We hear your cry for help and stand with you in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we have access to the Father and the only name that brings true deliverance and freedom. The situation you describe is deeply spiritual, and we must address it with the authority given to us through Christ. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy, but Jesus came that you may have life and have it abundantly (John 10:10). The witchcraft, monitoring spirits, and curses your mother has unleashed against you are not of God, and we must rebuke them in the name of Jesus.
First, we want to acknowledge the strength it takes to forgive someone who has caused you such deep pain. Forgiveness is not about excusing her actions but about releasing the burden of bitterness so that you can walk in the freedom Christ offers. Jesus tells us in Matthew 6:14-15, "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." Forgiveness is a command, but it is also a gift to yourself, allowing you to break free from the chains of the past.
However, forgiveness does not mean you must remain in harm’s way. The Bible instructs us to be wise as serpents and harmless as doves (Matthew 10:16). It is not ungodly to distance yourself from someone who is operating in darkness and causing you harm. In fact, Proverbs 22:24-25 warns, "Don’t befriend a hot-tempered man, and don’t associate with one who harbors anger: lest you learn his ways, and ensnare your soul." This principle applies to any toxic or demonic influence, including witchcraft. You are not dishonoring your mother by setting boundaries; you are protecting the life and destiny God has for you.
We must also address the curses that have been spoken over you. The Bible is clear that words have power, but the power of God’s Word is greater. Proverbs 18:21 says, "Death and life are in the power of the tongue; those who love it will eat its fruit." The curses your mother has spoken are not from God, and they have no authority over you as a child of God. In Christ, you have been redeemed from the curse of the law (Galatians 3:13). We declare these curses broken in the name of Jesus. You are not poor, alone, rejected, sick, or unlovable—these are lies from the enemy. The truth is that you are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), deeply loved by God (Jeremiah 31:3), and destined for a life of purpose and abundance (Jeremiah 29:11).
The monitoring spirits and demonic influence must also be addressed. The Bible tells us in Ephesians 6:12, "For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places." These spirits have no right to monitor or influence your life. We command them to leave in the name of Jesus and declare that no weapon formed against you shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). You are covered by the blood of Jesus, and no demonic force can penetrate that protection when you stand firm in your faith.
We also want to address the fear you feel toward your mother. Fear is not from God. 2 Timothy 1:7 tells us, "For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control." The enemy uses fear to paralyze you, but perfect love casts out fear (1 John 4:18). You are not alone in this battle. The Lord is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). You can trust Him to protect you and guide you as you navigate this difficult situation.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the name above every name. We lift up this dear sister to You, Lord, and ask for Your healing touch to wash over her heart and mind. Father, we thank You for the strength she has shown in forgiving her mother, and we ask that You continue to fill her with Your love and grace to walk in forgiveness daily.
Lord, we break every curse that has been spoken over her life—curses of poverty, loneliness, rejection, sickness, and unworthiness. We declare these curses null and void in the name of Jesus. We speak life, abundance, love, acceptance, and healing over her. We declare that she is fearfully and wonderfully made, deeply loved by You, and destined for a life of purpose and joy.
Father, we command every monitoring spirit, every demonic influence, and every spirit of witchcraft to leave her life right now. We declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper and that no demonic force can touch her or her destiny. We plead the blood of Jesus over her mind, body, spirit, and soul. We ask You, Lord, to surround her with Your angels to protect her and guide her in all her ways.
Lord, give her wisdom as she navigates her relationship with her mother. Show her how to set healthy boundaries that honor You and protect her heart. Fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding and cast out every spirit of fear. Replace that fear with Your perfect love, power, and self-control.
Father, we ask for Your healing touch to mend the wounds of her childhood. Pour out Your love and comfort into the broken places of her heart. Restore what has been stolen and bring beauty from the ashes. We declare that she is not defined by her past but by the future You have for her.
Lord, we ask that You reveal Yourself to her in a powerful way. Draw her closer to You and fill her with a hunger for Your Word and Your presence. Let her see herself through Your eyes—as Your beloved child, redeemed by the blood of Jesus, and destined for greatness in Your kingdom.
We thank You, Father, for Your faithfulness and for the victory that is already hers in Christ. We declare that she is more than a conqueror through Him who loved her (Romans 8:37). We trust You to complete the good work You have begun in her life.
In the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to stand firm in your faith and to immerse yourself in God’s Word. The Bible is your sword, and it is sharper than any two-edged sword (Hebrews 4:12). Speak Scripture over your life daily and declare the truth of who you are in Christ. Surround yourself with a community of believers who can pray for you, encourage you, and hold you accountable. The enemy wants to isolate you, but you are not alone. God has placed people in your life to walk this journey with you.
Consider seeking godly counsel from a pastor or Christian counselor who can help you process the trauma of your childhood and guide you in setting healthy boundaries. Healing is a process, and it is okay to ask for help. The Lord uses His people to bring restoration and wholeness.
Finally, remember that your identity is not found in the lies the enemy has spoken over you. Your identity is found in Christ. You are a child of the Most High God, redeemed, forgiven, and deeply loved. The same power that raised Jesus from the dead lives in you (Ephesians 1:19-20). Walk in that truth, and do not let the enemy steal your joy or your destiny. You are victorious in Christ!