Marriage Strength

[lizowens]

Dear friends, I do not want to be selfish in any way but today I am the one who needs your prayers. For whatever the reason, the pain and hurt is for whatever reason overwhelming these last couple of days. I am in a place where I do not know wether to continue in this battle or not. Every time I talk to my husband he confuses me by the things he says about me, and him, and his love for me, but the next sentence is about him and his new girlfriend, one day she is nothing to him and the next he calls her his girlfriend. Please pray for me, pray the Lord will give me some kind of sign on what he needs from me, wants me to do right now, and how long do I have to hurt like this. I shake, I am sick to my stomache, and my throat and chest are aching from the stress and tension. Please pray for some intervention and for some kind of relief of the emotional strain, I pray everyday to God to get me through this, ease the heartache, soften the pain, anything. I need some confirmation from the Lord as to what is what, if I do not stand in agreement and fill in the gap for Don, and my marriage, who will, he already says he feels so alone, even though I am right here.

I sooooo need your prayers today, Father God do not let me give up on you, on myself, on Don, or on my marriage, please Father keep me close, closer than you ever have before, amen.

 

[Dion]

lord pls left up liz today and stop her pain and clearly show her what see sould do.and calm her as this is alot to take.lord my you bless this prayer......in jesus name amen

 

[ronniefrank2003]

hey liz, earlier this week I felt the same way. I was ready to give up, I even prayed that I not wake up the next day.

I thank God that he sent his angels to me in the form of fellow standers and sent the Holy spirit to me.

We have to remember the when things get that bad most likely we are about to have a miracle break through.

As hard as it is try to remember that our spouses have been taken capitive, be angry at satan not Don.

I had to imagine satan just sitting in a chair laughing at me because he thought he was about to claim victory.

Fight just one more day liz. Then try to fight one more, and so on, until Don come home.

 

[november0105]

Lord, I pray for Liz and her husband Don. Give her enough strength to be strong in this battle. Please shower Your blessing in their marriage. In Jesus name. Amen.

 

[lizowens]

Ronnie, I am just having such a hard time competeing with his "friend" one minute he laughs at me and says it is funny how i make "So Much More" than what it is, and the next he says "so what I have a new girlfreind". How do I compete, I love this man so much, everytime I see, think, or hear his name the tears pour before I can stop them. I hurt sooooooooo bad alllllll the time, I need God's help and guidence. He is 45, she is in her late 20's with 2 SMALL boys, and I do not know what she has that keeps him going on like this, and I ask God every day to PLEASE remove her, then maybe, maybe we could connect, but as long as she is in the picture I do not know what to do.

 

[ronniefrank2003]

hey Liz, sorry it took so long for me to get back to you.

Remember a couple of things.

It doesn't matter if our spouses are involved with other people or not. Its not our jobs to worry (as hard as it might be), to remove them or to compete with them. That is what we are having faith in our all powerful God to do. Not only will he do that for us but he will do it the right way.

We both know that your husband and my wife have both been deceived and taken captive by satan. The things that we are seeing and they are saying are designed by the enemy to take our spouses to hell and to make us give up on praying for their salvation and for our marriages. Even though the actions we see are physically being acted out by our spouses the temporary puppet master is the enemy.

Both of us are in so much pain because we feel so abandoned and betrayed by our spouses. It feels like every part of our hearts are being ripped apart and no matter what we do we continue to feel the pain almost every minute of the day. Our stomachs feel sick, our hearts seem to beat so hard we can feel them in our throats and it seems like we just want to cry all day. Does that sound familiar? I know how you feel but we both have to remember that attempting to "compete" with the other person or "convince" our spouses here in the physical world isnt going to work. Our families were taken by having their spirits attacked so thats how we have to win them back, by spiritually fighting. Pray, stand, and fight in the prayer closet. Remember this isnt our battle to fight, its the Lords, and the minute we asked for healing it was done in the spirit. Our only part of the fight is to pray, wait, and continue to have faith in our Lord.

NOTHING is to big for our lord. No relationship, no ones will, no ones sin. NOTHING.

 

[Alma-Lluvia]

Liz, I am amazed at Ronnie's words, he is far much wisher...he is right, there is nothing you could do but pray and Thank God and Praise him....you are not letting God work in the situation, you are so caught up in DON. Don is your world right now...you need to let him go. You know God is a jealous God and you making DON your every step, you are sick, you can not eat, you can not sleep all this means you are not trusting God because of DON. Believe me I have been there and done that and I could tell you right now, I have no idea WHY I loved that man so much and why I got sick. I could tell you that God chose a different man for me and I tell you I could now look at my daughters father and say "You cried for that poor sould"...? I would not trade what I have now for him. He made my life so misserable and now I am in heaven. I begged God to keep us together and he went on with life like if nothing. Oh, how could God be so mean!... but you know what...? we serve a Good God and this is not what he wants for you, Ronnie or me. He has some thing far better. Stop making Don your world and Make God your world and things will change...it may not be what you want but it will be some thing far better. I love you all...Keep the head up! You are in my prayers.

 

[nomorbrik]

My heart is breaking for you. I will pray for to have the strength to make it through today. Take one day at a time. I will pray for your husband to realize the many blessings in his life. Dear heavenly father please take care of this family--wrap your arms around this marriage and bless this couple.

 

[lizowens]

Amen Hope, I hear what you are saying, I refuse to let any discouragement come into my mind in fighting for my marriage, and I believe after my confirmation last night, God WILL reunite Don and I, so I am going to just hold on to God only, and keep my faith, and hope in the Lord, and it will be a glorious reunion between myself and my Don, when God is ready, I am prepared to hold onto my britches, because it's gonna be BIG and BEAUTIFUL, when he makes his move in our lives, I cannot hardly wait, but I know I have to, AMEN, GLORY TO GOD, HE HAS SPOKEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!