🙇🏻Meeting with pastoral counselor, grace of Holy Spirit, Anointing, Move Forward, Meet Pressing Needs, Healing...

[Nochaeld]

Meeting a pastor after a doc appt -- I ask I remember everything on God’s agenda, for The Holy Spirit of Wisdom, Revelation, Counsel, Might and The Fear of The Lord to be upon ### and myself, and that His will is accomplished mightily at the meeting with the pastor...

Really miss the fellowship and corporate prayer at the ### where I was Oct to first three weeks of January…

Really miss my wife and son (companionship, though sparse and unequally yoked, had some degree of earthly comfort and satisfaction — and duty to attempt to raise our child in the fear and admonition of The Lord, [though it was not permitted, at least I set God’s Way of child-training, and at least we tried). We had started trying to reconcile end of January — it was good for almost 3 weeks, then she left, I found a lot of pictures on her phone, and the accounts and receipts of the money that was taken and distributed. This is not an “me vs her” — just facts. She’d previously maintained I had spent the monies that were to be refunded to me. I forgive, but the pilfering and being taken advantage of continued, and I foolishly tried to configure a router which took time away from His presence, apart from Him I can do nothing, John 15:1-3.

The lack of confession and running from our home group and biblical counselors was acute… I forgive everything and everyone involved, but have had a tough time letting go, for “who knows if God will be gracious” and grant her repentance, as David says regarding his fasting while waiting for the fulfillment of Nathan’s prophecy… I ask for help to move on to at least tackle pressing needs, open mail, get things done, go to gym, and to proceed with what seems to be the inevitable…

There's a local Spanish church with a strong presence, a lot of Holy Spirit in worship, but has to be translated -- my Spanish is very bad — Asking I study, retain & use. No corporate prayer I know of can be found anywhere, may I disperse my corporate burdens online freely and may others join in fervent intercession. The churches I attend have good Word, solid pastors, preach holiness, but the "1" person leading evangelism cancelled last outreach b/c of rain — …similar need to strengthen churches evangelistically (training, Eph 4:11-14, “equipping” role to pray into…

Word is bearing some fruit in ### and stepmom... Very lonely, didn't have that hardly at all in ### -- not like this... Not good for man to be alone, Gen 2:17-18... This is brutal, glad did 6 mo lease... Maybe folks could invite me over more? Share Word as they are able to hear? She has more spiritual hunger than ###... May love abound and I rejoice, be healed and at least open my mail... Thank you in Jesus’ Name, Phil 4:6-7, Amen, 2 Cor 1:20.

 

[Articles]

We hear your heart, brother, and we lift you up before the throne of grace with deep compassion. You are carrying heavy burdens—loneliness, betrayal, the weight of unconfessed sin in your marriage, and the ache for fellowship that stirs the soul. But we stand with you in the truth that our God is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). Let us first rebuke the lies of the enemy that whisper isolation over you. You are not forgotten, and your longing for corporate prayer and godly community is a holy desire placed in you by the Lord Himself.

We must address the brokenness in your marriage with biblical clarity. The Scriptures are clear that marriage is a covenant before God, designed to reflect Christ’s love for the Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). The pain of betrayal, financial deception, and abandonment is not something to bear alone. Yet we also see your heart to forgive and your willingness to seek reconciliation—this is the heart of Christ. But forgiveness does not mean ignoring sin or enabling unrepentance. The fact that your wife ran from biblical counsel and confession is a serious matter. We pray for her repentance, but we also release you from the burden of waiting indefinitely. You cannot control her response, only your faithfulness to God’s Word. The Lord calls you to love her as Christ loves the Church, but He also calls you to wisdom and discernment. If she remains unrepentant, Scripture permits separation (1 Corinthians 7:15), though not divorce without biblical grounds. We pray for clarity for you in this season—whether to pursue restoration with accountability or to entrust her to the Lord’s discipline while you walk in obedience.

Your struggle with loneliness is real, and we grieve with you. Genesis 2:18 reminds us that it is not good for man to be alone, and the Lord has designed us for fellowship. But we must also guard against the temptation to fill that void with anything other than Him. The enemy would love for you to seek comfort in sin or distraction, but we declare that your satisfaction is found in Christ alone. We pray for divine connections—godly men who will walk beside you, invite you into their homes, and sharpen you as iron sharpens iron (Proverbs 27:17). We also pray for your stepmother and others in your life who are receptive to the Word. May the Lord open doors for you to share the gospel and build relationships that honor Him.

The practical burdens you carry—unopened mail, neglected tasks, the gym—are not insignificant. The enemy uses overwhelm to paralyze us, but we declare that the Spirit of might and counsel is upon you. We pray for discipline to arise in you, that you would tackle each task as unto the Lord (Colossians 3:23). Let your hands be strong, for the Lord is with you (Haggai 2:4). We also rebuke the lie that you must do this alone. Ask the Lord to provide accountability partners who can help you stay on track.

Your desire for corporate prayer and evangelism is beautiful. The Church is meant to be a body, each part working together (1 Corinthians 12:12-27). We pray for the churches you attend—that the Lord would ignite a fire for prayer and outreach in their midst. We also encourage you to seek out prayer groups online, as you mentioned, where believers can intercede together. The fervent prayer of the righteous avails much (James 5:16). And as you study Spanish, we pray for the gift of tongues and retention, that you may be equipped to minister in whatever context the Lord calls you.

Now, let us pray:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above every name, the only name by which we are saved (Acts 4:12). We thank You for Your nearness to our brother in his time of need. Lord, we ask that You would fill him with Your Holy Spirit—grant him wisdom, revelation, counsel, might, and the fear of the Lord as he meets with his pastor. May Your will be accomplished mightily in that meeting, and may Your agenda be his sole focus.

Father, we lift up his marriage to You. We ask for Your healing touch, but we also ask for Your justice. If there is unrepentant sin, expose it, Lord, and bring conviction. We pray for his wife’s heart to be softened, that she would turn from her ways and seek You with her whole heart. But we also release our brother from the burden of waiting. Give him clarity, peace, and the strength to walk in obedience, whether that means pursuing restoration with accountability or entrusting her to Your care.

Lord, we rebuke the spirit of loneliness in his life. Raise up godly men who will walk beside him, invite him into their homes, and sharpen him in the faith. Open doors for fellowship, prayer, and evangelism. Equip him to share the gospel boldly and to train others to do the same. We pray for the churches he attends—that You would stir their hearts for prayer and outreach, that they would be a light in their communities.

Father, we ask for discipline and strength to arise in him. Help him to tackle the practical tasks before him, to open his mail, to go to the gym, and to steward his time well. Let him not grow weary in doing good, for in due season he will reap if he does not faint (Galatians 6:9).

We thank You for Your faithfulness, Lord. We thank You that Your promises are yes and amen in Christ Jesus (2 Corinthians 1:20). We declare that this brother is not alone, that You are his refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). May he know Your peace that surpasses all understanding, guarding his heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).

We ask all these things in the precious and powerful name of Jesus, our Savior, Redeemer, and King. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Finding Life and Salvation in Christ: A Roadmap

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

sermons

Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, friend, standing in the gap and lifting you up before the throne of grace. We feel your loneliness, your ache for fellowship, and the weight of unconfessed sin in your marriage. But remember, God is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). You are not alone, and your longing for corporate prayer and godly community is a holy desire.

We want to encourage you to keep pressing forward, moving towards the needs that are pressing in on you. It's easy to feel overwhelmed, but we declare that the Spirit of might and counsel is upon you. Take it one step at a time, tackling each task as unto the Lord (Colossians 3:23). You don't have to do this alone. Ask the Lord to provide accountability partners who can help you stay on track.

We also want to remind you that forgiveness doesn't mean ignoring sin or enabling unrepentance. It's okay to forgive and still hold someone accountable. If your wife remains unrepentant, Scripture permits separation, though not divorce without biblical grounds (1 Corinthians 7:15). The Lord calls you to love her as Christ loves the Church, but also to wisdom and discernment.

In the meantime, let's not forget the power of corporate prayer. Even if you can't attend a church or a prayer group, you can still join online prayer meetings or find others to pray with you. The fervent prayer of the righteous avails much (James 5:16).

And finally, friend, we want to remind you of the words of Jesus in Matthew 11:28-29, "Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls." Jesus is inviting you to come to Him, to rest in Him. He is with you, and He will never leave you or forsake you (Hebrews 13:5).

Let's pray together, shall we?