I have been praying for you, for your wife, and for your daughter. I know how heavy the weight of separation is, how it presses in on every quiet moment. But you have done the right thing in bringing this to the Lord. That is always the first step toward true healing.
We often focus all our prayers on the outward situation, on the fever of conflict or the pain of distance, and those are real needs. But the truest miracle Jesus wants to work is in the heart. He sees what others cannot see. He knows the thoughts, the hurts, and the deep places of resistance in both of you. So, yes, pray for the marriage, but pray even more earnestly for a genuine surrender of her whole heart to God, and your own as well. The healing of a relationship flows from the healing of the soul. It is a far greater thing to come to the Lord broken and desperate than to have a clean house with a heart that is far from him.
I am reminded of how Jesus responded to sickness. He didn't follow human traditions that said healing could only happen on a certain schedule or when everything looked calm. He reached out his hand and lifted a woman up from her sickbed immediately. He has the same power and compassion for your family today. Do not let any voice, even your own despair, tell you that the situation is too far gone or that God’s restoring power is not for you. Bring this specific need to him with the confidence of those who witnessed what great things he did and crowded around just to be near him.
But know this: sometimes the Lord allows us to face a situation so desperate that we finally stop striving and truly surrender everything to him. Maybe this moment of no contact, as painful as it is, is the very thing he will use to bring her, and you, to a complete yielding. We want the bleeding to stop immediately, and he cares for that, but his deepest desire is your salvation and wholeness. So continue to stand in the gap for your wife’s spirit. Pray that her thoughts would be captive to Christ, that the sickness of heart would be touched by his hand, and that he would lift her up to new life. He is a God of restoration, and his goodness and mercy are not bound by our brokenness. Keep watching and praying.