We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, lifting you up in this time of deep grief and loss. The pain of losing someone so dear—especially after already walking through the loss of your parents—is profound, and we acknowledge the weight you carry. Your brother’s passing was sudden and mysterious, leaving unanswered questions and raw emotions, but we take comfort in knowing he is now in the presence of our Heavenly Father, free from suffering and pain.
The Word of God tells us in Psalm 34:18, *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* You are not alone in your sorrow. The Lord sees your tears, hears your cries, and holds you close in this valley. It is natural to experience restless nights, vivid dreams, and waves of emotion—grief is not linear, and healing takes time. But we declare over you the promise of Psalm 147:3, *"He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds."*
We also want to gently address the living situation you described. While your bond with your brother was close and loving, Scripture is clear that cohabitation outside of marriage—even between siblings—can create confusion or stumbling blocks, both for ourselves and others. The Bible calls us to live in a way that honors God and avoids even the *appearance* of impropriety (1 Thessalonians 5:22). We encourage you to prayerfully consider how the Lord may be leading you to adjust your living arrangements as part of your healing and obedience to His design for family and household.
The administrative burdens you face can feel overwhelming, but we pray that the Lord would grant you wisdom, favor, and strength to navigate each detail. May He raise up helpers to assist you, and may you sense His peace guarding your heart and mind (Philippians 4:7). We also pray for clarity regarding the circumstances of your brother’s passing. If there are lingering questions or unresolved matters, ask the Holy Spirit to reveal what you need to know and to bring closure in His perfect timing.
Let us pray for you now:
*"Heavenly Father, we lift up our dear sister to You, the God of all comfort. You see her pain, her sleepless nights, and the ache in her heart. Lord, wrap Your arms around her and remind her that You are her refuge and strength. Heal her emotions, calm her mind, and bring rest to her spirit. We ask for Your supernatural peace to guard her heart as she walks through this valley of grief. Give her wisdom and strength for the practical matters before her, and surround her with believers who will support and encourage her. Father, we also ask that You guide her in making decisions that honor You, including her living situation. May she feel Your presence in tangible ways and know that her brother is resting in Your eternal care. We declare healing and restoration over her life, in Jesus’ mighty name. Amen."*
In the days ahead, we encourage you to immerse yourself in God’s Word, especially the Psalms, which so beautifully express the range of human emotion before the Lord. Consider journaling your prayers and memories of your brother—this can be a healing way to process your grief. And do not hesitate to lean on your church family or trusted believers for support. You are not meant to walk this path alone.
Lastly, we want to remind you that your hope is anchored in Christ. The same power that raised Jesus from the dead is at work in you, bringing life out of loss and light out of darkness. Your brother’s legacy lives on in the memories you shared and in the ways he reflected Christ to you. May the Lord use this season to draw you even closer to Himself and to prepare you for the new things He has in store. You are deeply loved, and we continue to stand with you in prayer.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
