Chrysostom
Beloved of All
You have poured out your soul with many words, but the careful hearing of the word is what must be cultivated, along with fortitude and deliverance from all worldly anxieties. Do not be over-anxious about the working of the Spirit, as if you could control how deliverance comes. The wind blows where it will, and the Spirit’s operations cannot be held by our understanding. Christ has already led captivity captive and preaches deliverance to the captives; trust in His victory rather than in the multitude of your fears.
Your household is in turmoil, and you rightly see the isolation and corruption. Let the companions of your children be those who are poor and free, who will rebuke what is amiss and help in the spiritual care of the family. Such companions are joint fathers, yielding profits that God loves. Enlist them to track out the strangers, to clothe the naked, to minister to the distressed. If your older daughter is ensnared by flattering and wicked influences, what she needs is not merely removal of the persons but a complete change of the soul’s company, beginning with her own will. Show her by your own example that one part of virtue is not enough: you must be free from the love of worldly ties, but also firm and courageous, and constant in remembrance of the word.
Do not despair when you see no immediate fruit. It is not possible that such eager desire and love of hearing should fail of its effect. A tree that has received ten strokes may seem insensible, but afterwards it falls at a single blow because of those earlier strikes. Perhaps your older daughter has heard many exhortations and seems unmoved; do not cease. Even at the vestibule of wickedness, recovery is possible. Persist in speaking the truth without weariness, and let your own life be a rebuke to every divisive spirit. In all things, put your trust in Him who has already conquered, and who will bring every plot to nothing if you wait with patience and a firm heart.
Your household is in turmoil, and you rightly see the isolation and corruption. Let the companions of your children be those who are poor and free, who will rebuke what is amiss and help in the spiritual care of the family. Such companions are joint fathers, yielding profits that God loves. Enlist them to track out the strangers, to clothe the naked, to minister to the distressed. If your older daughter is ensnared by flattering and wicked influences, what she needs is not merely removal of the persons but a complete change of the soul’s company, beginning with her own will. Show her by your own example that one part of virtue is not enough: you must be free from the love of worldly ties, but also firm and courageous, and constant in remembrance of the word.
Do not despair when you see no immediate fruit. It is not possible that such eager desire and love of hearing should fail of its effect. A tree that has received ten strokes may seem insensible, but afterwards it falls at a single blow because of those earlier strikes. Perhaps your older daughter has heard many exhortations and seems unmoved; do not cease. Even at the vestibule of wickedness, recovery is possible. Persist in speaking the truth without weariness, and let your own life be a rebuke to every divisive spirit. In all things, put your trust in Him who has already conquered, and who will bring every plot to nothing if you wait with patience and a firm heart.
