Marriage Restoration Continued

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Disciple of Prayer
My wife had left me a few months ago and I submitted a prayer request here. After much prayer from many, she came back for 10 days, saying she had dreams from God about Him wanting us together and that she should come back. She said she loved me, wanted to stay married, and move back in and build our life together again. I was overjoyed and we had 10 wonderful days together reconnecting and talking and being loving and it was just spectacular and special. She had been unfaithful after she left me and committed adultery. I forgave her. Two days ago she said she couldn't be with me; she had broken our connection and was moving on and out of state. Complete 180 shift. I believe she has guilt, shame, unworthiness, and lack of self-forgiveness. Please silence the enemy and let her know how much God loves her and forgives her and help her forgive herself and not hear or believe the lies of the enemy. Break every chain or lie of the enemy and any agreement made with the enemy and restore her heart to God and me and have her return. I believe we are meant to be together. Please pray.
 
We stand with you in this heartbreaking season, lifting your wife and your marriage before the Lord with fervent prayer. The enemy has sought to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), but we declare that God’s plan for your marriage is restoration, redemption, and reconciliation. Your wife’s return for those ten days was no accident—it was the Lord drawing her back, revealing His will for your union. The enemy is now attacking her with shame, guilt, and lies, but we know that "there is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus" (Romans 8:1). The blood of Jesus covers all sin, including hers, and He desires to free her from the chains of unworthiness that are keeping her bound.

The Word tells us, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9). Your wife’s adultery was a grievous sin, but it is not beyond God’s forgiveness—nor is it beyond your forgiveness, which you have already extended. The enemy wants her to believe she is too broken to be loved by God or by you, but that is a lie. Jesus came to heal the brokenhearted and set the captives free (Luke 4:18). We pray that the Holy Spirit would silence every voice of condemnation and replace it with the truth of God’s unconditional love. Let her hear His whisper: *"You are forgiven. You are loved. You are mine."*

We also recognize that the enemy may be using her past sin to create a stronghold of fear—fear that she cannot be restored, fear that she does not deserve reconciliation, or even fear of facing the consequences of her actions. But Scripture declares, "God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control" (2 Timothy 1:7). We break every agreement she has made with the enemy—whether spoken or unspoken—and we command every lie to be exposed by the light of Christ. Let her heart be softened to receive God’s truth and His peace, which surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7).

Your faith in believing that you and your wife are meant to be together is commendable, but we must also surrender this to the Lord’s perfect will. While we pray earnestly for restoration, we acknowledge that God’s ways are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:8-9). If it is His will, He will turn her heart back to Him—and to you—as He did before. But even in the waiting, we encourage you to trust in His sovereignty. The Lord sees your pain, and He is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). He will sustain you as you continue to stand in the gap for your marriage.

We also urge you to examine your own heart during this time. Have you fully released any bitterness, resentment, or unforgiveness toward your wife? Forgiveness is not a one-time act but a continual posture of the heart. Jesus said, "If you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses" (Matthew 6:14-15). We pray that the Lord would guard your heart against hardness and fill you with His supernatural love and grace, even in this painful season.

Finally, we remind you that this battle is not against flesh and blood but against spiritual forces (Ephesians 6:12). Put on the full armor of God—praying always in the Spirit—and stand firm. The Lord is fighting for you, even when it feels like all hope is lost. He is the God who restores, who redeems, and who makes all things new (Revelation 21:5).

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**Our Prayer for You:**

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this brother and his marriage. Lord, You are the God of restoration, the One who turns mourning into dancing and ashes into beauty. We ask that You silence every voice of the enemy that is speaking lies of shame, guilt, and unworthiness into our sister’s heart. Break every chain that is binding her, Lord, and let Your truth set her free. Remind her that she is forgiven, that she is loved, and that You have a plan for her life—one that includes redemption and reconciliation.

Father, we pray that You would turn her heart back to You first and foremost. Let her encounter Your love in a way she cannot deny. Soften her heart, Lord, and draw her back to her husband, if it is Your will. Restore what the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25) and rebuild the walls of trust and intimacy that have been broken. Give our brother supernatural strength, peace, and perseverance as he stands in the gap for his marriage. Fill him with Your love so that he may continue to extend grace, even in the face of rejection.

We rebuke the spirit of fear, confusion, and division that is at work in this situation. We command every demonic stronghold to be torn down in the name of Jesus. Let Your will be done, Lord—whether that means restoration or a new path for each of them. But above all, let Your name be glorified. We trust You, Father, and we thank You in advance for the victory that is already won through Christ Jesus.

In the precious and powerful name of Jesus we pray, **Amen.**
 
We're standing by you, brother, as you navigate this challenging journey. We've been praying fervently for your wife and your marriage, believing that God's plan is indeed restoration and healing. We know the enemy is whispering lies of shame and guilt, but we declare God's truth over her - she is loved, she is forgiven, and she is worthy of love and redemption.

We've been asking God to soften her heart, to help her let go of the past and embrace the forgiveness that's available through Jesus. We're also praying for you, brother, that you'd continue to extend grace and love, even in the face of uncertainty. Remember, forgiveness isn't a one-time act, but a daily choice. Let's keep our hearts open and surrendered to God's will, trusting that He sees your pain and is near to you.

Let's keep standing firm in the truth, brother. The battle is not against flesh and blood, but against spiritual forces. We're putting on the full armor of God, praying always in the Spirit, and standing firm. The Lord is fighting for you, even when it feels like all hope is lost. He is the God of restoration, redemption, and new beginnings. Let's trust in Him, brother. He's got this.
 
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

 
We want to lift you up in gratitude for allowing us to join you in prayer during this deeply painful yet hope-filled season of your marriage. The way God moved in those ten days of reconciliation was nothing short of miraculous—a beautiful testament to His power to restore what was broken. We rejoice with you over the glimpses of His faithfulness, even as we now stand with you in the heartache of this sudden reversal.

Brother, we are not letting go of this fight in prayer. The enemy may be whispering lies of defeat, but we know our God is greater. We continue to declare that every chain of shame, guilt, and condemnation is broken in Jesus’ name. We pray for your wife’s heart to be flooded with the truth of God’s unconditional love—that His forgiveness is complete, and His grace is sufficient. May the Holy Spirit silence the accuser’s voice and replace it with the assurance that she is redeemed, cherished, and called to walk in freedom.

We also lift you up, asking the Lord to guard your heart with His peace as you wait. Your faith in standing for restoration is a powerful witness, and we believe God is working even now in ways we cannot see. If there has been any progress or breakthrough since your last update, we would be so encouraged to hear a praise report. If the battle still rages, know that we are here to keep interceding—post again, and let us continue to storm heaven’s gates alongside you.

You are not forgotten, and neither is your marriage. We declare that what God has joined together, no scheme of the enemy can permanently tear apart. May He strengthen you, comfort you, and reveal His perfect timing as you seek Him with all your heart.

Praying in Jesus’ name.
 

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