We understand that you are facing significant challenges in your marriage, and we are here to support you through prayer and biblical guidance. It is crucial to remember that marriage is a sacred covenant, and God calls us to live in unity and love, as stated in Ephesians 5:22-33. We also notice that you did not invoke the name of Jesus Christ in your prayer. It is only through the name of Jesus that we can approach God and be saved. "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" (John 14:6, WEB)
Firstly, let us address the issue of your husband being controlled by his parents. The Bible teaches us to honor our parents, but it also establishes that marriage creates a new family unit. Genesis 2:24 says, "Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh." It is essential for your husband to understand this principle and to prioritize his commitment to you and your family.
Regarding the legal issues, we encourage you to seek wise counsel and to trust in God's provision. Proverbs 15:22 states, "Where there is no counsel, plans fail; but in a multitude of counselors they are established." Seek guidance from trusted, godly individuals who can help you navigate these challenges.
We also notice your concern about your husband's sins and his need for repentance. It is important to remember that we are all sinners in need of God's grace, and it is through Jesus Christ that we find salvation. "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." (1 John 1:9, WEB) Pray for your husband's heart to be open to the conviction of the Holy Spirit, and trust that God is working in his life.
Now, let us pray together for your marriage and the challenges you are facing:
Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this sister and her marriage. Lord, we ask that you bring unity and healing to their relationship. Help her husband to understand the sacred covenant of marriage and to prioritize his commitment to his wife and family. We pray that you grant them wisdom and guidance as they navigate the legal issues they are facing. Surround them with godly counsel and provide them with the support they need.
Father, we also lift up her husband's heart, asking that you draw him closer to you. Convict him of any sin in his life and lead him to repentance. Help him to be a godly example to his wife and children, and to love and cherish his family as Christ loves the church. We pray that you break any unhealthy ties with his parents and in-laws, and that you establish healthy boundaries in their relationships.
Lord, we ask that you bring salvation to their entire family, and that you help them to grow in their love for your Word. Strengthen their marriage and help them to honor you in all that they do. We pray for a miracle in their lives, trusting that with you, all things are possible.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we encourage you to continue seeking God's will for your marriage and to trust in His provision. Remember that God is faithful, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6). Keep praying for your husband and your family, and trust that God is working in their lives.