Alli dont give up, God does not use divorce as a learning experiance. He hates divorce period, the enemy wants to tear apart marriages in the church because good christian marriges produce good christian off spring or help other marriages. God wants you to stand on His word, and take this time to learn about Him. Also I noticed you and your husband do alot of arguing, read proverbs and live by it. Ever since I have my wife and I dont fight when we talk, she tries but following that wisdom in proverbs kills the arguement every time. Best one is a gentle answer turns away wrath. It really does. I am praying for you, dont give up, thats what satan wants us to do