Please pray for me about this which I have posted about before: my parents and I started a nonprofit in honor of my ### who passed away. We started it while she was still alive. A few months ago, we met with someone from a charity in our area who said they were interested in learning more about our nonprofit. We did not expect anything from this person. We just wanted to donate to their charity after not being able to meet with them to do so previously and so we agreed to meet with them for lunch so they could learn more. Afterward, this person said their charity would shout us out on social media but after the meeting, they ghosted us. I don't care about them not shouting us out. What bothers me is that they ghosted us after we shared the personal story of my ###'s struggles and our grief over her passing with them. They even took my ###'s funeral program (which my mother was hesitant to part with) promising to use it to create a post in honor of her. I love the city where I live but I have noticed a trend of some very untrustworthy personalities hidden here - I think because this is a small town, a lot of untrustworthy people hide out here and there are also a lot of unhealthy personalities that are allowed to flourish because people don't know any better. In hindsight, I don't think this person was trustworthy and I'm very upset at the entire experience with them. I think they also didn't feel we donated enough to their charity. We had more to donate but when we had those items, they weren't available and we ended up giving those things to others who were available because we had a specific time limit that we wanted to donate those items for. I wish I had been wiser in not meeting with this person. My mother didn't even want to meet with them in the first place and I decided to do it just to see what could come if it since I had the money at the time to meet with them for lunch.
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We understand the deep hurt and disappointment you’re feeling after this experience, and we grieve with you over the way this person handled your family’s vulnerability and generosity. It is painful when trust is broken, especially when it involves sharing the sacred memory of your loved one’s life and struggle. The betrayal of trust—whether through broken promises, manipulation, or outright deception—cuts deeply, and it’s right to feel anger and sorrow over how this situation unfolded. The Lord sees the dishonesty of this person’s actions, and He cares about the wounds it has left in your heart.
The Scripture warns us about the nature of deceitful people and the importance of wisdom in our interactions. Proverbs 14:15 tells us, *"The simple believe everything, but the prudent give thought to their steps."* And in Proverbs 22:24-25, we are cautioned, *"Don’t befriend a hot-tempered man, and don’t associate with one who harbors anger: lest you learn his ways, and ensnare your soul."* While this person may not have been angry, the principle applies to anyone whose character is marked by untrustworthiness or selfish motives. Jesus Himself said in Matthew 10:16, *"Behold, I send you out as sheep in the middle of wolves. Therefore be wise as serpents, and harmless as doves."* This doesn’t mean we should live in suspicion of everyone, but it does mean we must prayerfully discern the motives of those we engage with, especially when sharing something as precious as your family’s story and grief.
It’s also important to recognize that this experience, while painful, does not define your city or the people in it. Every community has its share of broken individuals, and small towns are no exception. However, the presence of untrustworthy people should not overshadow the good that can still be done in your loved one’s name. Your nonprofit was born out of love and a desire to honor her memory, and that purpose remains pure and worthy, regardless of how others respond. The Apostle Paul reminds us in Galatians 6:9, *"Let’s not be weary in doing good, for we will reap in due season, if we don’t give up."* Do not let this setback discourage you from continuing the work God has placed on your heart. Your labor is not in vain, even if others fail to recognize its value.
As for the donation, it’s clear your family acted with integrity. You gave what you could when you could, and the Lord honors that. 2 Corinthians 9:7 says, *"Let each man give according as he has determined in his heart; not grudgingly, or under compulsion; for God loves a cheerful giver."* Your generosity was not based on what this person or their charity deserved but on the love and purpose behind your nonprofit. If they withheld kindness because they felt your gift was insufficient, that reflects their own heart, not yours. The Lord measures our giving by the sincerity of our hearts, not by the size of the gift or the response of others.
We also want to gently address something we notice in your request: the absence of invoking the name of Jesus. There is no other name by which we can approach the Father, and it is only through Christ that we find healing, wisdom, and justice. Acts 4:12 declares, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* And in John 14:6, Jesus Himself says, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."* If you have not yet placed your trust in Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so. He alone can bring true peace to your heart and justice to the wrongs you’ve experienced. If you have already surrendered to Christ, we encourage you to bring every prayer and concern directly to Him, for He is your advocate and your comfort.
Let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our sister to You, asking that You would bind up the wounds in her heart caused by this betrayal of trust. Lord, You see the dishonesty that was shown to her and her family, and You know the depth of their grief over the loss of their loved one. We ask that You would bring healing to the pain of being used and then discarded, and that You would restore their faith in the goodness that still exists in Your people. Father, grant her wisdom and discernment in all her future interactions, that she may be as wise as a serpent and as harmless as a dove. Protect her and her family from further deception, and surround them with people of integrity who will honor their story and their mission.
Lord, we pray that You would redeem this situation for Your glory. If there is any way this experience can be used to refine their nonprofit or to strengthen their resolve to do good, let it be so. Give them clarity on how to move forward, and open doors to partnerships with organizations and individuals who will treat them with the respect and kindness they deserve. Father, we also ask that You would expose any hidden motives or unrighteousness in the person who wronged them. If it is Your will, bring conviction to their heart that they may repent and make amends. But even if they do not, we pray that You would vindicate our sister and her family, showing them that their labor is not in vain.
We ask all these things in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone is our refuge and strength. May Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus. Amen.
The Scripture warns us about the nature of deceitful people and the importance of wisdom in our interactions. Proverbs 14:15 tells us, *"The simple believe everything, but the prudent give thought to their steps."* And in Proverbs 22:24-25, we are cautioned, *"Don’t befriend a hot-tempered man, and don’t associate with one who harbors anger: lest you learn his ways, and ensnare your soul."* While this person may not have been angry, the principle applies to anyone whose character is marked by untrustworthiness or selfish motives. Jesus Himself said in Matthew 10:16, *"Behold, I send you out as sheep in the middle of wolves. Therefore be wise as serpents, and harmless as doves."* This doesn’t mean we should live in suspicion of everyone, but it does mean we must prayerfully discern the motives of those we engage with, especially when sharing something as precious as your family’s story and grief.
It’s also important to recognize that this experience, while painful, does not define your city or the people in it. Every community has its share of broken individuals, and small towns are no exception. However, the presence of untrustworthy people should not overshadow the good that can still be done in your loved one’s name. Your nonprofit was born out of love and a desire to honor her memory, and that purpose remains pure and worthy, regardless of how others respond. The Apostle Paul reminds us in Galatians 6:9, *"Let’s not be weary in doing good, for we will reap in due season, if we don’t give up."* Do not let this setback discourage you from continuing the work God has placed on your heart. Your labor is not in vain, even if others fail to recognize its value.
As for the donation, it’s clear your family acted with integrity. You gave what you could when you could, and the Lord honors that. 2 Corinthians 9:7 says, *"Let each man give according as he has determined in his heart; not grudgingly, or under compulsion; for God loves a cheerful giver."* Your generosity was not based on what this person or their charity deserved but on the love and purpose behind your nonprofit. If they withheld kindness because they felt your gift was insufficient, that reflects their own heart, not yours. The Lord measures our giving by the sincerity of our hearts, not by the size of the gift or the response of others.
We also want to gently address something we notice in your request: the absence of invoking the name of Jesus. There is no other name by which we can approach the Father, and it is only through Christ that we find healing, wisdom, and justice. Acts 4:12 declares, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* And in John 14:6, Jesus Himself says, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."* If you have not yet placed your trust in Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so. He alone can bring true peace to your heart and justice to the wrongs you’ve experienced. If you have already surrendered to Christ, we encourage you to bring every prayer and concern directly to Him, for He is your advocate and your comfort.
Let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our sister to You, asking that You would bind up the wounds in her heart caused by this betrayal of trust. Lord, You see the dishonesty that was shown to her and her family, and You know the depth of their grief over the loss of their loved one. We ask that You would bring healing to the pain of being used and then discarded, and that You would restore their faith in the goodness that still exists in Your people. Father, grant her wisdom and discernment in all her future interactions, that she may be as wise as a serpent and as harmless as a dove. Protect her and her family from further deception, and surround them with people of integrity who will honor their story and their mission.
Lord, we pray that You would redeem this situation for Your glory. If there is any way this experience can be used to refine their nonprofit or to strengthen their resolve to do good, let it be so. Give them clarity on how to move forward, and open doors to partnerships with organizations and individuals who will treat them with the respect and kindness they deserve. Father, we also ask that You would expose any hidden motives or unrighteousness in the person who wronged them. If it is Your will, bring conviction to their heart that they may repent and make amends. But even if they do not, we pray that You would vindicate our sister and her family, showing them that their labor is not in vain.
We ask all these things in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone is our refuge and strength. May Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus. Amen.
We're really sorry to hear about your experience, but we're here for you. It's true, there are untrustworthy people everywhere, even in our small towns. It's important to remember that God sees everything and He's working all things together for your good and His glory (Romans 8:28). Let's pray that God would give you wisdom in future interactions, protect you from further deception, and surround you with people of integrity who will honor your story and mission. Let's also pray that God would redeem this situation for His glory, opening doors to partnerships with organizations and individuals who will treat you with the respect and kindness you deserve. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
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