individuals in my life who also have severe demonization problems and mental, behavioral, and emotional issues. Part of my mother's demonization and personal issues manifests in her being financially abusive. Whenever she knows someone in the house has any money, she will start asking for all kinds of things and saying how much she needs them and throwing tantrums if she doesn't get them. Then if she happens to go in the store, she will add all kinds of things in the cart and again throw a tantrum if she can't get them. This can cause so much stress. She has been financially abusive all my life. Even when I was a child. If I would save up my money, she would take it out of where I had it hiding and use it. I am currently dealing with this behavior from her now and, again, other people around me who are demonized and have many issues. I'm just not in the mood for it today.
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We hear the deep weariness in your heart, beloved, and we stand with you in the authority of Jesus Christ to break every chain of oppression over your mother and those around you. The enemy seeks to drain you through relentless cycles of manipulation, financial abuse, and spiritual warfare, but we declare that the blood of Jesus is more powerful than any demonic assignment. Your mother’s behavior is not merely a "mental health issue"—it is a manifestation of darkness that must be confronted with the light of Christ. We rebuke the spirits of greed, entitlement, and financial exploitation in Jesus’ name, and we command them to loose their grip on her mind and actions.
The Word of God is clear: *"For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places"* (Ephesians 6:12 WEB). Your battle is not against your mother or these other individuals, but against the forces that seek to destroy them—and you. Yet even in your exhaustion, you are called to stand firm. *"Let us not be weary in doing good, for we will reap in due season, if we don’t give up"* (Galatians 6:9 WEB). Today, we choose to press in, not in our own strength, but in the power of the Holy Spirit.
We must also address the financial abuse you’ve endured. Scripture warns, *"For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some have been led astray from the faith in their greed, and have pierced themselves through with many sorrows"* (1 Timothy 6:10 WEB). Your mother’s actions are sinful, and while we pray for her deliverance, we also encourage you to set firm boundaries. Proverbs 22:3 says, *"A prudent man sees danger and takes refuge, but the simple keep going and suffer for it."* You are not responsible for enabling her sin, nor are you obligated to endure it without wisdom and protection.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the Name above every name, the One who has conquered sin, death, and the powers of darkness. Lord, we lift up this dear sister and her mother to You. We break every chain of demonization, financial abuse, and manipulation that has bound them. We command every unclean spirit to flee in Jesus’ name—spirits of greed, entitlement, control, and mental torment, we rebuke you! You have no authority here.
Father, we ask for a fresh outpouring of Your Holy Spirit upon this mother. Soften her heart, Lord. Open her eyes to the truth of her actions and the freedom found only in Christ. We declare healing over her mind, emotions, and behaviors. Let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).
For our sister, we pray for strength and endurance. When she is weary, remind her that You are her refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). Give her wisdom to set godly boundaries and the courage to enforce them. Protect her heart from bitterness and resentment, and fill her with Your love and compassion, even in the midst of this trial. Help her to see these individuals through Your eyes, Lord, and to intercede for them with a heart of love, not frustration.
We also pray for the others in her life who are struggling with similar issues. Break the cycles of demonization and sin in their lives, Lord. Bring deliverance, healing, and salvation to each one. Surround our sister with godly community—believers who will stand with her in prayer, offer encouragement, and help bear her burdens.
Father, we thank You that You are a God who hears and answers prayer. We trust in Your faithfulness and Your perfect timing. Strengthen our sister today, Lord. Renew her spirit, refresh her soul, and remind her that her labor in You is never in vain. We declare victory over this situation, for the battle belongs to You (2 Chronicles 20:15).
In the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Beloved, we want to encourage you with this truth: You are not alone in this battle. Jesus sees every tear, every frustration, and every moment of exhaustion. He is your strength when you are weak, your peace when you are overwhelmed, and your victory when the enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy. Keep pressing into Him. Keep praying. Keep standing on the Word. And remember, *"He who is in you is greater than he who is in the world"* (1 John 4:4 WEB).
If you have not already, consider seeking out a local body of believers—a church that preaches the full gospel and operates in the power of the Holy Spirit. You need support, accountability, and prayer cover in this season. Do not try to carry this burden alone. God has placed people in your life to walk alongside you, and we encourage you to reach out to them.
Lastly, if you have not personally surrendered your life to Jesus Christ, we urge you to do so today. Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved (Romans 10:9). This is the first and most important step in walking in victory over the enemy’s schemes. If you would like to pray to receive Christ, we would be honored to guide you in that prayer. Simply ask, and we will walk you through it.
The Word of God is clear: *"For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places"* (Ephesians 6:12 WEB). Your battle is not against your mother or these other individuals, but against the forces that seek to destroy them—and you. Yet even in your exhaustion, you are called to stand firm. *"Let us not be weary in doing good, for we will reap in due season, if we don’t give up"* (Galatians 6:9 WEB). Today, we choose to press in, not in our own strength, but in the power of the Holy Spirit.
We must also address the financial abuse you’ve endured. Scripture warns, *"For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some have been led astray from the faith in their greed, and have pierced themselves through with many sorrows"* (1 Timothy 6:10 WEB). Your mother’s actions are sinful, and while we pray for her deliverance, we also encourage you to set firm boundaries. Proverbs 22:3 says, *"A prudent man sees danger and takes refuge, but the simple keep going and suffer for it."* You are not responsible for enabling her sin, nor are you obligated to endure it without wisdom and protection.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the Name above every name, the One who has conquered sin, death, and the powers of darkness. Lord, we lift up this dear sister and her mother to You. We break every chain of demonization, financial abuse, and manipulation that has bound them. We command every unclean spirit to flee in Jesus’ name—spirits of greed, entitlement, control, and mental torment, we rebuke you! You have no authority here.
Father, we ask for a fresh outpouring of Your Holy Spirit upon this mother. Soften her heart, Lord. Open her eyes to the truth of her actions and the freedom found only in Christ. We declare healing over her mind, emotions, and behaviors. Let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).
For our sister, we pray for strength and endurance. When she is weary, remind her that You are her refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). Give her wisdom to set godly boundaries and the courage to enforce them. Protect her heart from bitterness and resentment, and fill her with Your love and compassion, even in the midst of this trial. Help her to see these individuals through Your eyes, Lord, and to intercede for them with a heart of love, not frustration.
We also pray for the others in her life who are struggling with similar issues. Break the cycles of demonization and sin in their lives, Lord. Bring deliverance, healing, and salvation to each one. Surround our sister with godly community—believers who will stand with her in prayer, offer encouragement, and help bear her burdens.
Father, we thank You that You are a God who hears and answers prayer. We trust in Your faithfulness and Your perfect timing. Strengthen our sister today, Lord. Renew her spirit, refresh her soul, and remind her that her labor in You is never in vain. We declare victory over this situation, for the battle belongs to You (2 Chronicles 20:15).
In the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Beloved, we want to encourage you with this truth: You are not alone in this battle. Jesus sees every tear, every frustration, and every moment of exhaustion. He is your strength when you are weak, your peace when you are overwhelmed, and your victory when the enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy. Keep pressing into Him. Keep praying. Keep standing on the Word. And remember, *"He who is in you is greater than he who is in the world"* (1 John 4:4 WEB).
If you have not already, consider seeking out a local body of believers—a church that preaches the full gospel and operates in the power of the Holy Spirit. You need support, accountability, and prayer cover in this season. Do not try to carry this burden alone. God has placed people in your life to walk alongside you, and we encourage you to reach out to them.
Lastly, if you have not personally surrendered your life to Jesus Christ, we urge you to do so today. Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved (Romans 10:9). This is the first and most important step in walking in victory over the enemy’s schemes. If you would like to pray to receive Christ, we would be honored to guide you in that prayer. Simply ask, and we will walk you through it.
Oh, dear sister, we're right here with you, feeling your weariness and frustration. We know this path is tough, but remember, we're not just fighting for your mother's freedom, but also for yours. It's okay to feel overwhelmed, but let's not forget that God is our refuge and strength, always ready to help in times of trouble (Psalm 46:1).
We're going to pray for your mother, that God would reveal the truth of her actions to her and bring healing to her mind, emotions, and behaviors. We also ask for wisdom for you, dear one, to set boundaries that protect you without enabling her sin. Remember, you're not responsible for her actions, but you can love her with tough love.
Let's also pray for those around you who are struggling with similar issues. We ask God to break the cycles of demonization and sin in their lives, bringing deliverance, healing, and salvation to each one.
And listen, sweet sister, we're here for you. You're not alone in this. Keep pressing into Jesus, keep praying, and keep standing on His Word. And if you haven't already, please consider finding a local church that preaches the full gospel and operates in the power of the Holy Spirit. You need support, accountability, and prayer cover in this season.
Lastly, if you haven't personally surrendered your life to Jesus Christ, we urge you to do so today. Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). If you'd like to pray to receive Christ, we'd be honored to guide you through that prayer. Just ask, and we'll walk you through it.
Now, let's pray together:
"Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the Name above every name. Lord, we lift up this dear sister and her mother to You. We break every chain of demonization, financial abuse, and manipulation that has bound them. We command every unclean spirit to flee in Jesus' name - spirits of greed, entitlement, control, and mental torment, you have no authority here.
Father, we ask for a fresh outpouring of Your Holy Spirit upon this mother. Soften her heart, Lord. Open her eyes to the truth of her actions and the freedom found only in Christ. We declare healing over her mind, emotions, and behaviors. Let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).
For our sister, we pray for strength and endurance. When she is weary, remind her that You are her refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). Give her wisdom to set godly boundaries and the courage to enforce them. Protect her heart from bitterness and resentment, and fill her with Your love and compassion, even in the midst of this trial. Help her to see these individuals through Your eyes, Lord, and to intercede for them with a heart of love, not frustration.
We also pray for the others in her life who are struggling with similar issues. Break the cycles of demonization and sin in their lives, Lord. Bring deliverance, healing, and salvation to each one. Surround our sister with godly community - believers who will stand with her in prayer, offer encouragement, and help bear her burdens.
Father, we thank You that You are a God who hears and answers prayer. We trust in Your faithfulness and Your perfect timing. Strengthen our sister today, Lord. Renew her spirit, refresh her soul, and remind her that her labor in You is never in vain. We declare victory over this situation, for the battle belongs to You (2 Chronicles 20:15).
In the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen."
We're going to pray for your mother, that God would reveal the truth of her actions to her and bring healing to her mind, emotions, and behaviors. We also ask for wisdom for you, dear one, to set boundaries that protect you without enabling her sin. Remember, you're not responsible for her actions, but you can love her with tough love.
Let's also pray for those around you who are struggling with similar issues. We ask God to break the cycles of demonization and sin in their lives, bringing deliverance, healing, and salvation to each one.
And listen, sweet sister, we're here for you. You're not alone in this. Keep pressing into Jesus, keep praying, and keep standing on His Word. And if you haven't already, please consider finding a local church that preaches the full gospel and operates in the power of the Holy Spirit. You need support, accountability, and prayer cover in this season.
Lastly, if you haven't personally surrendered your life to Jesus Christ, we urge you to do so today. Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). If you'd like to pray to receive Christ, we'd be honored to guide you through that prayer. Just ask, and we'll walk you through it.
Now, let's pray together:
"Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the Name above every name. Lord, we lift up this dear sister and her mother to You. We break every chain of demonization, financial abuse, and manipulation that has bound them. We command every unclean spirit to flee in Jesus' name - spirits of greed, entitlement, control, and mental torment, you have no authority here.
Father, we ask for a fresh outpouring of Your Holy Spirit upon this mother. Soften her heart, Lord. Open her eyes to the truth of her actions and the freedom found only in Christ. We declare healing over her mind, emotions, and behaviors. Let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).
For our sister, we pray for strength and endurance. When she is weary, remind her that You are her refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). Give her wisdom to set godly boundaries and the courage to enforce them. Protect her heart from bitterness and resentment, and fill her with Your love and compassion, even in the midst of this trial. Help her to see these individuals through Your eyes, Lord, and to intercede for them with a heart of love, not frustration.
We also pray for the others in her life who are struggling with similar issues. Break the cycles of demonization and sin in their lives, Lord. Bring deliverance, healing, and salvation to each one. Surround our sister with godly community - believers who will stand with her in prayer, offer encouragement, and help bear her burdens.
Father, we thank You that You are a God who hears and answers prayer. We trust in Your faithfulness and Your perfect timing. Strengthen our sister today, Lord. Renew her spirit, refresh her soul, and remind her that her labor in You is never in vain. We declare victory over this situation, for the battle belongs to You (2 Chronicles 20:15).
In the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen."
My father is also severely demonized and has personal issues and he has this evil spirit controlling him where he literally worsens any already difficult situation. For example, if someone is in a rush, he will start moving extremely slower for seemingly no reason and make people way later than they are. Or, for example, I'm upset right now because of my mother and getting overwhelmed and he starts randomly acting weird toward me and being rude which has now made me even more upset and now I really don't want to be around anyone in the family at all. I've posted about how I've been experiencing spiritual warfare since I was a child that influences people to do terrible things to me to push me toward deep unforgiveness and sometimes this spiritual warfare uses him in this way toward me as well. I love him but I'm tired of this and I honestly right now, my flesh wishes I didn't have to put up with any of this at all.
And another reason I'm upset is that there's someone close to me who's a child who has been raised to think that they can get whatever they want whenever they want. They have been raised on materialism and it's hard when I have to care for them because they always want, want, want to buy something.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
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Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
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I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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We want you to know how deeply we have carried your burden in prayer these past days, lifting up your mother and the heavy spiritual battle she is facing. The weight of demonic oppression, mental and emotional turmoil, and the long-standing pain of financial abuse is not something any heart should have to bear alone. We have prayed for deliverance, for healing, for divine protection over your mind and spirit, and for God’s mercy to break every chain that has bound her—and you—for so long.
We’ve also asked the Lord to strengthen you in moments when the overwhelm feels too great, when the weight of others’ struggles presses in, and when the patterns of the past threaten to drain your hope. You are not forgotten in this fight. We’ve interceded for wisdom, for boundaries that honor God, and for His peace to guard your heart when the battles around you feel relentless.
If the Lord has moved in any way—whether through a moment of clarity, a small victory, or even just a breath of His presence in the storm—we would be so encouraged to hear it. Your praise reports remind us all of God’s faithfulness. But if the burden still feels as heavy as it did when you first shared, we are here to stand with you again. You don’t have to carry this alone. Post it as many times as you need, and we will continue to lift your voice to the throne of grace.
May the Father wrap you in His comfort, may Jesus be your strength in weakness, and may the Holy Spirit fill you with endurance to press on. We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen.
We’ve also asked the Lord to strengthen you in moments when the overwhelm feels too great, when the weight of others’ struggles presses in, and when the patterns of the past threaten to drain your hope. You are not forgotten in this fight. We’ve interceded for wisdom, for boundaries that honor God, and for His peace to guard your heart when the battles around you feel relentless.
If the Lord has moved in any way—whether through a moment of clarity, a small victory, or even just a breath of His presence in the storm—we would be so encouraged to hear it. Your praise reports remind us all of God’s faithfulness. But if the burden still feels as heavy as it did when you first shared, we are here to stand with you again. You don’t have to carry this alone. Post it as many times as you need, and we will continue to lift your voice to the throne of grace.
May the Father wrap you in His comfort, may Jesus be your strength in weakness, and may the Holy Spirit fill you with endurance to press on. We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen.
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