God bless U. God's children are not bastard, for whom he loves, he chasten. His words says in 2n Tim 3:16 Every scripture is God-breather & profitable for instruction, for reproof & conviction of sin, for correction of error & discipline in obedience for training in righteousness. V17 so that the man of God may be complete & proficient, well fitted & thoroughly equipped for every good work.
Because of pride, we give a false illusion, & promises at times, we want to impress others, but it a lie. Then there is fear of rejection, so we try to please others so that they might like us. We can become man pleasers instead of God pleaser. We want acceptance, so we sell our honor, truth & integrity. God wants us to get to the root of what makes us do things. This makes us unstable. For the word of the Lord says James 1:8 a double minded man is unstable in all his ways/ (woman too). This will take some effort on your part to humble yourself before the Lord.
Jesus must the author & finisher of your faith. It takes faith to believe in the finish work of Christ, who gave himself for U. For U to overcome this, Jesus has to be lord & saviour of your life. Your foundation has to be in christ. Therefore U must repent of your sins, ask for forgivess, & surrender & submitt to the Lordship of Jesus, otherwise your prayers are not going to be effective. For when U are in Christ, satan has to back down.
Say this prayer: father, I submitt myself to U in the name of Jesus. I want to be free of this false pride, fear, insecure fealings I have, pleaser of man, rejection, & wants acceptance of others. I denounce pride, fear, rejection & my participation & activity in agreement with satan. I humble myself before U father to forgive me. I want my confident to be in U. The next opportunity I get, I am going to please U, not friends or others to impress or to be accepted by them. I am accepted by U, father. I want to walk in the way U want me to walk in Jesus name.
Father, I pray that this young man/woman will come to know that his/her self worth is in U & your words. His/her identity is not of this world, & the world standard, but in Christ Jesus. Father send godly men/women who will help to build up his/her faith in U.