Marriage restoration soften our hearts

[WoMs1997]

I have been on here before to request prayer for my husband ### and I. You have been married for almost ### years. He's been going through dialysis for a new kidney for over a year.
When I first messaged this on here, he wanted to die. And he wants a divorce, and as of yet he has not filed for divorce. He is ruthless, rude, and downright demonic.
Oppressed. He does not talk to me at all. He's always on his phone and I've prayed before on here. I've asked people to pray because I guess he's got an addiction to his phone. I don't know, he can sit on his phone for ### hours straight and not say one word to me. Except "hey, are you hungry?" No, "I don't want nothing from you" is his response to me.
He is irrational, which I'm beginning to think that it's possibly demonic. God, help me to continue forgiving him, protect my heart to deal with him.
Soften his heart, Lord, heal his body, heal his blood, heal his kidneys in Jesus' name. I speak life over this man. God, you say that we have the power of life and death in our mouth. And I speak life over this man in Jesus' name, peace and a sound mind over him. Went to file taxes today, and he refuses to show up to show his I.D and to sign the papers for taxes, so they double priced me because of it. Something that takes an hour to do. It actually took two and a half 2-3 hours to do so, yeah, they double priced me. I recently found out he has his own bank account. Another one. It's got almost $### in it. While I, his wife, am hurting for funds for bills, his bills, not just mine. God, change his heart. Holy Spirit, speak to this man, change his heart. You're the only one that could do it. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We hear your heartache, dear sister, and we stand with you in fervent prayer for your marriage to ###. Thirty years is a testament to God’s covenant, and we refuse to let the enemy steal what He has joined together. The pain you describe—his silence, his anger, the financial secrecy, and the emotional distance—is not of God. Scripture warns us, *"For where jealousy and selfish ambition are, there is confusion and every evil work"* (James 3:16). The demonic oppression you sense is real, but greater is He who is in us than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4).

First, we rebuke the spirit of division and hardness of heart that has taken root in ###. The Bible says, *"A brother offended is harder to be won than a strong city, and contentions are like the bars of a castle"* (Proverbs 18:19). His behavior—ignoring you, refusing to communicate, even his financial withholding—is not just fleshly stubbornness; it is rebellion against God’s design for marriage. A husband is called to love his wife as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25), and ###’s actions grieve the Holy Spirit. We declare that every demonic assignment against your marriage is broken in Jesus’ name! The phone addiction, the bitterness, the refusal to engage—these are strongholds, and we tear them down by the power of the cross.

We also address the financial deception. Scripture is clear: *"So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself"* (Ephesians 5:28). ###’s hidden account while you struggle is a violation of the oneness God intended. We pray that conviction would flood his heart, that the Holy Spirit would expose every lie he’s believed about money, control, or self-sufficiency. *"For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil"* (1 Timothy 6:10), and we bind any spirit of greed or selfishness operating in him.

Sister, your prayers for his healing—body, blood, and kidneys—are powerful. We stand with you in declaring life over ###. *"Death and life are in the power of the tongue"* (Proverbs 18:21), and we speak restoration to his organs, peace to his mind, and repentance to his heart. But we must also address the root of his despair. His desire to die and his talk of divorce reveal a soul in torment. The enemy wants him to believe his suffering is meaningless, but God says, *"We are troubled on every side, yet not distressed; we are perplexed, but not in despair"* (2 Corinthians 4:8). We pray that ### would encounter the hope of Christ in his dialysis chair, in his quiet moments, even in his anger. Let the Lord meet him where he is and remind him that his life has purpose.

For you, beloved, we pray protection over your heart. It is easy to grow bitter when faced with such coldness, but we are called to forgive as Christ forgave us (Colossians 3:13). We ask the Lord to fill you with His peace, to remind you of His faithfulness, and to give you supernatural strength to love ### as Christ loves—without condition. *"Love covers a multitude of sins"* (1 Peter 4:8), and your love for him, even now, is a testimony to heaven.

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this marriage to You. Lord, You see the pain, the silence, the hardness of heart. We ask You to soften ###’s heart, to break every chain of bitterness, addiction, and rebellion. Father, we declare that Your love is greater than his anger, Your peace is stronger than his despair, and Your healing is mightier than his sickness. Touch his kidneys, cleanse his blood, and restore his body. But more than that, restore his soul. Let him remember the vows he made before You, the covenant he entered into. Convict him of his sin, not to shame him, but to draw him back to You and to his wife.

For our sister, Lord, we ask for Your comfort. Guard her heart from bitterness and resentment. Give her wisdom to navigate this season, patience to wait on Your timing, and faith to believe for restoration. Remind her that her worth is not defined by ###’s actions but by Your love for her. Strengthen her to love him as You love the church—unconditionally, sacrificially, and without wavering.

We rebuke the spirit of divorce in Jesus’ name! We declare that what God has joined together, no man—and no demon—can separate. We speak life over this marriage, life over ###’s mind, and life over their future. Holy Spirit, move in power. Break every stronghold, expose every lie, and bring ### to a place of repentance and surrender.

We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above every name, the name by which we are saved and through which we have access to the Father. There is no other name by which this marriage can be restored. We trust in You, Lord, for Your glory to be revealed in this situation. Amen.

Sister, do not lose hope. The God who parted the Red Sea is the same God who can part the hardness in ###’s heart. Continue to pray, continue to love, and continue to trust. Seek godly counsel—perhaps a pastor or a Christian marriage counselor—who can walk with you both through this valley. And remember, *"The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). You are not alone. We stand with you, and more importantly, God stands with you.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy.

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[hostadmin]

Dear ###,

Our hearts ache with yours as you navigate this challenging season in your marriage. We've been praying fervently for ###, and we want to encourage you with a word from the Lord.

Firstly, we sense the Lord highlighting Psalm 147:3, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." He sees your pain, and He is close to you. Trust that His healing power is at work in ###'s life, not just physically, but also emotionally and spiritually.

We also feel led to remind you of the power of forgiveness. In Matthew 6:14-15, Jesus says, "For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins." Forgiving ### doesn't mean what he's done is okay, but it's crucial for your own healing and for the health of your marriage.

Lastly, we're reminded of 2 Corinthians 12:9, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." God is with you, and His strength is made perfect in your weakness. Keep trusting Him, keep praying, and keep loving ###. The Lord is working, and He will bring restoration in His perfect timing.

We stand with you, ###, and we're believing with you for a miracle in your marriage. Keep fighting the good fight of faith, and remember, "The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." (Psalm 34:18)

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[bobr69]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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[Wingsofadove7]

Seek His Face and Presence not just His hand. In his Presence is everything you need. This does not mean you can have any material thing, perfect spouse because you asked for it in Jesus Christ name. You will have your needs, some of your wants, and difficult trials. The difficult trials are supposed to refine your character and make you more like Jesus. He is more interested in getting you to everlasting life and having your heart in the right place than he is in giving you gifts. It’s eternal life he’s concerned with.

 

[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

We are so grateful you entrusted us with the deep burden of your marriage and the health of your husband, ###. These past days we have continued to lift both of you before the throne, asking the Lord to soften hearts, heal bodies, and restore what has been fractured. We have pleaded for the Holy Spirit to break every chain of bitterness, addiction, and silence, and to replace them with the peace and sound mind that only Christ can give.

We stand with you in declaring life over ###—over his kidneys, his blood, and every part of his being. We pray against every spirit of oppression and ask the Father to open his eyes to the love and provision that surrounds him. We also ask the Lord to protect your heart as you walk through this valley, filling you with supernatural strength to forgive and patience to wait on His perfect timing.

If the Lord has moved in ways you can already see, please share a praise report so we can rejoice with you. If the battle still rages, we invite you to post this request again so we may continue standing in agreement with you. May the God of all comfort draw near to you both, working all things together for good according to His purpose. We pray this in the mighty name of Jesus.