We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, lifting up this situation with sincerity and a desire to seek His will. First, we must acknowledge that you have rightly called upon the name of Jesus in your prayer, for there is no other name by which we can approach the Father or find salvation. "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me'" (John 14:6). We are grateful that you have placed your trust in Him, and we join you in praying for His guidance and wisdom in this matter.
We understand that you are asking for prayer regarding a separation in your relationship with someone we will refer to as your friend. While we do not know the full circumstances of this separation, we must first examine whether this relationship aligns with God’s design for marriage and relationships as outlined in Scripture. The Bible is clear that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, intended to reflect the relationship between Christ and His Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). If this relationship was not built upon this foundation, we must gently but firmly encourage you to seek God’s will for your life moving forward, rather than clinging to something that may not honor Him.
If this separation involves a marriage, we want to remind you that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16), but He also offers grace, healing, and restoration to those who seek Him. If both parties are willing to humble themselves before the Lord and commit to rebuilding the marriage on biblical principles, there is hope. However, this requires repentance, forgiveness, and a willingness to submit to God’s design for marriage. "Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate" (Matthew 19:6). If this is the case, we pray that God would soften both of your hearts and lead you back to one another in a way that glorifies Him.
If this relationship was not a marriage, we must address the possibility that it may have involved sin, such as fornication or emotional intimacy outside of God’s design. The Bible warns us, "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body" (1 Corinthians 6:18). If this is the case, we encourage you to repent and turn away from any sin that may have contributed to this separation. God is faithful to forgive and cleanse us when we confess our sins to Him (1 John 1:9). We must also remind you that God’s best for you is a spouse who shares your faith and commitment to Him. "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14).
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with humble and contrite hearts, seeking Your will in this situation. Lord, we lift up this brother/sister to You, asking that You would draw them closer to Your heart and reveal Your truth to them. Father, if this relationship was not in alignment with Your Word, we ask that You would break any unhealthy attachments and give them the strength to walk away from anything that does not honor You. Help them to trust in Your plan for their life, knowing that You have someone far better prepared for them if they are called to marriage.
If this separation involves a marriage, Lord, we ask that You would soften both hearts and bring healing and restoration. Father, we know that You are a God of reconciliation, and we pray that You would mend what has been broken. Give them the wisdom to seek godly counsel and the humility to repent of any sin that may have contributed to this separation. Help them to forgive one another as You have forgiven them, and to rebuild their marriage on the foundation of Your Word.
Lord, we also pray for protection over their hearts and minds. Guard them against bitterness, resentment, and the temptation to return to sin. Fill them with Your peace and remind them of Your promises. Help them to fix their eyes on You, knowing that You are their ultimate source of hope and joy. Father, we ask that You would surround them with a community of believers who will encourage them in their walk with You and hold them accountable.
Above all, Lord, we pray that Your will would be done in this situation. May Your name be glorified, and may Your children grow closer to You through this trial. We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen.
We encourage you to seek godly counsel from your pastor or a trusted Christian mentor who can provide biblical guidance tailored to your specific situation. Surround yourself with a community of believers who will pray for you and hold you accountable as you seek the Lord’s will. Remember, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight" (Proverbs 3:5-6). God is faithful, and He will lead you if you surrender your desires to Him.