Apaiteleus
Disciple of Prayer
Me and my girlfriend started the relationship in 2018… it is almost 5 years now. Until 2020 everything was super cool. Her parents are separated so she always wanted me and was addicted to me. She couldn’t even stay without contacting me a single hour. We met and go on dates always. We had good sex always. She introduced me to her family, friends, and everyone in her circle. In 2020 there was a friend of mine who was having feelings toward me and I didn’t know about that… and I used to be with her as a friend always. My girlfriend didn’t like her at all and was very jealous when the friend is near me. Day by day this friend calls me, meets me on midnight, but to be honest, I said each and everything what the friend told and did to my girlfriend. Then she gets mad and yells at me to stop her from contacting me. I didn’t care that at all because I have no feelings towards the friend because I sincerely loved her. Time passes and it is 2021 and still my girlfriend is always fighting with me to stop talking with that friend. It became a tough situation where I even couldn’t focus on my business… so I met my girlfriend one day and said it really hard for me to go like this so let’s decrease our relationship level (not breakup but only a few phone calls, a few dates), but she refused but I forced her to do it. Then I was happy because now no one is yelling at me and no toxic. So I had time to focus on my business and then that friend still had feelings towards me but I still loved my girlfriend. After a few weeks, I settled my mindset fresh and I went to meet my girlfriend then I found out that she thought that I have cheated on her with my friend so that’s why I decreased the relationship level. I couldn’t convince her. Then I got to know that she has started a new relationship with an unknown guy. Then I got shocked and begged, pleaded to get her back… but nothing worked out; she blocked me everywhere. I am sure it is a rebound. Then in the beginning of 2022, I again went behind her and begged to come back saying I fully removed that friend from my life. But she is not ready to listen to anything. I begged and pleaded for several weeks and she went so far away from me. Then I stopped begging and started no contact for 2 weeks and then suddenly after 2 weeks she started phoning me and wanted to see and meet me. I was so happy and went on dates with her. But still, I know she is not fully into me yet. Some days she would say let’s marry soon and again some days she would say I still am not ready for a relationship so don’t keep hopes. Now currently she is still talking with strangers but no love. She wants to talk with me always but doesn’t have sexual feelings towards me. She had sex only with me for the last time and said she doesn’t feel anyone to have sex. It’s been a year since she had last sex. Now she is giving me mixed signals. One day hot, the other day cold. Sometimes she says she wants to marry me and starts dreaming about our marriage life and again the next day she will say I have no feelings towards love so let’s wait and see if it’s meant to be it will be… Can anyone help me in this situation? What should I do? I know she doesn’t love anyone else as me and she cannot stay without me… How can I get her back to spark the sexual feelings back and make her come behind me and start a new relationship again with me? How can I do it???
