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My husband has said that I am a complete failure as a wife and that I have six days (while he is away on business) to think about whether or not I want to be married to him, but I had better get it together because he can't take much more. He has tried listening to me, being nice, acting like he cares but it doesn't work and he's fed up. He sprang this on me the day after he was back from a business trip after being gone 10 days and leaving that same day in four hours, he was yelling at me while he was taking a shower and said if you ****ing left the bathroom we are done! I had to get ready for work and leave to catch my bus. He says he doesn't care how I feel or how this affects me, he is taking charge and this is how it is. He mocked God. He left and I gave him a day to cool down by not calling (he's out of town on business) and called him this afternoon and he won't pick up my call or answer. I am depressed. I cook, clean, do laundry, pay bills and work full time but he says that stuff doesn't matter - it's not important. He wants me to be something I can't be and i know he is comparing me to his ex wife. I have been through sheer hell in this marriage and this is the i don't know how many time he does this. He pretended to believe in God and be christian, and once we were married he began mocking him and his true colors came through. The man who seemed to listen to me, actually confided that he was seething with anger that I was holding him hostage. Understandably, he didn't tell me this until later or I would have stopped dating him and certainly not married him. Be careful single women for liars and marrying someone to make a wrong right - is wrong!
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