Elizabeth F

Humble Servant of All
My sister died suddenly three months ago and I keep getting flashbacks to the night she died and her face as she was passing and it is torture! I hope and pray she heard me as I held her and told her how much I loved her. I am also feeling so guilty that I didn't look after as well as I should have in the last three weeks of her life after she had been discharged from a short stay in hospital. I suffer from very painful physical illnesses but I shouldn't have made her feel like a burden although I did say sorry every night. I loved her so much and we were never apart and I feel so frightened at the thought of spending the rest of my life without her. Jesus please, please help me. My heart is broken and I am consumed with grief. Please speak peace into my tormented mind and reassure me that my life will be worth living again.
 
We are truly sorry to hear about the loss of your sister and the pain you are experiencing. In times like these, it's important to remember that God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit Psalm 34:18 WEB.

First, we want to assure you that your sister heard your expressions of love. The Bible tells us that love never fails 1 Corinthians 13:8 WEB. Your love for her is a reflection of God's love for us, and it's a powerful force that transcends even death. We know that while we are at home in the body we are absent from the Lord for we walk by faith, not by sight. We are of good courage, I say, and are willing rather to be absent from the body, and to be at home with the Lord. 2 Corinthians 5:6-8 WEB.

Regarding the guilt you feel, remember that God does not want us to live in condemnation. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.1 John 1:9 WEB. It's clear that you did your best to care for your sister, and that you expressed your love for her. It's time to forgive yourself and trust in God's forgiveness.

It's normal to feel frightened and uncertain about the future after losing someone so close. But remember, God has a plan and a purpose for your life. He says, For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11 WEB. Trust in Him, and He will guide your path.

Let's pray together:

Dear Lord Jesus, we come to You with a heavy heart, lifting up our ### who is overwhelmed with grief. We pray that You would speak peace into her mind and heart, and reassure her that her life will be worth living again. Help her to cast all her anxiety on You, because You care for her 1 Peter 5:7 WEB. Comfort her with Your love, and help her to trust in Your goodness and Your plan for her life. In Your precious name, we pray. Amen.

In your pain, don't forget that you can cast your burdens on the Lord. We encourage you to seek support from your local church community. They can provide practical help and spiritual support during this difficult time. Also, spend time in God's Word and in prayer. It's a source of comfort and strength.
 
We're really sorry to hear about your sister and the pain you're going through. It's like you're carrying a heavy weight, and we're here to share that burden with you. We want you to know that your love for your sister was real and strong. It's a reflection of God's love for us, and it's a powerful force that transcends even death. Remember, love never fails, and your sister knew how much you loved her.

We understand that guilt can be consuming, but please remember that God doesn't want us to live in condemnation. He's faithful to forgive and cleanse us from all unrighteousness. You did your best to care for your sister, and you expressed your love for her. It's time to forgive yourself and trust in God's forgiveness.

As for the future, it's natural to feel frightened and uncertain, but remember, God has a plan and a purpose for your life. He thinks towards you with thoughts of peace, not of evil, to give you hope and a future. Trust in Him, and He will guide your path.

Let's pray together:

Dear Lord Jesus, we come to You with a heavy heart, lifting up our ### who is overwhelmed with grief. We pray that You would speak peace into her mind and heart, and reassure her that her life will be worth living again. Help her to cast all her anxiety on You, because You care for her. Comfort her with Your love, and help her to trust in Your goodness and Your plan for her life. In Your precious name, we pray. Amen.

In your pain, don't forget that you can cast your burdens on the Lord. Seek support from your local church community. They can provide practical help and spiritual support during this difficult time. Also, spend time in God's Word and in prayer. It's a source of comfort and strength.

We're here for you, and we'll keep you in our prayers.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
Praying the Lord bring comfort and healing to you. Sharing my experience when my mom passed she was bedridden for years suffering it was necessary for me to force thoughts to move from last memory to the truth that she is in a glorified state now free of any and all pain in the Presence of Jesus. In the future God will reunite the two of you. Again I do pray for your healing, God's comfort, all your needs in this world be taken care of by the Lord. I too feel your pain my older sister passed March 22, ###. I am so sorry for your loss.
 
Praying the Lord bring comfort and healing to you. Sharing my experience when my mom passed she was bedridden for years suffering it was necessary for me to force thoughts to move from last memory to the truth that she is in a glorified state now free of any and all pain in the Presence of Jesus. In the future God will reunite the two of you. Again I do pray for your healing, God's comfort, all your needs in this world be taken care of by the Lord. I too feel your pain my older sister passed March 22, ###. I am so sorry for your loss.
Thanks so much for sharing your experience and sorry for your losses. It is wonderful to know we will be reunited one day because of Jesus 💗
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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