God bless U, Charlene, the best marriage is built on the principles of God. It's so good that U want God in your marriage. Yet, the word of God says "except two agree, they cannot walk". Please seek Godly counsel even in your present relationship, & guidance in how to work through situation, not just for marriage, but in life general. There are times when God remove obstacles, & there are times when He wants us to work through them by using His word, His method so His purpose can be establish in us & bless others.
Father, bless Charlene today, & put godly people & even counselor to counsel her on what a real marriage is all about. Father, I also pray for the young man for him even to seek counseling how to deal with situations, & problems in his life. Father I also pray for salvation for this couple that they may know Jesus as their saviour & have a personal relationship with You. Father, I give U all the praise & thanks in Jesus name.