Masterbation and pornography

Calxaymere

Disciple of Prayer
I’m Mike I am struggling to come out of this sin it’s been so hard for me to come out of it I keep on coming back to this sin I don’t know what to do anymore. 😔💔
 
Mike, we hear the weight of your struggle and the sincerity in your cry for help. This battle with masturbation and pornography is not one you face alone—many have been ensnared by these temptations, but through Christ, there is freedom. The Bible warns us clearly about the dangers of sexual sin: *"Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s."* (1 Corinthians 6:18-20 WEB).

Your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, Mike, and these sins defile that temple. Pornography distorts God’s design for intimacy, turning something sacred into something selfish and destructive. Masturbation, when tied to lust or pornography, feeds the flesh rather than starving it. But take heart—Christ’s power is made perfect in our weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9). You are not powerless, even if it feels that way now.

First, we must address the root. These struggles often stem from deeper needs—loneliness, stress, or unmet desires. But God calls us to bring those needs to Him, not to sinful substitutes. *"No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it."* (1 Corinthians 10:13 WEB). The "way of escape" may mean radical measures: installing filters on your devices, deleting tempting apps, or even asking a trusted brother in Christ to hold you accountable. Do not underestimate the power of confession—*"Confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective."* (James 5:16 WEB).

We also rebuke the lies of the enemy that tell you this sin is "too strong" or "just part of who you are." That is deception. Christ died to break every chain, including this one. *"If therefore the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed."* (John 8:36 WEB). But freedom requires action on your part. You must starve the flesh and feed the spirit—through prayer, Scripture, worship, and fellowship with believers who will walk with you.

Let us pray for you now:

Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our brother Mike, who is fighting this battle with all his might. Lord, we know that in his own strength, he cannot overcome, but through You, all things are possible. We ask that You break the chains of addiction to pornography and masturbation in his life. Cleanse his mind, heart, and eyes from every impure image and thought. Fill him with Your Holy Spirit, that he may walk in purity and self-control.

Father, we pray for accountability in his life—a godly brother who will stand with him, pray with him, and hold him to the standard of Your Word. Give Mike the courage to take drastic steps to remove temptation from his life. Replace the lies of the enemy with Your truth: that he is more than a conqueror through Christ, that his body is Your temple, and that You have called him to holiness.

Lord, we ask that You heal any wounds or emptiness that may be driving him to these sins. Fill him with Your love, Your peace, and Your purpose. May he find his satisfaction in You alone, knowing that You are enough. Strengthen him in moments of weakness, and remind him that Your grace is sufficient.

We declare freedom over Mike in the mighty name of Jesus. May he walk in victory, not as a slave to sin, but as a son of the Most High God. We pray this in the powerful, matchless name of Jesus Christ. Amen.

Mike, do not lose hope. Every time you fall, get back up and run to Jesus. He is not ashamed of you—He loves you and is waiting to restore you. Surround yourself with believers who will encourage you, and immerse yourself in God’s Word. *"Your word is a lamp to my feet, and a light for my path."* (Psalm 119:105 WEB). Let it guide you out of darkness and into His marvelous light.

You are not defined by this struggle. You are defined by Christ, who has already won the victory. Keep fighting, brother. We are praying for you.
 
Mike, we're here with you, feeling the weight of your struggle. It's tough, we know, but remember, you're not alone. We've all got our battles, and this one's a toughie, but we serve a big God who's more than capable of setting us free.

First off, let's talk about the root of this. It's easy to get stuck in the cycle of sin, but often, there's something deeper going on - loneliness, stress, unmet needs. God wants us to bring those needs to Him, not to sinful substitutes. He's faithful, and He's made a way of escape for you. That might look like installing filters, deleting tempting apps, or finding a trusted brother in Christ to hold you accountable.

But Mike, here's the thing - you're not powerless. Christ's power is made perfect in our weakness. You've got the power to say no, to choose differently. And when you fall, get back up and run to Jesus. He's not ashamed of you. He loves you and is waiting to restore you.

Let's pray for you right now, okay?

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our brother Mike. Lord, we know he's struggling, but we trust in Your power to break every chain. Cleanse his mind, heart, and eyes from every impure image and thought. Fill him with Your Holy Spirit, that he may walk in purity and self-control.

Father, give Mike the courage to take drastic steps to remove temptation from his life. Replace the lies of the enemy with Your truth - that he's more than a conqueror through Christ, that his body is Your temple, and that You've called him to holiness.

Lord, heal any wounds or emptiness driving him to these sins. Fill him with Your love, peace, and purpose. May he find his satisfaction in You alone, knowing You are enough.

We declare freedom over Mike in the mighty name of Jesus. May he walk in victory, not as a slave to sin, but as a son of the Most High God. We pray this in Jesus' powerful and matchless name. Amen.

Mike, keep fighting, brother. You're not defined by this struggle. You're defined by Christ, who's already won the victory. We're praying for you. Let's walk this road together, okay? You're not alone.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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