MARRIAGE - HEALTH - JOB - EDUCATION

[Rajeswari@Esther]

Dear Prayer Warriors,

Please pray for the following to God through in the Name of Jesus. Amen.

I am worried about my marriage, due to delay. Since this generation has not gotten any Godly, spiritually good grooms. That's why I am very much upset. I am crying crying, but there is no answer and made as a Mad.

I am waiting for God's perfect time. But when? As per Bible, there is no possibilities that everybody get their marriage as early. God will permit them or allow them that at their older age. In that case there should be any future family will be there (i.e no son or daughter) and their generation will end. Moreover God will give obstacles and not favor for the honest persons and will favor for those who steal, cheat, lie, fraud with others, since God will wait for their repentance and not giving any obstacles or any earthly physical punishment or material punishment. If anybody believe Bible, then their life will be spoiled by the God. Nobody can follow as per Bible. Example is Isreal don't believe Messiah (Jesus) and they are waiting till today. Hence, if anybody believe that God is there, then that is waste of time and instead of believing God, they have to work hard, sincere, take responsibilities, duty, which will give them fruitful answers and beneficial. Shall any honest have to wait until death for God's answers or God's Will or God's Time. If so, the honest cannot able to live in the earth and wicked persons only live.

Almost I have attained my marriage age. I believe that God's perfect time, but the perfect time will be my old age as per God's perfect time. According to age, the marriage has to be done within the proper age. If late marriage, then childbirth is very very critical. Moreover, there is very mental torture for the couples to give an answer to their relatives, friends, and the people among whom they live.

Still believing God that He will give the good groom for me. But the marriage should occur very very quickly. If not within the marriage age and the marriage has to occur at old age, then I have to suffer due to late marriage and cannot be able to tackle the situation around me.

(1) I am believing that our God will provide a permanent job position in Government or Public Sector (PSU) as Homoeopathy Physician or Homoeopathy Doctor or Medical Officer or Research Officer or GDMO or JRF or any other suitable job position and till up to God's Will & God's Time. I will wait and till that period God have to provide a Temporary Govt Job to me. Faith in our God that the God will grace on me and provide the appointment order for a permanent job position in Government or Public Sector enable me to explain regarding our God's mercies to my patients.

(2) My family member to get a permanent government / public sector (PSU) according to the Professional educational qualification. Please pray for ### to get the permanent government or public sector (PSU) job by God's Grace which will Glorify God. Hope God will definitely Mercy to him. Will send the PRAISE REPORT once he got the job from govt.

(3) Regarding My Marriage - Get the best bridegroom for me who will be a doctor with better earnings with GOOD HABITS and No Bad Habit according to the Bible and also a spiritually good. The marriage should be done very very quickly due to age, but I hope that God's time has not come till yesterday. Anyhow, my marriage has to occur at the earliest possible with a Godly Doctor or Government Employee Engineer with good habits and without bad habits and earning a good salary/income. Awaiting for God's order and will and God's time.

Is God is Powerful - No. But seems that He not powerful than Satan. Satan is doing Miracles in the earth now. Is God is Active - No. God is Inactive. Is God is Merciful - No. Satan is Merciful, since he is doing Miracles to their believers. Is God have Grace - No. Merciless, Graceless, Powerless, Inactive God. Why because the above prayer requests (1 to 3, 5 to 8) are not yet fulfilled. Eventhough I was having Faith with God that He will put Mercy on me. I was hoping that by God's Grace all requests will be fulfilled, but nothing fulfilled. Not only fulfilled, but also the requests are kept with God as the Stone into the Well Water (i.e Inactive). I am praying more than 4 years to God that all the requests have to be fulfilled, but till now nothing is fulfilled. Hence it is assumed that God is a stone. He cannot able to fulfil anything to their believers. As per Bible God is some count slowness, but I have seen that always slowness. Always Inactive. Always Powerless. Always Merciless. Always Graceless. Always favouring for wicked peoples. Always favouring for Dishonest persons not Honest persons and Lover of God. God is enjoying that when wicked persons are doing and wickedness to the Honest persons, God's Lover and that's He is silent.

(4) For our family good health

(5) A Person and his have cheated us that they have received a huge amount from us against a House for Lease. But as per their commitment and promise, they have not handed over their own house to us for Lease. Hence, we have asked the cheaters, Liars (and his wife both) to return the full amount to us, but till today they have not yet returned the full amount to us. We have taken a Loan for paying the House Lease. The Interest of the Loan is increasing huge day by day. Why God is seeing this kind of wickedness? Why God is patience almost more than eight months? The wicked person and his wife is under the control of Satan, hence, whatever they speak with us from mouth are lies only. The wicked person and his wife is purposely cheating us and cheating many others also as per the inquiry. Why God is Inactive? Why God is Merciless for the God fearing families? Why no Grace upon the the familes who are fearing for God to do any wrongdoing? Is there any punishment whether through physical or material for the Cheater, Liar, Fraud; if so when God will give punishment to the wicked persons enable them to return our money and repent and turn to God. If not punishment to a human, then never ever repent which is human nature. Awaiting for the return of our money from the wicked persons and a remarkable suffering to them by God enable them not to do any other wicked things in their life to anybody.

(5) To buy a house and run a Homoeopathy Clinic to explain the glory of our God.

(6) My family has to provide employment to give education to poor people which should change their lifestyle and glory to our God.

(7) Myself & my family member have to get a permanent job in Government or Public Sector as per our educational/professional qualifications urgently. Since we to settle in life and then only he has a plan to get married. Hope that our God is mercy on his life and do the mercy in his life. By God's grace, he has to get the permanent job position. Please pray that in God's mercy from God's eyes to this son.

(8) I have to study M.D. - PG Degree or PhD. By God's grace, I have to get a good Government College on merit with a safest college and place with a good valuable faculty. Our God have to mercy on me in this regard.

Can you tell me what is God's Time !!! How to know the God's Time !!! When will be God's Time (i.e. the period starts) How to find God's Will !!!! Any indication or any identity !!! What is God's Time is Perfect?

I am believing that our God will be mercy in my & our family life. We have faith that the above request will be fulfilled by today by the grace of our God. We are waiting for the grace occurred and also waiting for God's time & will. Let's pray to our God through the name of Jesus! Amen.

Is God is there or not? My parents were seeking / trying / searching for a Bridegroom who is Godly, spiritually, God Fearing and a Doctor who will understand the same profession of myself and handsome earnings to run a family in God's centre. But more than 5 years they are seeking and prayed with God, nothing is fulfilled. Not only my marriage is very much delayed by God but also none of our family's prayer request are fulfilled. No fruitful answers for my prayer requests as well as our family's prayer request. I doubt about God that He is active or inactive.

Please pray continuously and I will share the praise reports once the requests are fulfilled. Is God only heard our cries, but there is no good answer. Is God sees only the pain of the believers who believe God and no good answer. If requests are not answered good, then it assumes that God is a stone. Not some count slowless all count are dead slowness. God is not a Judge, not righteousness, powerless, inactive, merciless, graceless, miracleless and in short useless to honest. But useful to liar, cheater, fraud and wicked peoples.

All praise be to our God. INJ! Amen!!

 

[Articles]

We come before you with hearts burdened by the deep sorrow and frustration expressed in this cry for help, and we lift this sister in Christ to the Lord, knowing that He alone is the source of all wisdom, comfort, and provision. We hear the pain of delayed hopes, the anguish of unanswered prayers, and the weariness of waiting. Yet, we must first address the words spoken in despair, for they reveal a heart that is wrestling not only with circumstances but also with the very character of God. Let us turn to Scripture to realign our understanding, for God’s ways are not our ways, and His thoughts are not our thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9). He is not inactive, powerless, or merciless—He is sovereign, just, and abounding in love and faithfulness.

First, let us rebuke the accusations made against the character of God. To say that God is powerless, merciless, or inactive is to contradict the very Word He has given us. The Bible declares that our God is a God of justice, mercy, and power. In Psalm 145:8-9, we read, *"Yahweh is gracious, merciful, slow to anger, and of great loving kindness. Yahweh is good to all. His tender mercies are over all his works."* In Exodus 34:6-7, the Lord describes Himself as *"Yahweh, Yahweh, a merciful and gracious God, slow to anger, and abundant in loving kindness and truth, keeping loving kindness for thousands, forgiving iniquity and disobedience and sin; and who will by no means clear the guilty."* He is not a God who delights in the suffering of His children, nor is He indifferent to their cries. Instead, He is a Father who disciplines those He loves (Hebrews 12:6) and works all things together for the good of those who love Him (Romans 8:28).

The delay you are experiencing does not mean God has forgotten you or that He is withholding good from you. His timing is perfect, even when we cannot see the bigger picture. In Habakkuk 2:3, the Lord says, *"For the vision is yet for the appointed time, and it hurries toward the end, and won’t prove false. Though it takes time, wait for it; because it will surely come. It won’t delay."* God’s delays are not denials; they are opportunities for us to grow in faith, patience, and dependence on Him. Remember the story of Abraham and Sarah, who waited decades for the promise of a son to be fulfilled. In Genesis 18:14, the Lord asks, *"Is anything too hard for Yahweh?"* The answer is a resounding no. God’s power is not limited by time, age, or human circumstances. He is the God who opens barren wombs (Genesis 21:1-2), parts the Red Sea (Exodus 14:21), and raises the dead to life (John 11:43-44). He is the same yesterday, today, and forever (Hebrews 13:8).

We also must address the frustration expressed about the wicked prospering while the righteous suffer. This is a timeless question, one that even the psalmists wrestled with. In Psalm 73, Asaph confesses his envy of the arrogant when he saw the prosperity of the wicked. But by the end of the psalm, he realizes that their prosperity is fleeting, and their ultimate destiny is destruction. He writes in Psalm 73:16-18, *"When I tried to understand this, it was too painful for me until I entered God’s sanctuary, and considered their latter end. Surely you set them in slippery places. You throw them down to destruction. How they are suddenly destroyed! They are completely swept away with terrors!"* God does not ignore wickedness. He is patient, giving people time to repent (2 Peter 3:9), but His justice will prevail. In Psalm 37:7-9, we are told, *"Rest in Yahweh, and wait patiently for him. Don’t fret because of him who prospers in his way, because of the man who makes wicked plots happen. Cease from anger, and forsake wrath. Don’t fret, it leads only to evildoing. For evildoers shall be cut off, but those who wait for Yahweh shall inherit the land."*

Now, let us speak to the specific requests with truth and hope.

**On Marriage:**
We understand the deep longing for a godly spouse and the fear that comes with waiting, especially as time passes. Marriage is a beautiful gift from God, designed to reflect the relationship between Christ and His Church (Ephesians 5:31-32). We encourage you to continue trusting in the Lord’s timing, for He knows your heart’s desires. In Psalm 37:4, we read, *"Also delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart."* This does not mean God is a cosmic vending machine, but when our desires align with His will, He delights in fulfilling them. We pray that the Lord will prepare you and your future spouse during this season of waiting, that He would mold both of your hearts to be more like His.

However, we must also caution against placing ultimate hope in marriage itself. While marriage is good, it is not the source of our joy or fulfillment—Christ is. If the Lord has called you to marriage, He will provide in His perfect time. But if He has called you to a season—or even a lifetime—of singleness, He will also give you the grace to walk in that calling with contentment. The apostle Paul speaks to this in 1 Corinthians 7:32-35, where he highlights the unique opportunities singleness provides for undivided devotion to the Lord. Whether married or single, our primary identity is in Christ, and our ultimate satisfaction is found in Him alone.

We also want to gently address the emphasis placed on the groom being a doctor or government employee with high earnings. While it is good to desire a spouse who is responsible and able to provide, we must be careful not to prioritize worldly success over spiritual character. A godly spouse is one who fears the Lord, walks in integrity, and loves sacrificially—regardless of their profession or income. Proverbs 31:10 asks, *"Who can find a worthy woman? For her price is far above rubies."* The same is true of a worthy man. Seek first the Kingdom of God (Matthew 6:33), and trust that the Lord will provide a spouse who is after His own heart.

**On the Delay and Fear of Barrenness:**
The fear of late marriage leading to difficulties in childbearing is understandable, but we must remember that God is the author of life. He opened the womb of Sarah in her old age (Genesis 21:1-2), and He can do the same today. In Luke 1:37, the angel Gabriel declares to Mary, *"For nothing spoken by God is impossible."* If the Lord calls you to marriage, He will also provide the means to build a family according to His will. Do not let fear dictate your trust in Him. Instead, surrender this fear to the Lord, asking Him to replace it with faith in His sovereignty.

**On the Cheaters and Injustice:**
The situation with the individuals who have defrauded your family is grievous, and we understand the anger and frustration this betrayal has caused. Scripture is clear that the Lord hates dishonesty and oppression. Proverbs 11:1 says, *"Yahweh detests dishonest scales, but accurate weights are his delight."* We pray that the Lord will bring justice and conviction to the hearts of these individuals. We also pray that He will provide for your family’s financial needs, whether through the return of the stolen funds or through another means. In the meantime, we encourage you to seek legal recourse if possible, trusting that the Lord will guide your steps.

However, we must also guard our hearts against bitterness. In Hebrews 12:15, we are warned, *"Looking carefully lest anyone fall short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and many be defiled by it."* Bitterness will only harm you and hinder your relationship with the Lord. Instead, we are called to forgive, even as Christ forgave us (Colossians 3:13). This does not mean excusing their sin or failing to seek justice, but it does mean releasing the anger and resentment to the Lord.

**On Employment and Education:**
We lift up your desire for permanent employment in the government or public sector, as well as your family member’s need for a stable job. We pray that the Lord will open doors that no man can shut (Revelation 3:8) and provide opportunities that align with your skills and calling. We also pray for wisdom as you pursue further education, that the Lord would guide you to the right institution and provide the necessary resources.

In all these things, we must remember that our ultimate security is not in a job, a salary, or a position—it is in Christ. Matthew 6:19-21 reminds us, *"Don’t lay up treasures for yourselves on the earth, where moth and rust consume, and where thieves break through and steal; but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust consume, and where thieves don’t break through and steal; for where your treasure is, there your heart will be also."* Seek first His Kingdom, and trust that He will provide for your needs (Matthew 6:33).

**On the Question of God’s Timing:**
You ask, *"What is God’s time? How do we know it?"* God’s timing is not something we can calculate or predict, but we can trust that it is always perfect. Ecclesiastes 3:11 tells us, *"He has made everything beautiful in its time."* Our role is not to demand answers from God but to trust Him in the waiting. In Isaiah 40:31, we read, *"But those who wait for Yahweh will renew their strength. They will mount up with wings like eagles. They will run, and not be weary. They will walk, and not faint."* Waiting is not passive—it is an active trust in the Lord’s goodness and sovereignty.

**On the Accusation that God is Inactive or Powerless:**
These words reveal a heart that is deeply wounded and struggling to reconcile suffering with the character of God. We urge you to meditate on the truth of who God is. In Jeremiah 32:17, the prophet declares, *"Ah Lord Yahweh! Behold, you have made the heavens and the earth by your great power and by your outstretched arm. There is nothing too hard for you."* The God who spoke the universe into existence, who parted the Red Sea, who raised Jesus from the dead—this God is not powerless. He is at work, even when we cannot see it.

Consider the story of Joseph, who was sold into slavery by his brothers, falsely accused, and imprisoned for years. Yet, in Genesis 50:20, he tells his brothers, *"As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good, to save many people alive, as is happening today."* What looked like delay and injustice was part of God’s greater plan. We do not always see the purpose in our suffering, but we can trust that God is working all things together for our good and His glory.

**On the Salvation Message:**
We notice that while you mention the name of Jesus at the beginning and end of your request, there is a deep struggle with trusting in His goodness and power. This reveals a need to revisit the foundation of our faith. Salvation is not just about praying in Jesus’ name; it is about placing our full trust in Him as Lord and Savior. In John 14:6, Jesus says, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."* It is only through faith in Christ that we have access to the Father (Ephesians 2:18) and the promise of His presence and provision.

If you have not yet surrendered your life fully to Jesus, we urge you to do so. Repent of your sins, believe in His death and resurrection for your salvation, and invite Him to be the Lord of your life. Romans 10:9 says, *"That if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved."* When we truly know Christ, we can trust Him even in the storms of life.

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Now, let us pray together for these requests, lifting them up to the Lord with faith and expectation.

**Prayer:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts heavy for our sister who is wrestling with delay, disappointment, and doubt. Lord, we ask that You would meet her in this place of pain and remind her of Your unfailing love and sovereignty. Forgive her for the words spoken in frustration, and renew her mind with the truth of who You are—a God who is mighty, merciful, and active in the lives of Your children.

Lord, we lift up her desire for marriage. You know the deep longing of her heart, and we ask that You would provide a godly husband in Your perfect timing. Prepare her heart and his heart for this union, that their marriage would glorify You and reflect the love of Christ for His Church. Remove any fear or anxiety about the future, and replace it with trust in Your provision. If there are areas where her expectations need to align more closely with Your will, we pray that You would reveal them to her and give her a heart of surrender.

Father, we pray for justice in the situation with the individuals who have defrauded her family. Lord, You see the wickedness and deception, and we ask that You would convict their hearts and lead them to repentance. Provide for our sister’s family financially, whether through the return of the stolen funds or through another means. Give them wisdom as they seek resolution, and protect their hearts from bitterness.

We lift up her career and education. Open doors for permanent employment in the government or public sector, according to Your will. Guide her as she pursues further education, and provide the resources and opportunities she needs. We pray the same for her family member, that You would grant him favor and a stable job that allows him to provide and glorify You.

Lord, we ask for healing and protection over her family’s health. Strengthen them physically, emotionally, and spiritually. We pray for the desire to buy a house and run a clinic, that You would provide the means and open the doors if it aligns with Your will.

Father, we rebuked the lies that have taken root in her heart—the lies that You are powerless, inactive, or merciless. Replace these lies with the truth of Your Word. Remind her of Your faithfulness throughout Scripture and in her own life. Help her to see the ways You have already provided and protected her, even in the waiting.

Finally, Lord, we pray that You would draw her closer to Yourself. May she find her ultimate satisfaction in You, not in circumstances or answers to prayer. Renew her faith, restore her hope, and fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding.

We ask all these things in the powerful and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

Dear friend, I heard your cry for help and I want you to know that you are not alone in your struggles. I understand the pain of waiting and the frustration that comes with unanswered prayers. I want to encourage you to keep trusting in the Lord, for His ways are not our ways, and His thoughts are not our thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9).

Firstly, let's address the character of God. It's understandable to feel upset when prayers seem unanswered, but it's important to remember who God is. He is not inactive, powerless, or merciless. He is sovereign, just, and abounding in love and faithfulness. The Bible declares that our God is a God of justice, mercy, and power. In Psalm 145:8-9, we read, "Yahweh is gracious, merciful, slow to anger, and of great lovingkindness. Yahweh is good to all. His tender mercies are over all his works." In Exodus 34:6-7, the Lord describes Himself as "Yahweh, yahweh, a merciful and gracious God, slow to anger, and abundant in lovingkindness and truth, keeping lovingkindness for thousands, forgiving iniquity and disobedience and sin; and who will by no means clear the guilty." He is not a God who delights in the suffering of His children, nor is He indifferent to their cries. Instead, He is a Father who disciplines those He loves (Hebrews 12:6) and works all things together for the good of those who love Him (Romans 8:28).

The delay you are experiencing does not mean God has forgotten you or that He is withholding good from you. His timing is perfect, even when we cannot see the bigger picture. In Habakkuk 2:3, the Lord says, "For the vision is yet for the appointed time, and it hurries toward the end, and it will not prove false. Though it takes time, wait for it; because it will surely come. It will not delay." God's delays are not denials; they are opportunities for us to grow in faith, patience, and dependence on Him. Remember the story of Abraham and Sarah, who waited decades for the promise of a son to be fulfilled. In Genesis 18:14, the Lord asks, "Is anything too hard for Yahweh?" The answer is a resounding no. The Lord is the God who opens barren wombs (Genesis 21:1-2), parts the Red Sea (Exodus 14:21), and raises the dead to life (John 11:43-44). He is the same yesterday, today, and forever (Hebrews 13:8).

Now, let's address the frustration expressed about the wicked prospering while the righteous suffer. This is a timeless question, one that even the psalmists wrestled with. In Psalm 73, Asaph confesses his envy of the arrogant when he saw the prosperity of the wicked. But by the end of the psalm, he realizes that their prosperity is fleeting, and their ultimate destiny is destruction. He writes in Psalm 73:16-18, "When I tried to understand this, it was too painful for me until I entered God's sanctuary and considered their latter end. Surely you set them in slippery places. You throw them down to destruction. How they are suddenly destroyed! They are completely swept away with terrors!" God does not ignore wickedness. He is patient, giving people time to repent (2 Peter 3:9), but His justice will prevail. In Psalm 37:7-9, we are told, "Rest in Yahweh, and wait patiently for him. Do not fret because of him who prospers in his way, because of the man who makes wicked plots happen. Cease from anger, and forsake wrath. Do not fret, it leads only to evildoing. For evildoers shall be cut off, but those who wait for Yahweh shall inherit the land."

In conclusion, my dear friend, keep trusting in the Lord. His ways are not our ways, and His thoughts are not our thoughts. He is sovereign, just, and abounding in love and faithfulness. His delays are not denials, but opportunities for us to grow in faith, patience, and dependence on Him. He does not ignore wickedness, but He is patient, giving people time to repent. His justice will prevail. Rest in Him, and wait patiently for Him. He will not delay. He is faithful, and He will surely come.

I pray that the Lord will give you the desires of your heart (Psalm 37:4), that He will prepare you and your future spouse during this season of waiting, that He will mold both of your hearts to be more like His, that He will give you the grace to walk in whatever calling He has for you, whether it's marriage or singleness, and that He will provide for your family's financial needs. I also pray that He will bring justice and conviction to the hearts of those who have defrauded your family, and that He will provide for your family's needs. In all things, may your ultimate security be in Christ, and may your heart be where your treasure is (Matthew 6:19-21).

Please keep trusting in the Lord, my dear friend. He is faithful, and He will surely come. Rest in Him, and wait patiently for Him. He will not delay. He is faithful, and He will surely come.