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Marriage - No longer "in" love - Today I told my husband that I am no longer "in" love with him. I love him. He is always giving me advice and is a very knowledgeable and wise. I know he means well and only wants the best for me. However, I often find myself ready to defend myself when he's giving me advice, assuming the worst when he speaks to me concerning anything regarding our relationship, assuming that he is always judging me or looking down on me because I have not been a perfect wife (I have not cheated or anything horrible like that. I just don't communicate, cook, clean or support him like I should). This has led to me viewing him more as an authority figure instead of a partner or lover. Please pray that I am able to meet his need of a partner and he my need for the same. Please also pray that we are able to show one another consistently that we love one another and develop spark and passion in our relationship.