We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, lifting you and your family in prayer, knowing that He is the God of all comfort and justice. Your pain is deep—betrayal, abuse, family strife, and the weight of being mistreated by those who should love you most. Yet we cling to the promise that the Lord sees all, and He will not leave you forsaken. You have cried out with Psalm 27:10, *"Though my father and my mother forsake me, the Lord will receive me."* This is your anchor. He is your Father, your Protector, and your Redeemer.
First, we must address the spiritual battle at hand. You have mentioned the evil actions of others—coworkers who conspired against you, a spouse who rejects your family, and a mother whose words are toxic and wounding. These are not merely human conflicts but attacks from the enemy, who seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10). We rebuked the spirits of bitterness, division, resentment, and unforgiveness that have taken root in your mother’s heart and in the hearts of those who have harmed you. We bind the works of jealousy, manipulation, and betrayal that have caused you financial hardship, emotional trauma, and fear. In the name of Jesus Christ, we command these spirits to flee and declare that no weapon formed against you shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17).
To you, dear sister, we say: **Do not fear man, for the Lord is with you.** Your fear of people and your panic over work are real, but they are not from God. He has not given you a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7). The enemy has used these attacks to isolate you, but the Lord is your refuge. You are not alone—even if it feels that way. He is with you, and He will restore what has been stolen. Trust Him to provide, even when the way seems impossible. *"Look at the birds of the sky, that they don’t sow, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns. Your heavenly Father feeds them. Aren’t you of much more value than they?"* (Matthew 6:26).
Now, we must speak truth into the brokenness of your family. Your mother’s behavior is not godly. A mother’s love should reflect the nurturing heart of God, not the sharp tongue of bitterness. *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice"* (Ephesians 4:31). Her resentment toward you, while painful, is a stronghold that must be broken by prayer. We pray that God softens her heart, that He removes the scales from her eyes, and that she repents of her harsh words. May the Holy Spirit convict her of the damage her tongue has caused, for *"the tongue is a fire"* (James 3:6), and it has scorched your soul. Yet we also pray for **your** heart—that you would forgive her, as Christ has forgiven you. Unforgiveness is a chain that binds you to the pain. Release her to God, and trust Him to bring justice and healing.
Regarding your spouse, we must address this with biblical clarity: **Marriage is a covenant, and a husband is called to love his wife as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25).** If your spouse despises your family, this is a serious issue that must be brought before the Lord in prayer and, if necessary, addressed with godly counsel. A man who rejects his wife’s family without just cause is not walking in love. We pray that God would change his heart, that he would see your family through the eyes of Christ, and that he would support you in honoring your mother and father as Scripture commands (Exodus 20:12). If there is unresolved sin or bitterness in his heart, we ask the Lord to expose it and bring repentance. If this issue persists, we strongly encourage you to seek biblical counseling, for a house divided cannot stand (Mark 3:25).
We also lift up your financial struggles and the trauma from your workplace. The betrayal you experienced was wicked, and those who conspired against you will answer to God. *"Vengeance is mine; I will repay, says the Lord"* (Romans 12:19). Do not carry the weight of vengeance—release it to Him. As for your ability to work, we pray for supernatural peace over your mind and body. If panic and fear have disabled you, we declare healing in Jesus’ name. *"He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds"* (Psalm 147:3). Ask the Lord to open doors for provision—whether through new employment, unexpected help, or creative means. He is Jehovah Jireh, your Provider.
Finally, we rejoice that you have prayed for your family’s salvation. This is the greatest gift you can seek for them! *"Believe in the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be saved—you and your household"* (Acts 16:31). We stand in agreement with you, asking the Lord to draw each of them to Himself. May your mother, your spouse, your brother, and all in your family line encounter the saving grace of Jesus Christ. May generational curses be broken, and may the blood of Jesus cleanse every sin.
Now, let us pray together:
*"Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our sister, who is weary and wounded. Lord, You see the tears she has cried in secret, the betrayals she has endured, and the rejection she has faced. You are the God who collects every tear in Your bottle (Psalm 56:8), and You have not forgotten her. We ask for Your supernatural comfort to surround her like a shield. Remove the spirit of fear from her and replace it with Your perfect peace. Heal her mind, her emotions, and her body from the trauma of abuse and abandonment.
Lord, we lift up her mother—break the stronghold of bitterness and resentment in her heart. Soften her tongue, O God, and replace her harsh words with words of life. Convict her of the pain she has caused, and lead her to repentance. If there is generational sin at work, we break its power in Jesus’ name. Let Your love flow through her, that she may bless and not curse.
Father, we pray for our sister’s spouse. If there is hardness in his heart toward her family, melt it with Your love. Help him to walk in wisdom and unity, not division. If there is sin in his life, expose it and bring him to repentance. May their marriage be a reflection of Christ and the Church—full of love, honor, and mutual submission.
We rebuke the spirits of poverty, lack, and financial bondage that have come against her. Lord, You own the cattle on a thousand hills (Psalm 50:10)—provide for her needs, open doors no man can shut, and restore what the enemy has stolen. Give her favor in the workplace, healing from panic, and the ability to trust You for her daily bread.
Most of all, Father, we pray for salvation over her entire family. Let no one be lost! Draw them to Yourself, Lord Jesus. Break every chain of sin, every generational curse, and let Your light shine in their hearts. May they all come to know You as Savior and Lord.
We thank You, Father, that You are working all things together for her good (Romans 8:28). Even in this storm, You are sovereign. Strengthen her faith, remind her of Your promises, and let her testify of Your goodness in the land of the living.
In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen."*
Stand firm, sister. The battle is fierce, but the victory is already won in Christ. Keep praying, keep trusting, and keep your eyes on Jesus. He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6). If you are not already in a biblical community, we urge you to find a solid, Christ-centered church where you can receive support, prayer, and sound teaching. You were not meant to walk this path alone. God bless you.