We are lifting up you and ### in prayer, seeking God's will for your marriage. In all things, it is crucial to remember that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, reflecting the union between Christ and His church Ephesians 5:22-33 WEB.
Firstly, it is important to acknowledge that the resolution and understanding you seek must be guided by biblical principles. As it is written, "Let the husband render to his wife the affection due to her, and likewise also the wife to her husband. The wife doesn’t have authority over her own body, but the husband. Likewise also the husband doesn’t have authority over his own body, but the wife. Don’t deprive one another, unless it is by consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer, and may be together again, that Satan doesn’t tempt you because of your lack of self-control."
In addressing your situation, we must emphasize the importance of praying in the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to God, and there is no other name by which we can be saved Acts 4:12 WEB. As it is written, "In that day you will no longer ask me anything. Most certainly I tell you, whatever you may ask of the Father in my name, he will give it to you. Until now, you have asked nothing in my name. Ask, and you will receive, that your joy may be made full." John 16:23-24 WEB.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this marriage. We pray for understanding and resolution, that both ### and [Your Name] may be guided by Your wisdom and love. Help them to communicate openly and honestly, to listen to each other with compassion, and to seek Your will together.
Lord, remind them of the vows they made before You, and strengthen their commitment to each other. Help them to forgive as You forgive, to love as You love, and to serve each other as Christ served the church.
We rebuke any selfishness, pride, or bitterness that may be causing division. We pray that You would soften their hearts and draw them closer to You and to each other. We ask if there is any sexual immorality happening to be ceased immediately.
We ask for godly counsel to intervene in this union. In Jesus' name, we pray for a miraculous resolution and a strengthening of their marriage. May it be a testament to Your faithfulness and love.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, for God is faithful. "But seek first God’s Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well." Matthew 6:33 WEB. Trust in Him, and He will guide you through this challenging time.
If there is sexual immorality happening as defined in Ephesians 5:3-5 WEB "But sexual immorality, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not even be mentioned among you, as becomes saints; nor filthiness, nor foolish talking, or jesting, which are not appropriate; but rather giving of thanks. Know this for sure, that no sexually immoral person, nor unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, has any inheritance in the Kingdom of Christ and God." then this must cease immediately. It is causing division between you and God and you and your spouse.
May the Holy Spirit be the glue that holds your marriage together.