We understand your concern about those who are meddling in other marriages and homes, giving erroneous directions or orders, and causing discord. This behavior is clearly addressed in the scriptures, and we stand with you in prayer against these acts.
Firstly, we must remember that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have the authority to pray and intercede. As it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB, There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved. So we bring this situation to God through the precious name of Jesus.
The scriptures you mentioned, 1 Timothy 5:13 and 2 Thessalonians 3:11, clearly describe such behavior:
And besides they learn to be idle, going about from house to house. And not only idle, but also gossips and busybodies, saying things which they ought not. (1 Timothy 5:13 WEB)
For we hear of some who walk among you in rebellion, who don't work at all, but are busybodies. (2 Thessalonians 3:11 WEB)
We pray that God will convict these individuals of their idle and disruptive behavior. We pray that He will fill their lives with meaningful work and purpose, so that they may not have time to cause discord among families.
We also address the issue of false authorities and directions. It is important to remember that God has established an order in the family, and any challenge to this authority is a challenge to God's design. We pray that God will expose any false authorities and bring them to repentance.
Moreover, we must address the statements I am not her, I am not him, she is not his wife, he is not her husband, these human orphan boys/men are not our obligations. While it is true that we cannot fill their needs, we must remember that God calls us to love our neighbors as ourselves. As it is written in Matthew 22:39 WEB, You shall love your neighbor as yourself. These individuals may not be our obligations, but they are our neighbors, and we should pray for them and show them the love of Christ.
Finally, we cancel and rebuke the spirit of idleness, gossip, and discord that is at work in these individuals. We pray that God will bring peace and order to the families that have been affected. We ask that God will work mightily in the lives of these individuals, convicting them of their sins and drawing them to repentance.
Father, in the name of Jesus, we lift up this situation to You. We ask that You would intervene and bring order to the chaos that has been caused. We pray for the individuals causing discord, that You would fill their lives with purpose and meaning. We ask that You would expose any false authorities and bring them to repentance. We pray for the families that have been affected, that You would bring peace and healing. We ask all these things in the precious name of Jesus, Amen.