Miracle to save my marriage
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We lift you up before the Lord with deep compassion, knowing the weight of brokenness and the toll of emotional pain in your marriage. The struggles you describe are heavy, and we grieve with you over the suffering your spouse endured in childhood and the ways it has shaped their heart and mind. Yet we also rejoice that you have not given up—you are still crying out for God’s intervention, and that is where true hope lies.
The Scriptures remind us that nothing is impossible for our God (Luke 1:37). While personality disorders and deep-seated wounds may seem insurmountable, the Lord is the Healer of broken hearts and the Restorer of what is shattered (Psalm 147:3). He can redeem what the enemy meant for destruction, but this requires surrender—not just from your spouse, but from both of you. Marriage is a covenant before God, and He calls us to love as Christ loved the church, sacrificially and without condition (Ephesians 5:25). Yet love does not mean enabling sin or enduring abuse without boundaries. If your spouse’s behavior has crossed into verbal, emotional, or physical harm, we urge you to seek godly counsel and establish safe boundaries. You cannot pour from an empty cup, and isolation is a tool of the enemy. The Lord did not design you to carry this alone.
You mentioned you have "done all you can do," and we hear the exhaustion in your words. But sister or brother, the truth is that *you* cannot fix this—only God can. Your role is to abide in Him, to seek His wisdom daily, and to trust that He is working even when you cannot see it (Proverbs 3:5-6). Have you surrendered this marriage *fully* to Him, or are you still striving in your own strength? The Lord tells us, *"Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest"* (Matthew 11:28). That rest is not the absence of struggle, but the peace of knowing He is in control.
We must also ask: Have you prayed *with* your spouse? There is power in agreement (Matthew 18:19), and if your spouse is willing, kneeling together before the Lord could break strongholds. If they refuse, then you must continue to intercede alone, trusting that God hears you. And if your spouse is unrepentant in harmful patterns, remember that your obedience to God comes first—even if that means hard conversations or separation for a season (1 Corinthians 7:10-11). The Lord hates divorce (Malachi 2:16), but He also hates injustice and oppression (Isaiah 1:17). Your well-being matters to Him.
Now, let us pray over you and your marriage:
*Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this precious child of Yours who is weary, isolated, and desperate for Your miracle. Lord, You see the depths of pain in this marriage—the wounds from childhood that have festered, the coping mechanisms that have become strongholds, and the fear that has taken root. But You, O God, are greater than any disorder, any trauma, any brokenness. You are the God who parts seas, who raises the dead, who turns hearts of stone to flesh (Ezekiel 36:26). We ask for Your supernatural intervention.
Father, we rebuke the spirit of fear that has gripped our sister/brother (2 Timothy 1:7). Replace it with Your perfect love, which casts out all fear (1 John 4:18). Break the chains of isolation—lead them to a community of believers who can walk alongside them in truth and grace. If there has been sin in their own responses—bitterness, resentment, or unforgiveness—we ask for conviction and repentance, that they may be a vessel of Your peace.
Lord, soften the heart of their spouse. If there is a personality disorder, we ask for divine healing and deliverance. Bring them to a place of brokenness before You, where they can receive the healing only You provide. Raise up godly counselors, mentors, or medical professionals who can speak truth in love. If there has been abuse, give our sister/brother the courage to set boundaries that honor You, even if it means hard steps of separation for restoration.
Father, we declare that no weapon formed against this marriage will prosper (Isaiah 54:17). You are the Author of marriage, and You desire to restore what the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25). Give them wisdom to know when to speak, when to listen, and when to act. Unify them in prayer, or if that is not possible, let Your Spirit intercede with groans too deep for words (Romans 8:26).
Most of all, Lord, let this trial drive them both closer to You. May they seek Your face above all else, trusting that You are working all things for their good (Romans 8:28). If this marriage is to be saved, let it be a testimony of Your redemption. If there is a different path, prepare their heart to walk it with You.
We ask all this in the powerful name of Jesus, who bore our sorrows and carried our pain (Isaiah 53:4). Let His resurrection power bring life where there is death, hope where there is despair, and unity where there is division. Amen.*
Finally, we urge you: Do not stop praying. Do not stop seeking God’s face. And do not neglect the body of Christ—you need brothers and sisters to stand with you (Ecclesiastes 4:9-12). If you are not in a Bible-believing church, we strongly encourage you to find one where you can be shepherded and supported. You are not forgotten. You are not abandoned. The Lord sees you, and He is moving—even now. Hold on to Him.
The Scriptures remind us that nothing is impossible for our God (Luke 1:37). While personality disorders and deep-seated wounds may seem insurmountable, the Lord is the Healer of broken hearts and the Restorer of what is shattered (Psalm 147:3). He can redeem what the enemy meant for destruction, but this requires surrender—not just from your spouse, but from both of you. Marriage is a covenant before God, and He calls us to love as Christ loved the church, sacrificially and without condition (Ephesians 5:25). Yet love does not mean enabling sin or enduring abuse without boundaries. If your spouse’s behavior has crossed into verbal, emotional, or physical harm, we urge you to seek godly counsel and establish safe boundaries. You cannot pour from an empty cup, and isolation is a tool of the enemy. The Lord did not design you to carry this alone.
You mentioned you have "done all you can do," and we hear the exhaustion in your words. But sister or brother, the truth is that *you* cannot fix this—only God can. Your role is to abide in Him, to seek His wisdom daily, and to trust that He is working even when you cannot see it (Proverbs 3:5-6). Have you surrendered this marriage *fully* to Him, or are you still striving in your own strength? The Lord tells us, *"Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest"* (Matthew 11:28). That rest is not the absence of struggle, but the peace of knowing He is in control.
We must also ask: Have you prayed *with* your spouse? There is power in agreement (Matthew 18:19), and if your spouse is willing, kneeling together before the Lord could break strongholds. If they refuse, then you must continue to intercede alone, trusting that God hears you. And if your spouse is unrepentant in harmful patterns, remember that your obedience to God comes first—even if that means hard conversations or separation for a season (1 Corinthians 7:10-11). The Lord hates divorce (Malachi 2:16), but He also hates injustice and oppression (Isaiah 1:17). Your well-being matters to Him.
Now, let us pray over you and your marriage:
*Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this precious child of Yours who is weary, isolated, and desperate for Your miracle. Lord, You see the depths of pain in this marriage—the wounds from childhood that have festered, the coping mechanisms that have become strongholds, and the fear that has taken root. But You, O God, are greater than any disorder, any trauma, any brokenness. You are the God who parts seas, who raises the dead, who turns hearts of stone to flesh (Ezekiel 36:26). We ask for Your supernatural intervention.
Father, we rebuke the spirit of fear that has gripped our sister/brother (2 Timothy 1:7). Replace it with Your perfect love, which casts out all fear (1 John 4:18). Break the chains of isolation—lead them to a community of believers who can walk alongside them in truth and grace. If there has been sin in their own responses—bitterness, resentment, or unforgiveness—we ask for conviction and repentance, that they may be a vessel of Your peace.
Lord, soften the heart of their spouse. If there is a personality disorder, we ask for divine healing and deliverance. Bring them to a place of brokenness before You, where they can receive the healing only You provide. Raise up godly counselors, mentors, or medical professionals who can speak truth in love. If there has been abuse, give our sister/brother the courage to set boundaries that honor You, even if it means hard steps of separation for restoration.
Father, we declare that no weapon formed against this marriage will prosper (Isaiah 54:17). You are the Author of marriage, and You desire to restore what the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25). Give them wisdom to know when to speak, when to listen, and when to act. Unify them in prayer, or if that is not possible, let Your Spirit intercede with groans too deep for words (Romans 8:26).
Most of all, Lord, let this trial drive them both closer to You. May they seek Your face above all else, trusting that You are working all things for their good (Romans 8:28). If this marriage is to be saved, let it be a testimony of Your redemption. If there is a different path, prepare their heart to walk it with You.
We ask all this in the powerful name of Jesus, who bore our sorrows and carried our pain (Isaiah 53:4). Let His resurrection power bring life where there is death, hope where there is despair, and unity where there is division. Amen.*
Finally, we urge you: Do not stop praying. Do not stop seeking God’s face. And do not neglect the body of Christ—you need brothers and sisters to stand with you (Ecclesiastes 4:9-12). If you are not in a Bible-believing church, we strongly encourage you to find one where you can be shepherded and supported. You are not forgotten. You are not abandoned. The Lord sees you, and He is moving—even now. Hold on to Him.
We're right here with you, sister. We know the weight of emotional pain and the fear that can come from feeling isolated. But remember, God is always near, and He hasn't left you alone in this. He sees your heart, your spouse's struggles, and He's moving even now.
We want to encourage you with these words from Psalm 147:3, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." God is the ultimate Healer, and He wants to heal your marriage too. It might not look like you expect, and it might take time, but He's at work.
We also want to remind you of Matthew 11:28-29, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls." Jesus wants to give you rest, not the absence of struggle, but the peace of knowing He's in control.
Keep praying, keep seeking God's face, and don't forget to lean on the body of Christ. We're here for you, and together, we can trust that God is working all things for your good, even in this trial.
We want to encourage you with these words from Psalm 147:3, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." God is the ultimate Healer, and He wants to heal your marriage too. It might not look like you expect, and it might take time, but He's at work.
We also want to remind you of Matthew 11:28-29, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls." Jesus wants to give you rest, not the absence of struggle, but the peace of knowing He's in control.
Keep praying, keep seeking God's face, and don't forget to lean on the body of Christ. We're here for you, and together, we can trust that God is working all things for your good, even in this trial.
Emborsuliesh
Humble Servant of All
Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.
Emborsuliesh
Humble Servant of All
Hello friend. I am so sorry to hear about your spouse and the abuse he endured. My empathy and compassion goes out to him and you. I will pray for you and your situation and ask that God blesses your union with a miracle, a breakthrough, a change for the better, a turnaround for healing. May God's glory touch your lives and may both of you be uplifted to the light of peace of mind, resolution, solution, grace. Sending you love and light. AmenMy spouse had a very emotionally abusive childhood and developed a personality disorder to cope. Please I beg of anyone to pray for me, for us. I have done all I can do and I am falling apart. I have become isolated and fearful. Thank you to anyoneThe power of prayer
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I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Beloved of All
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My spouse had a very emotionally abusive childhood and developed a personality disorder to cope. Please I beg of anyone to pray for me, for us. I have done all I can do and I am falling apart. I have become isolated and fearful. Thank you to anyone
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