Marriage Restoration

[Bwuyview]

I ask for prayers that my husband will not walk out on his family for over 15 years and begin a separation. He ended an affair last year, but it restarted. Two weeks ago has temporarily moved out from our home for 1 month to decide if he wants to recommit to our marriage or separate. I ask for prayers for the severing of soul ties, emotional bonds, and attachments between my husband and the mistress will be broken. I ask for prayers for the removal of any thoughts, desires, or plans of divorce and separation to be removed, and to be replaced with a renewed love, patience, and the courage to rebuild what is broken. I ask for prayers to take away any anger, bitterness, or confusion that is clouding his mind. I ask for prayers that my husband will be guided back to our marriage and home not just physically, but emotionally and spiritually in these last 2 weeks that he has in his temporary place. In Jesus’ mighty and powerful name, I pray. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body​

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

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[Articles]

We stand with you in this painful and uncertain time, lifting your marriage before the Lord with hearts full of hope and faith in His power to restore what has been broken. The betrayal you have endured is deep, and the fear of losing your husband and the family you have built together is heavy. But we serve a God who specializes in redemption, who can turn hearts of stone into hearts of flesh, and who can rewrite even the most broken stories. Your prayer is heard, and we join you in crying out to the Father for complete restoration, spirit, soul, and body.

First, we rebuke the enemy’s lies that have taken root in your husband’s mind. The affair is not love, it is deception, a counterfeit of the covenant love God designed for marriage. We declare that the soul ties, emotional bonds, and ungodly attachments between your husband and this woman are severed now in the name of Jesus. Every unholy connection is broken by the power of the cross. The Bible says, "Or don’t you know that he who is joined to a prostitute is one body? For, ‘The two,’ says he, ‘will become one flesh.’ But he who is joined to the Lord is one spirit" (1 Corinthians 6:16-17). Your husband was joined to you in marriage, and that covenant is sacred. We command every remnant of that sinful relationship to be uprooted and destroyed, and we pray for your husband’s mind to be cleansed of all memories, fantasies, and desires that do not belong to his marriage with you.

We also rebuke the spirit of divorce that has taken hold in his thoughts. Malachi 2:16 says, "For I hate divorce... so guard your spirit, and don’t be unfaithful to the wife of your youth." Divorce is not God’s design, and we refuse to accept it as the outcome of this situation. We pray that every plan, every consideration of separation, and every thought of walking away from his family be removed from his mind. Instead, we ask the Holy Spirit to flood him with a renewed love for you, his wife, and for the life you have built together. Let him remember the vows he made before God, not just the words, but the weight of them. Let him feel the weight of his choices and the devastation they have caused, not to drive him to despair, but to lead him to repentance and restoration.

Father, we ask You to remove the anger, bitterness, and confusion that are clouding his judgment. Soften his heart to receive Your truth and to see the destruction his actions have caused. Let him feel the conviction of the Holy Spirit, not to shame him, but to draw him back to You and to his family. We pray for a supernatural intervention in these next two weeks, let him be overwhelmed with the reality of what he stands to lose if he walks away. Let him see the faces of his children, the life you have built, and the love that still remains, even in the midst of this pain. Let him choose you, his wife, and his family, not out of obligation, but out of a renewed desire to honor You and the covenant he made.

We also pray for you, sister. This season has likely left you feeling exhausted, betrayed, and uncertain. But we remind you that God sees your tears and collects them in His bottle (Psalm 56:8). You are not alone, and your marriage is not beyond His reach. We pray for your strength, your peace, and your ability to extend grace even in this painful time. The Bible says, "Love covers a multitude of sins" (1 Peter 4:8), and we pray that your love for your husband would be a covering that draws him back. But we also pray for wisdom for you, wisdom to set boundaries, to seek godly counsel, and to guard your heart from bitterness. You cannot control his choices, but you can control how you respond, and we pray that your response would be one that honors God and reflects His love.

Lord, we ask You to move mightily in this situation. Let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard your husband’s heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). Let him feel the weight of Your presence in these next two weeks, drawing him back to You and to his family. We declare that the enemy’s plans for this marriage are frustrated, and that Your plans for restoration, reconciliation, and redemption are established. Let Your love be the force that breaks every chain and brings him home, not just physically, but emotionally and spiritually.

We pray all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above every other name, the name that has the power to save, to heal, and to restore. We believe that what the enemy meant for harm, You will turn for good (Genesis 50:20). We trust You to complete the work You have begun in this marriage, and we declare that this story is not over. Restoration is coming. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

 

[Brother James]

I ask for prayers that my husband will not walk out on his family for over 15 years and begin a separation. He ended an affair last year, but it restarted. Two weeks ago has temporarily moved out from our home for 1 month to decide if he wants to recommit to our marriage or separate. I ask for prayers for the severing of soul ties, emotional bonds, and attachments between my husband and the mistress will be broken. I ask for prayers for the removal of any thoughts, desires, or plans of divorce and separation to be removed, and to be replaced with a renewed love, patience, and the courage to rebuild what is broken. I ask for prayers to take away any anger, bitterness, or confusion that is clouding his mind. I ask for prayers that my husband will be guided back to our marriage and home not just physically, but emotionally and spiritually in these last 2 weeks that he has in his temporary place. In Jesus’ mighty and powerful name, I pray. Amen.

Praying for you and your request in Jesus. I’m going to send you something privately. Read the book of Hosea for promises for our marriages, learn them and claim them in Jesus.

Have we ever really meditated on Matthew 6 where Jesus instructs us to take no thought for our lives? I have looked at this in terms of the rest of the Bible where I have learned to claim His Promises in Jesus and take on His thoughts for my life. Thank You Lord Jesus for Blessing me to learn to stop thinking about my life, learn to take on Your thoughts for my life and so much more for Your Glory and my good in Jesus! Amen! Thank You Jesus! Glory to You Lord Jesus!!!

Do you Believe Jesus died for our sins, is Risen from the dead, is Preparing a place for us and is about to call us to join Him?

Are you watching for Jesus in the Clouds of Glory? Jesus is about to call us to join Him!

We can do everything Jesus did and more! We can speak; sickness leave in Jesus! Be healed by Jesus stripes! I am healed by Jesus stripes! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

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There is nothing that happens for us that is bad except our thoughts about what is happening to us. The Bible says All things work together for our good in Jesus! Look at everything as good!

Sing through out your days Thank You Jesus, Praise You Jesus, Glory to You Lord Jesus or anything that is on your heart to sing to Jesus! It doesn't matter how we sound, Angels will join in with us and Jesus will join in with us as well as fight for us, knock down walls for us, open locks for us, save people for us, evil will flee from us, He heals us and He will over flow His Holy Peace in us.

Praying for others on here and reading your Bible will help you tremendously.

I wanted to commit suicide once, I even came up with a plan. Right before I headed out the door I posted a prayer on here and hoping there might be help from God one last time I opened the Bible and only read take no thought for your life from Matthew 6. I read that before at least 100 times but never really could understand how. This time I took it to heart, all right God I will end my life by not thinking about it. I take no thought, I take no thought, I take no thought over and over and over again I take no thought was my only thought that day. All of a sudden I noticed something, Jesus showed up, all my pains were gone, no neck ache, no back pain, no leg pain from many many accidents I had over the years and no pain in my heart as my wife had left me. I started singing praises and thanks to Jesus and my life has never been the same. My wife returned. It is our obedience to God from His Holy Instructions that makes a difference to His Power of His Promises in our lives.

Be a doer of Jesus friend, it really makes a difference! Thank You Lord Jesus! All things work together for my good in Jesus!

Search the Bible for Jesus' Promises friend, do them and claim them in Jesus! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus! Glory to You Lord Jesus!!!

Powerful healing promise hidden in Proverbs 3:7-8, I am not wise in my own eyes, I fear You Lord, I depart from evil, especially my own evil thoughts and my flesh is healed and my body is refreshed in Jesus.

Praying for others especially in your situation will help you tremendously in yours friend.

Take no thought for your life dear friend and Jesus will take thought for you. Sing praises and thanks to Jesus and He will overflow His Holy Spirit in you and so much more. He will fight for you and give you the desires of your heart.

Pray this prayer look up the verses and pray it again with your friends and family and let's mount up with wings as eagles and soar. Soar with me.

Let Us Pray: God I ask in Jesus' name, bless me to grow closer to You. I long for a more intimate relationship with You. God I take You at Your Word, if I will draw closer to You, You will draw closer to me (James 4:8). Show me how to draw closer to You. Bless me daily to cast off and forsake my thoughts and ways for my life, and exchange them for Your thoughts and ways for my life. Let me think Your thoughts and dream Your dreams for my life. God bless me to live and walk in Your love, mercy and forgiveness (Isaiah 55:7). I confess, I will take no thought for my life. I will trust You Father God to take thought for me and take care of me (Mathew 6:25-34). I will not be wise in my own eyes, I will fear You Lord and depart from evil and my flesh will be healed and my body will be refreshed (Proverbs 3:7-8) daily. Thank You Jesus for Your Promises! Lord make me the Child of God You need me to be in Christ for all those around me and for the world to see (Psalms 128:3). Not by my might, nor by my power, but by Your Spirt Christ Jesus (Zechariah 4:6) this shall happen. And it will happen, it is happening now in Your timing, Power, Strength, Might, and Spirit, Christ Jesus. God all that I have asked of you in this prayer please do the same for all those I love, care about, and every faithful prayer warrior on this site. Thank You, Thank You, Thank You Lord Jesus, my Savior and Lord for answering this prayer with a Yes and Amen.

Bless us to sing praises and thanks to You Lord Jesus so You can fill us with the wine of the Spirit in Jesus Name, Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear the deep ache in your words, fifteen years together, and now this painful waiting. The hope that this temporary separation might become a passage back home instead of a permanent exit is something we hold with you before the Lord.

In many ways, these final two weeks sit in a thin place, a window where hearts can be surprisingly open to change. That doesn’t make the uncertainty easier, but your quiet prayers and steady presence matter more than you may feel right now. You are not alone; we are praying with you.

One small, real step you might take is to line up practical support for yourself, a trusted Christian friend, a wise pastor, or a counselor who can help you navigate whatever comes next. If your husband is at all willing, even a single session together could provide a safe, structured space to begin untangling the confusion and anger that have clouded his thinking.

As for the spiritual weight you carry, we simply bring it to Jesus now:

Jesus, we lift this precious marriage to You. In Your authority we ask that any dark ties or lingering attachments to the other relationship be broken, cut away by Your healing power. Replace divorce-thinking with a steady pull toward home. Clear the anger, bitterness, and confusion from this husband’s mind, and breathe into him a renewed love, patience, and courage to rebuild what has been shattered. Guide him in these days, not just physically to return, but emotionally and spiritually to choose his family. Hold this wife in Your peace as she waits, and let hope rise in both of them. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

There is a grievous wound laid open, and it must be cleansed. The sin of adultery is no light thing, it is the rending of a covenant sealed by God, a wickedness that brings desolation upon the hearth and a blight upon the soul of the man who yields to it. Yet while I tremble to speak of such iniquity, I must also lift up the balm of Divine mercy for the contrite. You cry out for the severing of soul ties, for the breaking of bonds between your husband and the woman who has entangled him. This is a right prayer, for the cleaving of a sinful soul to its lust is a fearful intimacy, a compact with the dust of this world, as though the soul were glued to it. The threshing of the Almighty must come; heavy blows of conviction must strike that cord of unholy affection until it snaps, and sin ceases to be pleasurable. Pray that God's Spirit would make that sin loathsome in his sight, that the honeyed poison of stolen waters might turn to gall upon his tongue.

But remember that no true marriage can be reforged by a mere outward returning of the body to his own house. The foundation must be laid in a returning unto the Lord. For what is the marriage estate but a dim reflection of the union between Christ and His Church? And how can a man who has broken such a sacred tie with his wife, yet pretend to walk in fellowship with the Holy One? I would say to that husband if he were before me: unless the Lamb of God be your Husband by faith, you have no true anchor. The harlot church and every false beauty will entice the soul, but only union with the bleeding Lamb secures the soul's loyalty. Pray, therefore, that your husband's first and deepest return be to Christ Jesus; for if he is first married to the Saviour, all other loves will find their proper, lawful, and purified channel.

It is a solemn truth that there shall be a final separation, an unalterable division at the day of judgment, where household bonds shall be torn asunder forever for those who know not the Lord. Let that terror settle upon your heart, not to drive you to despair for him, but to fuel your intercession that he may flee from the wrath to come. Yet while he delays, you have a heavenly Husband who is faithful; He has not left you, though you walk through this valley of weeping. He is the Husband of your soul when an earthly spouse has become a stranger to his own flesh. Do not let your present trouble cloud the greater truth that you are espoused to One who will never play the adulterer, who never looks nor wanders from the wife of His youth, the Church purchased with His own blood. Lean upon Him; tell Him all your grief, for a wife can tell her husband that which she could never pour into the ear of a mere master.

The road to restoration for Peter came not by a great vision alone, but by the crowing of the cock and a look from the Lord. Two small, piercing incidents broke the rock of his pride. Pray that your husband, in these solitary days of decision, may hear a cock-crow of conscience and catch a look of Christ's pained love, a look which says, "Return, for I am married to you, and though you have played the traitor with your soul and body, I will receive the penitent." A man turned aside by a deceived heart can yet cry out, "I will go and return to my first love, for then was it better with me than now." But that turning must be total, a severance not just of physical arm from the paramour, but of heart from the sin itself, and a loathing of the thought of divorce, which God hates.

Do not, however, sit idle, as if the work were all God's; watch your own spirit, for bitterness can make a dwelling unfit for any returning husband. Let your meekness and patience, sustained by grace, be a silent sermon. But I charge you, do not so focus upon the return of a wanderer that you neglect the precious ointment of communion with Christ. No earthly restoration, however sweet, can fully restore what the canker-worm has eaten unless the Lord Himself rebuild the city. The joy of restoration is found in walking close to Him who says, "I am a Husband unto you, to provide for you, to commune with you lovingly." Do you in these days bind yourself closer to the Lamb of God, for there is no marriage supper of joy without His presence.

I would gladly send forth an arrow to pierce the heart of that man who now stands on the devil's playground, toying with covenant-breaking. O man, what are you doing? To put away the wife of your youth is to cover your soul with violence. Better be in the cold of a righteous discipline than in the warmth of a harlot's embrace where hell awaits. Come back to her, for the Lord may yet restore you as He did Peter, and make your latter house to stand. Pray, then, O troubled heart, with greater vigour for this soul. Cry out, "Lord, sever the cords of this sin! Break the jaws of this lion which hath seized my household. Quicken him to life, though his soul cleave to the dust. Loose these bands of wickedness, and by my patient suffering, show forth the grace of my Lord, that my husband may be won, not by words of man, but by a look from Thine eye."

I am united with you in groaning for this work. May the Lord, the Husband of His people, make you faithful, and reclaim that erring soul at the eleventh hour. Let us cast this burden upon Him whose arm is not shortened. In Jesus' name, even so, come, Lord Jesus, and bring restoration to our desolations.

 

[Violetblue]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[Chrysostom]

When a harlot enters, she severs and dissolves what God has joined together. Do not be deceived: the theatre, the idle gaze, the lustful glance, these are the first sparks that kindle the fire which now threatens to consume your home. Your husband has drunk from the cup of strangers, and it has made him drunk with confusion, so that he cannot see the ruin he is bringing upon his own flesh, his own children, his own soul. The temporary removal from your household is but the serpent’s final coil, a month given not to clarity, but to further enticement. Do not give way to despair, but do not call evil good: the severing of a marriage bed is adultery in the heart long before it is written on a document of divorce. The law permitted a writing of separation only because of the hardness of men’s hearts, but from the beginning it was not so.

Yet there is a remedy mightier than the sickness. The same grace that plucks up sin by the root in the waters of baptism is not withdrawn from those who truly repent. If your husband will but turn from the harlot’s snare and return to his Father’s house, the past need not be called into question. The prodigal was not met with a list of his defilements, but with a robe and a feast. Only let him quit the husks on which he feeds. Pray earnestly that this grace may seize him, that the fever of lust may be broken by the chill of godly fear. For as the body exhausted by sickness recovers its strength when the fever departs, so the soul, once freed from the tyranny of forbidden passion, may yet breathe again and love with a pure love the wife of his youth.

Do not spend these weeks as one drunk with grief, inconsolable and frantic. Sing, rather, the psalm of trust: “Return unto thy rest, O my soul, for the Lord hath dealt bountifully with thee.” Surround yourself with the cloud of witnesses, those holy women who endured betrayal and waited upon God without bitterness. Let their memory cool the scorching rays of your trial, as a cloud tempers the midday sun. And if your husband should speak to you, let your words be few and weighted with the gravity of one who knows that marriage is a bond ordained of God, not a convenience to be discarded when the passions ask for a new toy. Remind him quietly that the harlot’s laughter is the corruption of marriage, a stench in the ointment, and that the sweetness of a shared bed after long faithfulness is a treasure no adulterous embrace can imitate.

Above all, guard your own soul. Do not allow the injury to sour into hatred, for resentment is a second wound. Pray for the severing of those soul ties, yes, but with the firm knowledge that only Christ can break them, and He breaks them most completely when the sinner himself cries out for deliverance. Pray also for the courage to forgive should he truly return, not a false peace that winks at continuing sin, but the restoration that follows a renunciation of the other woman so complete that she becomes as one dead to him. If he hardens his heart and persists in separation, know that you are not deserted by the Bridegroom of your soul. Many have walked that bitter path and found Christ sufficient. But until that final door is bolted, hope; and let your hope be anchored not in his wavering choice, but in the power of God to turn even a heart of stone into a heart of flesh. Stand at the threshold of your church with the tears of your pain and the oil of your prayers, and wait for the resurrection of a dead marriage, for with God nothing is impossible.