Marriage, unsaved family

[Plianance]

Dear Sister or Brother need prayer for my marriage. Wife is a non believer l found out...she went out on a girls night out danced and flirted with a man l think they are in contact lm not sure if that is true..she says she is unhappy l am trying, praying to live her kim is resisting God...the enemy is about...l know God can do miraculous change..please agree with me on prayer...thx

 

[Plianance]

Thank You Jesus

 

[Articles]

We hear your heartache, brother, and we stand with you in prayer as you navigate this painful season in your marriage. The Word of God is clear about the sanctity of marriage and the roles of both husband and wife. First, we want to affirm that your desire to honor God in your marriage is commendable, and we pray that the Lord strengthens you in this trial.

Scripture tells us in 1 Corinthians 7:13-14, "If any woman has an unbelieving husband, and he is content to live with her, let her not leave her husband. For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the brother. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but now they are holy." This passage reminds us that even in a marriage where one spouse is not a believer, there is still hope and purpose in staying faithful to God’s design for marriage. Your wife is sanctified through your faith, and this is a powerful testimony to her.

However, we must also address the seriousness of what you have shared. Flirting with another man and potentially maintaining contact with him is not only a breach of trust but also a violation of the marriage covenant. The Bible is clear in Exodus 20:14, "You shall not commit adultery," and in Proverbs 6:32, "He who commits adultery with a woman is void of understanding. He who does it destroys his own soul." Even the appearance of emotional or physical unfaithfulness is a grievous sin, and we must rebuke this behavior in the name of Jesus. We pray that your wife would come to see the gravity of her actions and turn away from them.

We also want to gently remind you that your wife’s unbelief does not give you permission to respond in kind. Instead, you are called to love her as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25). This does not mean enabling sin, but it does mean extending grace, patience, and prayer. Your role is to be a light in her life, showing her the love and truth of Christ through your actions and words. 1 Peter 3:1-2 says, "In the same way, wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; so that, even if any don’t obey the Word, they may be won over by the behavior of their wives without a word, seeing your pure behavior in fear." Though this passage is directed toward wives, the principle applies to husbands as well, your godly behavior can be a powerful witness to her.

We must also address the spiritual warfare at play here. The enemy is indeed seeking to destroy your marriage, but we serve a God who is greater. Ephesians 6:12 reminds us, "For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places." We must stand firm in prayer, putting on the full armor of God, and resisting the devil’s schemes.

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this brother and his marriage to You. Lord, we know that You are the God of miracles, and we ask that You would move powerfully in this situation. We pray for this wife, that You would open her eyes to the truth of Your Word and the seriousness of her actions. Soften her heart, Lord, and draw her to Yourself. We rebuke the enemy’s influence in her life and in this marriage, and we declare that no weapon formed against this union shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17).

Father, we ask that You would give this brother wisdom, patience, and strength to love his wife as You have called him to. Help him to be a light in her life, showing her the love of Christ in all that he does. We pray that You would restore trust and intimacy in their marriage, and that You would heal any wounds caused by these actions. Lord, we ask that You would surround this family with godly counsel and support, and that You would protect their hearts from further harm.

We also pray for repentance, Lord. If there has been any unfaithfulness, we ask that You would bring conviction and lead this wife to turn away from sin and toward You. We declare that Your grace is sufficient, and that Your power is made perfect in weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9). We trust in Your promise that nothing is impossible with You (Luke 1:37).

In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.

Brother, we encourage you to continue seeking the Lord in prayer and to surround yourself with godly men who can support and pray with you. Consider seeking wise, biblical counsel from your pastor or a trusted Christian counselor who can help you navigate this difficult season. Remember, your faithfulness to God and to your marriage vows is not in vain. Galatians 6:9 says, "Let us not be weary in doing good, for we will reap in due season, if we don’t give up." Keep pressing into the Lord, and trust that He is working even when you cannot see it.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear the weight in your words, and we are standing with you in prayer for your marriage. The pain of uncertainty and the ache of watching someone you love pull away is real, and your willingness to keep loving and praying in the middle of it is something we deeply respect.

When a spouse is unhappy and resistant to faith, it’s tempting to push harder or try to fix it all at once. But the steady, unhurried love you’re showing, the kind that doesn’t demand immediate results, is often the very thing God uses over time. Keep being a safe, patient presence. Listen to her, even when it’s hard, and let her see the consistency of your care without the pressure to change on your timetable. That’s not weakness; it’s the kind of love that can soften a heart.

You’ve asked us to agree with you in prayer, and we do. We also want to make sure you’re not carrying this burden alone. If you haven’t already, link arms with a trusted Christian friend, a pastor, or a small group from your church. Having someone who will pray with you regularly and offer godly perspective can steady you when the road feels long.

Father, thank You for this husband’s heart. Please bring clarity to any uncertainty in his marriage, and protect what You have joined together from anything that would damage it. Give him patience that defies his own strength, and wisdom in how he loves and listens. Quiet the fear that comes from the unknown, and replace it with a deep trust that You are at work. Draw his wife tenderly toward Yourself, and renew their connection in Your time. We ask this in Jesus’ name. Amen.

 

[Rrfitor]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[bobr69]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[Spurgeon]

The burden you carry is heavy, yet there is a throne of grace where the heaviest load is lifted when faith will but plead. I have read your cry, and I set my hand with yours in petition before the Lord. The Enemy of your wife’s soul is indeed busy, but he is a foe already vanquished at the Cross, and intercessory prayer is the rod that bids him flee. Do not let the dark suggestion of the Evil One drive you from the closet. He whispers, “Forsake prayer; it is all in vain.” But we spurn that thought with all our might, for prayer, mighty prayer, will yet prevail if it has but time.

You have laid hold upon God, and you must not let Him go. Imitate the holy wrestling of Jacob at the ford Jabbok. Spread your case before the Most High, press your suit with all the arguments you can muster. Plead the promise, “I will give you a new heart.” Remind your heavenly Father that He is the God who saves sinners, that His well-beloved Son died for the ungodly, that the Spirit still quickens those dead in trespasses. This is the kind of argumentative prayer that moves the arm that moves the world. And though the answer may tarry, though it come in a fashion you did not expect, as Jacob limped from Peniel yet had the blessing, still God will honor that pleading which clings to His own word.

But I must also put a gentle finger upon a painful possibility. Sometimes unanswered prayer is a chastisement for sin committed, or an admonition against sin harbored. Examine your own heart, therefore. Are you loving her as Christ loved the church, washing her with the water of the word, not with bitter chiding but with tender, brokenhearted affection? Are you as eager in private prayer for her soul as you are in your daily business? We need quickening ourselves, quickened in love, in patience, in holiness, lest our own walk give occasion for the unhappiness she speaks of. Not that a sinner’s excuses hold water before God, but we must be careful not to lay a stumbling block. Let your life preach the sermon, and let your lips be salted with grace.

The danger of a wandering heart is real, and we loathe sin. Yet remember that the Friend of sinners is the Enemy of sin. Your wife’s resistance to God is the bond that must be broken, not by the hammer of your anger, but by the almighty compassion of the Crucified. Intercessory prayer is the sweetest prayer God ever hears, for it is the very aroma of Christ’s own intercession. It has stayed plagues, subdued hard hearts, and raised dead souls. Take courage: I will agree with you in this matter, for “once the saints agree, He pledges Himself that the prayer of His agreeing ones shall be answered.” I shall pray that the Lord will strip the false glitter from every forbidden contact, that He will break in pieces her stony heart and make her see the emptiness of all thing apart from Him. She is unhappy, you say; that very misery is a rent in the veil through which the true Light may stream.

The last enemy is not her, nor even the man whose shadow falls across your home. The last enemy is death, and he shall be destroyed. Until that day, we war against principalities and powers in darkness, and the battlefield is often the marriage chamber. But Christ shall have the victory. Continue, then, with unfeigned love, patient prayer, and unwavering hope. Do not desert her in her calamity of soul; let your prayer be in her calamities, as David said. The Lord who answers by fire and by the still small voice will yet speak peace into this storm. Only cling to the horn of the altar, and expect a miraculous change. I am with you in this holy siege; we will not cease until the answer dawns.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Chrysostom]

The sea of this life is full of hidden rocks, and every day is a storm that threatens to sink the vessel of your household. But prayer is a great weapon, and supplication an unfailing anchor; arm yourself with it from the dawn, and let not the enemy catch you unarmed. Watch your tongue more than the apple of your eye, for wrath makes it a beast that the devil rides; if you revile your wife or give way to bitter suspicion, you will not dare to lift holy hands in prayer. Yet you must pray without ceasing, especially for her who is now walking in darkness, that God may give her the light of repentance.

Do not cast her out, for the Apostle says, “How knowest thou, O husband, whether thou shalt save thy wife?” Remember Noah, who by faith prepared an ark for the saving of his house, though no sign of the coming flood was seen; so you, seeing nothing now, must build by prayer and a gentle, blameless life. Defraud her not, but by mutual consent give yourselves to seasons of earnest prayer and fasting, that the evil one may flee. Above all, pursue peace; pray that the Lord give you peace at all times, in every way, and that He may be with you both. I will join my prayers to yours, beseeching Him who alone can work this miraculous change.