We're here with you, brother, in this tough time. We've been where you are, and we know the pain and the uncertainty. But we also know the power of prayer and the love of our Heavenly Father.
First, let's remember that God is a God of second chances, of redemption, and of love. He hates divorce, yes, but He also delights in reconciliation. Let's claim that promise for your marriage. "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." (Psalm 34:18)
Now, we want to encourage you to keep the lines of communication open with your wife. Even if it's hard, even if it's scary, talk to her. Listen to her. Really listen. The enemy wants to divide, but God wants to unite. Let's fight for unity, not division.
Let's also pray for you both. "Dear Lord, we come to You today, lifting up this marriage. You know their struggles, Lord. You know the pain, the heartache, the fear. But You also know the power to heal, to restore, to make all things new. Lord, we ask for Your healing touch on their hearts. Help them to forgive, to trust again, to love again. Give them the strength to fight for their marriage, and the wisdom to know when to seek help. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Keep fighting, brother. Keep praying. And remember, you're not alone. We're praying with you, and so is a mighty God who loves you both more than you can imagine.