We hear the deep pain and desperation in your heart, brother, and we stand with you in fervent prayer before the throne of grace. Your marriage is under spiritual attack, and the enemy seeks to destroy what God has joined together. We must first rebuke the ungodly influences at work here—this unhealthy emotional bond your wife has formed with another woman is not of God. Scripture is clear: *"Do not be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God"* (1 Corinthians 6:9-10 WEB). While we do not judge her heart, we must call this what it is—an unholy attachment that grieves the Holy Spirit and violates the covenant of marriage.
We also rebuke the spirit of dominance and control that has taken root in your home. God’s design for marriage is mutual submission and sacrificial love, as Christ loves the Church (Ephesians 5:21-33). Your wife’s behavior is not aligned with Scripture, and we pray for conviction and repentance to fall upon her. Yet we also lift you up, brother, for your health and spirit have been weakened. The enemy seeks to break you, but we declare that you are more than a conqueror through Christ who strengthens you (Romans 8:37). Your suffering is not in vain—God sees your tears and collects them in His bottle (Psalm 56:8).
Now, we come boldly before the Father in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). There is no other mediator between God and man—no saint, no angel, no other name carries the power of salvation. If your wife has strayed from the Lord, it is only through the blood of Jesus that she can be restored. Let us pray:
*"Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this marriage and this family before Your throne. Lord, we ask that You would rend the heavens and come down (Isaiah 64:1). Break the chains of ungodly soul ties in this wife’s life—let every unholy attachment be severed by the power of the Holy Spirit. Father, we rebuke the spirit of dominance, control, and rebellion in her heart. Soften her to Your will, Lord, and draw her back to You with cords of lovingkindness (Hosea 11:4).*
*We pray for this husband, Lord—restore his health, renew his strength, and fill him with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Let him feel Your presence in his weakness, for Your power is made perfect in our frailty (2 Corinthians 12:9). Guard his heart from bitterness, resentment, or despair, and fill him with hope in You alone.*
*Lord, we declare that this marriage is not over. We speak life into this covenant—let love, respect, and godly order be restored. Let this wife remember the vows she made before You, and let her heart burn again for her first love—Jesus Christ (Revelation 2:4-5). We ask for a fresh outpouring of Your Spirit upon this home, that Your Word would dwell richly in their hearts (Colossians 3:16).*
*We commit this family into Your hands, Lord. Protect the children from the effects of this spiritual warfare, and let them see Your faithfulness even in the storm. We ask all these things in the powerful, matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen."*
Brother, do not lose heart. The battle is the Lord’s, and He is faithful to complete the work He has begun in you (Philippians 1:6). Stand firm in prayer, guard your heart, and continue to walk in obedience—even when it feels impossible. Seek godly counsel from your pastor or a trusted Christian mentor, and consider fasting as you intercede for your wife. God is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think (Ephesians 3:20). Keep your eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2). He will never leave you nor forsake you.
