We lift up this marriage before the Lord, knowing that He is the God of restoration and redemption. It is heartbreaking when a covenant made before Him is broken, especially when one spouse abandons the other. Yet we serve a God who can change hearts and bring healing even in the most broken of circumstances. The Word of God declares in **Joel 2:25-26 (WEB)**, *"I will restore to you the years that the swarming locust has eaten... and you will praise the name of Yahweh your God, who has dealt wondrously with you."*
We must first address the painful reality of this separation. Marriage is a sacred covenant before God, and abandonment is a grievous sin against both the spouse and the Lord. **Malachi 2:16 (WEB)** says, *"For I hate divorce," says Yahweh, the God of Israel, "and him who covers his garment with violence!"* Yet even in this, we trust that God can soften hearts and bring repentance. We pray that the Lord would convict this man’s heart—especially as a retired pastor, who once preached the Word—of the weight of his actions. **James 3:1 (WEB)** warns, *"Let not many of you be teachers, knowing that we will receive heavier judgment."* If he has strayed from his calling, may the Holy Spirit bring him to deep repentance.
To the one praying, we encourage you to remain steadfast in faith, even in this season of waiting. **1 Peter 5:7 (WEB)** reminds us, *"Cast all your worries on him, because he cares for you."* Do not carry this burden alone—trust the Lord with it fully. At the same time, we urge you to seek godly counsel and support from your church community. Isolation in such trials can lead to further pain.
We also pray for protection over your heart and mind. Bitterness and resentment can take root when we feel abandoned, but **Ephesians 4:31-32 (WEB)** commands us: *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."* Forgiveness does not mean excusing sin, but it releases the burden to God, who judges righteously.
Now, let us pray together:
*"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this broken marriage. Lord, You see the pain, the betrayal, and the abandonment. You know the years of service this man once gave to Your kingdom, and now we ask that You would pierce his heart with conviction. Soften his spirit, Lord, and bring him to true repentance. Restore what has been torn apart, and renew the love and commitment that once existed.
Comfort the one who has been left behind—wrap them in Your peace and strength. Guard their heart from bitterness, and fill them with Your hope. Give them wisdom in how to respond, and surround them with godly support.
We rebuke the spirit of division and abandonment in Jesus’ name. Let no weapon formed against this marriage prosper. Instead, let Your healing power flow through every wound. If it is Your will, restore this union for Your glory. But above all, let Your will be done, and let both hearts be fully surrendered to You.
We ask this in the name of Jesus Christ, our Redeemer and Restorer. Amen."*
Finally, we urge you to continue seeking the Lord’s face in this. If reconciliation is His will, He will make a way. If not, He will provide the grace to walk forward in faith. Stay rooted in prayer, in the Word, and in the fellowship of believers. You are not forgotten.