miss my family

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i got married but my family lives far away. i don't know if im prepared. I miss them and if there's a way I can be closer with them still and God can make it so that I have opportunity to be closer to them. maybe a job opening or something I'm not sure. just ask for prayer on the matter. I would like to still be part of my family's life and miss them.
 
We understand the deep longing you feel for your family, especially now that distance separates you. Marriage is a beautiful covenant ordained by God, and while it often brings change, it doesn’t mean the love and connection with your family must fade. The Bible reminds us in **Genesis 2:24**, *"Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh."* This doesn’t mean abandoning your family but rather establishing a new priority in your marriage while still honoring and nurturing those precious bonds with your loved ones.

It’s natural to miss them, and your heart’s desire to remain close is a reflection of the love God has placed within you. We encourage you to trust Him with this longing, for He is the one who *"sets the lonely in families"* (**Psalm 68:6**). He can open doors you haven’t even imagined—whether through job opportunities, visits, or even creative ways to stay connected like regular calls, letters, or virtual gatherings. Proverbs 3:5-6 tells us, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."*

At the same time, we gently remind you that your primary earthly commitment is now to your spouse. Nurture that relationship with the same love and intentionality you have for your family. **Ephesians 5:22-33** calls husbands and wives to love, honor, and cherish one another as Christ loves the church. If your heart is torn between missing your family and adjusting to married life, pray with your spouse about this. Unity in marriage is strengthened when both of you seek God’s will together.

Let’s pray over this together:

Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious child of Yours who is navigating the beautiful yet challenging transition into marriage while carrying a heart full of love for their family. Lord, You know the depth of their longing, and we ask that You comfort them with Your presence. Remind them that You are near, even when loved ones are far away.

We pray for divine opportunities—open doors for visits, job possibilities, or even a heart of contentment in the waiting. Give them creativity and wisdom to stay connected with their family in ways that honor both their marriage and their loved ones. Help them to trust You fully, knowing that You hold their family in Your hands.

At the same time, Father, we ask that You strengthen their marriage. Bind them and their spouse together in unity, love, and purpose. Teach them to lean on You and each other as they build a Christ-centered home. May their love for their family flow from a heart that is first surrendered to You and committed to their spouse.

We rebuke any anxiety or fear that this distance has brought. Replace it with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (**Philippians 4:6-7**). Let them rest in the truth that You are working all things together for their good (**Romans 8:28**).

In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray, Amen.

Stay encouraged, dear one. This season of adjustment is temporary, but the love and faithfulness of God are eternal. Keep seeking Him first, and trust that He will guide your steps—both in your marriage and in your relationship with your family. Consider sharing your feelings with your spouse too; they may be a greater source of support than you realize. You’re not alone in this. God is with you, and we are praying for you.
 
We feel your heart's longing for your family, dear one. It's natural to miss them, especially now that distance has separated you. But remember, God has a unique way of connecting hearts, even when miles apart. Let's trust in His love and care for both you and your family.

We've been thinking about your situation and wanted to share a verse that has brought us comfort in similar times. In John 14:27, Jesus says, "Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid." Let this peace fill your heart, knowing that God is always with you, and He is working all things together for your good.

Also, have you considered reaching out to your family more often? Regular calls, video chats, or even old-fashioned letters can help bridge the distance. It might also be a good idea to discuss with your spouse about any opportunities that could bring you closer to your family, whether it's a job transfer or regular visits.

We'll keep praying for you, that God will open doors for you to be closer to your family, and that He will bless and strengthen your marriage as well. You're in our thoughts and prayers, dear one.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

 
We want to thank you for allowing us the honor of lifting you and your family before the Lord these past few days. It has been our joy to stand with you in prayer, asking God to bridge the distance between you and your loved ones and to open doors for deeper connection—whether through opportunities to relocate, meaningful visits, or the daily bonds of love that transcend miles.

We know how deeply the ache of missing family can weigh on the heart, especially in seasons of transition like marriage, where the longing for closeness can feel even more tender. We’ve been praying that God would not only comfort you in this time but also reveal His perfect plan for how you can remain an active and cherished part of your family’s life. His ways are higher than ours, and we trust He is already at work—perhaps preparing a path you haven’t yet seen, softening hearts, or even placing a burden on your family’s hearts to draw nearer to you in return.

If the Lord has begun to answer this prayer—whether through a new opportunity, a sense of peace, or even small moments of connection that feel like His provision—we’d love for you to share a praise report with us. Your testimony could be the very encouragement someone else needs today. And if this burden still feels heavy, we invite you to post an update so we can continue to seek the Father’s will with you, believing together for His timing and His way.

May you feel His presence wrapping around you like a warm embrace, reminding you that you are never truly alone. He sees your heart, and He is faithful to lead you one step at a time. We are cheering you on as you trust Him, knowing that He holds your family in His hands just as surely as He holds you.

We love you, and we’re still praying. In Jesus Name.
 

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