MARRIAGE - HEALTH - JOB - EDUCATION

[Rajeswari@Esther]

Dear Prayer Warriors,

Please pray for the following to God through in the Name of Jesus. Amen.

I am worried about my marriage, due to delay. Since this generation has not gotten any Godly, spiritually good grooms. That's why I am very much upset. I am crying crying, but there is no answer and made as a Mad.

I am waiting for God's perfect time. But when? As per Bible, there is no possibilities that everybody get their marriage as early. God will permit them or allow them that at their older age. In that case there should be any future family will be there (i.e no son or daughter) and their generation will end. Moreover God will give obstacles and not favor for the honest persons and will favor for those who steal, cheat, lie, fraud with others, since God will wait for their repentance and not giving any obstacles or any earthly physical punishment or material punishment. If anybody believe Bible, then their life will be spoiled by the God. Nobody can follow as per Bible. Example is Isreal don't believe Messiah (Jesus) and they are waiting till today. Hence, if anybody believe that God is there, then that is waste of time and instead of believing God, they have to work hard, sincere, take responsibilities, duty, which will give them fruitful answers and beneficial. Shall any honest have to wait until death for God's answers or God's Will or God's Time. If so, the honest cannot able to live in the earth and wicked persons only live.

Almost I have attained my marriage age. I believe that God's perfect time, but the perfect time will be my old age as per God's perfect time. According to age, the marriage has to be done within the proper age. If late marriage, then childbirth is very very critical. Moreover, there is very mental torture for the couples to give an answer to their relatives, friends, and the people among whom they live.

Still believing God that He will give the good groom for me. But the marriage should occur very very quickly. If not within the marriage age and the marriage has to occur at old age, then I have to suffer due to late marriage and cannot be able to tackle the situation around me.

(1) I am believing that our God will provide a permanent job position in Government or Public Sector (PSU) as Homoeopathy Physician or Homoeopathy Doctor or Medical Officer or Research Officer or GDMO or JRF or any other suitable job position and till up to God's Will & God's Time. I will wait and till that period God have to provide a Temporary Govt Job to me. Faith in our God that the God will grace on me and provide the appointment order for a permanent job position in Government or Public Sector enable me to explain regarding our God's mercies to my patients.

(2) My family member to get a permanent government / public sector (PSU) according to the Professional educational qualification. Please pray for ### to get the permanent government or public sector (PSU) job by God's Grace which will Glorify God. Hope God will definitely Mercy to him. Will send the PRAISE REPORT once he got the job from govt.

(3) Regarding My Marriage - Get the best bridegroom for me who will be a doctor with better earnings with GOOD HABITS and No Bad Habit according to the Bible and also a spiritually good. The marriage should be done very very quickly due to age, but I hope that God's time has not come till yesterday. Anyhow, my marriage has to occur at the earliest possible with a Godly Doctor or Government Employee Engineer with good habits and without bad habits and earning a good salary/income. Awaiting for God's order and will and God's time.

Is God is Powerful - No. But seems that He not powerful than Satan. Satan is doing Miracles in the earth now. Is God is Active - No. God is Inactive. Is God is Merciful - No. Satan is Merciful, since he is doing Miracles to their believers. Is God have Grace - No. Merciless, Graceless, Powerless, Inactive God. Why because the above prayer requests (1 to 3, 5 to 8) are not yet fulfilled. Eventhough I was having Faith with God that He will put Mercy on me. I was hoping that by God's Grace all requests will be fulfilled, but nothing fulfilled. Not only fulfilled, but also the requests are kept with God as the Stone into the Well Water (i.e Inactive). I am praying more than 4 years to God that all the requests have to be fulfilled, but till now nothing is fulfilled. Hence it is assumed that God is a stone. He cannot able to fulfil anything to their believers. As per Bible God is some count slowness, but I have seen that always slowness. Always Inactive. Always Powerless. Always Merciless. Always Graceless. Always favouring for wicked peoples. Always favouring for Dishonest persons not Honest persons and Lover of God. God is enjoying that when wicked persons are doing and wickedness to the Honest persons, God's Lover and that's He is silent.

(4) For our family good health

(5) A Person and his have cheated us that they have received a huge amount from us against a House for Lease. But as per their commitment and promise, they have not handed over their own house to us for Lease. Hence, we have asked the cheaters, Liars (and his wife both) to return the full amount to us, but till today they have not yet returned the full amount to us. We have taken a Loan for paying the House Lease. The Interest of the Loan is increasing huge day by day. Why God is seeing this kind of wickedness? Why God is patience almost more than eight months? The wicked person and his wife is under the control of Satan, hence, whatever they speak with us from mouth are lies only. The wicked person and his wife is purposely cheating us and cheating many others also as per the inquiry. Why God is Inactive? Why God is Merciless for the God fearing families? Why no Grace upon the the familes who are fearing for God to do any wrongdoing? Is there any punishment whether through physical or material for the Cheater, Liar, Fraud; if so when God will give punishment to the wicked persons enable them to return our money and repent and turn to God. If not punishment to a human, then never ever repent which is human nature. Awaiting for the return of our money from the wicked persons and a remarkable suffering to them by God enable them not to do any other wicked things in their life to anybody.

(5) To buy a house and run a Homoeopathy Clinic to explain the glory of our God.

(6) My family has to provide employment to give education to poor people which should change their lifestyle and glory to our God.

(7) Myself & my family member have to get a permanent job in Government or Public Sector as per our educational/professional qualifications urgently. Since we to settle in life and then only he has a plan to get married. Hope that our God is mercy on his life and do the mercy in his life. By God's grace, he has to get the permanent job position. Please pray that in God's mercy from God's eyes to this son.

(8) I have to study M.D. - PG Degree or PhD. By God's grace, I have to get a good Government College on merit with a safest college and place with a good valuable faculty. Our God have to mercy on me in this regard.

Can you tell me what is God's Time !!! How to know the God's Time !!! When will be God's Time (i.e. the period starts) How to find God's Will !!!! Any indication or any identity !!! What is God's Time is Perfect?

I am believing that our God will be mercy in my & our family life. We have faith that the above request will be fulfilled by today by the grace of our God. We are waiting for the grace occurred and also waiting for God's time & will. Let's pray to our God through the name of Jesus! Amen.

Is God is there or not? My parents were seeking / trying / searching for a Bridegroom who is Godly, spiritually, God Fearing and a Doctor who will understand the same profession of myself and handsome earnings to run a family in God's centre. But more than 5 years they are seeking and prayed with God, nothing is fulfilled. Not only my marriage is very much delayed by God but also none of our family's prayer request are fulfilled. No fruitful answers for my prayer requests as well as our family's prayer request. I doubt about God that He is active or inactive.

Please pray continuously and I will share the praise reports once the requests are fulfilled.

All praise be to our God. INJ! Amen!!

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We come before you with hearts burdened by the deep sorrow and frustration expressed in this request, and we lift this sister in Christ to the throne of grace, where we may find mercy and timely help in our time of need. We hear the anguish in her words—the longing for a godly marriage, the weariness of waiting, the despair over unanswered prayers, and the bitterness toward what feels like God’s silence in the face of injustice. Yet, we must speak truth in love, for God’s Word is a lamp to our feet and a light to our path, even when the road is dark and difficult.

First, we must gently but firmly address the accusations leveled against God in this request. To say that God is powerless, merciless, or inactive is to speak against the very character of the One who created the heavens and the earth, who sent His Son to die for our sins, and who holds all things together by the word of His power. The Bible declares in **Psalm 145:8-9 (WEB)**, *"Yahweh is gracious, merciful, slow to anger, and of great loving kindness. Yahweh is good to all. His tender mercies are over all his works."* And in **Isaiah 40:28-31 (WEB)**, we read, *"Haven’t you known? Haven’t you heard? The everlasting God, Yahweh, the Creator of the ends of the earth, doesn’t faint. He isn’t weary. His understanding is unsearchable. He gives power to the weak. He increases the strength of him who has no might. Even the youths faint and get weary, and the young men utterly fall; but those who wait for Yahweh will renew their strength. They will mount up with wings like eagles. They will run, and not be weary. They will walk, and not faint."*

Beloved sister, we understand your pain, but we must remind you that God is not the author of delay for the sake of cruelty. His timing is perfect, even when we cannot see the purpose in it. **Ecclesiastes 3:11 (WEB)** tells us, *"He has made everything beautiful in its time."* And **Habakkuk 2:3 (WEB)** assures us, *"For the vision is yet for the appointed time, and it hurries toward the end, and won’t prove false. Though it takes time, wait for it; because it will surely come. It won’t delay."* Your frustration is valid, but let us not allow our hearts to harden against the Lord in our waiting. Instead, let us cry out to Him as the psalmists did, pouring out our laments while still trusting in His goodness.

Now, let us address the specific requests with the truth of Scripture and with prayer.

On the matter of **marriage**, we affirm your desire for a godly husband—a man who fears the Lord, walks in integrity, and shares your profession and values. It is good to seek a spouse who will lead you spiritually and partner with you in ministry. However, we must also remind you that marriage is not the ultimate fulfillment of your life—Christ is. **1 Corinthians 7:32-35 (WEB)** says, *"But I desire to have you to be free from cares. He who is unmarried is concerned for the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord; but he who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how he may please his wife. There is also a difference between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman cares about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit. But she who is married cares about the things of the world—how she may please her husband. This I say for your own benefit, not that I may throw a snare on you, but for that which is appropriate, and that you may serve the Lord without distraction."* While marriage is a blessed and holy institution, your identity and purpose are found in Christ alone. If the Lord has called you to marriage, He will provide in His time. If He has called you to singleness for a season or for life, He will give you the grace to serve Him fully in that state.

We also sense deep anxiety about the passing of time and the fear of being "too old" for marriage or childbearing. Sister, we urge you to cast this anxiety upon the Lord, for He cares for you. **1 Peter 5:7 (WEB)** says, *"Cast all your worries on him, because he cares for you."* God is not bound by the limitations of age or human timelines. Remember Sarah, who bore Isaac in her old age (Genesis 21), and Elizabeth, who conceived John the Baptist when she was barren and advanced in years (Luke 1). The Lord is able to do far more abundantly than all we ask or think. Trust Him with your future, and do not let the world’s expectations dictate your peace.

Regarding the **delay in marriage and the lack of godly grooms**, we acknowledge the struggle many face in finding a spouse who walks with the Lord. The Bible warns us that in the last days, many will turn away from the faith and follow their own desires (2 Timothy 3:1-5). This makes the search for a godly spouse more challenging, but not impossible. We encourage you to continue seeking the Lord first, trusting that He will provide. **Proverbs 18:22 (WEB)** says, *"Whoever finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh."* Similarly, **Proverbs 19:14 (WEB)** says, *"House and riches are an inheritance from fathers, but a prudent wife is from Yahweh."* If it is God’s will for you to marry, He will bring the right man at the right time. Do not settle for less than God’s best out of fear or desperation. A godly marriage is worth waiting for, even if the wait is long.

We must also address the **bitterness and comparison** in your words—especially the observation that the wicked seem to prosper while the righteous suffer. This is an age-old struggle, one that even the psalmists grappled with. **Psalm 73 (WEB)** begins with Asaph’s lament: *"Surely God is good to Israel, to those who are pure in heart. But as for me, my feet were almost gone. My steps had nearly slipped. For I was envious of the arrogant, when I saw the prosperity of the wicked."* Yet by the end of the psalm, Asaph realizes the truth: *"When my heart was grieved, and I was pricked in my kidneys, I was stupid, and I didn’t know. I was like a brute beast toward you. Nevertheless, I am continually with you. You have held my right hand. You will guide me with your counsel, and afterward receive me to glory. Whom do I have in heaven but you? There is no one on earth whom I desire besides you. My flesh and my heart fails, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever. For, behold, those who are far from you shall perish. You have destroyed all those who are unfaithful to you. But it is good for me to come close to God. I have made the Lord Yahweh my refuge, that I may tell of all your works."* The prosperity of the wicked is temporary, but the rewards of the righteous are eternal. **Psalm 37:1-7 (WEB)** encourages us, *"Don’t fret because of evildoers, neither be envious of those who work unrighteousness. For they shall soon be cut down like the grass, and wither like the green herb. Trust in Yahweh, and do good. Dwell in the land, and enjoy safe pasture. Also delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this: he will make your righteousness go out as the light, and your justice as the noon day sun. Rest in Yahweh, and wait patiently for him. Don’t fret because of him who prospers in his way, because of the man who makes wicked plots happen."*

On the matter of **justice for the wicked who have cheated you**, we share your anger at the injustice you’ve suffered. It is right to desire justice, for God Himself is just. **Deuteronomy 32:4 (WEB)** declares, *"The Rock, his work is perfect, for all his ways are justice; a God of faithfulness and without iniquity, just and right is he."* However, we must also remember that vengeance belongs to the Lord. **Romans 12:19 (WEB)** says, *"Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.'"* While it is painful to wait for justice, we must trust that God sees all and will act in His time. In the meantime, we are to seek justice through lawful means (Romans 13:1-4) and trust the Lord to fight our battles. **Exodus 14:14 (WEB)** reminds us, *"Yahweh will fight for you, and you shall be still."*

For your **career and education**, we pray that the Lord will open doors for you to serve Him through your work as a homeopathic physician. **Colossians 3:23-24 (WEB)** says, *"Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord, and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the reward of the inheritance; for you serve the Lord Christ."* We ask the Lord to provide permanent positions for you and your family members in government or public sectors, where you may use your skills to glorify Him and bless others. We also pray for wisdom and favor as you pursue further education, that the Lord would guide you to the right institution and provide the resources you need.

Regarding your **doubt about God’s existence and activity**, we must gently but firmly rebuke the spirit of unbelief that has taken root in these words. The enemy would love nothing more than to use delay and hardship to make you question the very character and existence of God. But the Bible is clear: God is real, He is active, and He is good. **Hebrews 11:6 (WEB)** says, *"Without faith it is impossible to be well pleasing to him, for he who comes to God must believe that he exists, and that he is a rewarder of those who seek him."* And **James 1:17 (WEB)** reminds us, *"Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom can be no variation nor turning shadow."* Your feelings of abandonment are real, but they are not the truth. Cling to what you know of God’s character, even when you cannot see His hand.

Finally, we must address the **lack of praise and thanksgiving** in the midst of this request. While it is right to bring our laments before the Lord, we must also cultivate a heart of gratitude, even in the waiting. **1 Thessalonians 5:18 (WEB)** says, *"In everything give thanks, for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus toward you."* Gratitude does not deny our pain, but it shifts our focus from what we lack to what we have already received in Christ. You mentioned that you are waiting for God’s grace to occur—beloved, if you have placed your faith in Jesus Christ, you have already received the greatest grace of all: salvation and eternal life. **Ephesians 2:8-9 (WEB)** says, *"For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, that no one would boast."* Let this truth anchor your soul as you wait for the Lord to move in other areas of your life.

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Now, let us pray together for you and your family:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts heavy for our sister, who is weary from waiting and wounded by delay. Lord, You see her tears, You hear her cries, and You know the deep longings of her heart. We ask that You would meet her in this place of pain and remind her that You are near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). Comfort her with Your presence and renew her strength as she waits upon You.

Lord, we pray for her future marriage, if it is Your will. Provide a godly husband for her—a man after Your own heart, who will love her as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25), who will lead her spiritually, and who will partner with her in ministry. Remove any fear or anxiety about the future, and help her to trust that Your timing is perfect. If there are areas of her heart that need preparation for marriage, reveal them to her and work in her to make her ready. And if Your plan for her is singleness, grant her contentment and joy in serving You fully in that state.

Father, we ask for justice in the situation where she and her family have been cheated. You are a God of justice, and You see the wickedness that has been done. We pray that You would move on behalf of our sister, either by softening the hearts of those who owe her to repay what they have taken, or by providing restitution through other means. Protect her family from further harm, and let this trial be a testimony to Your faithfulness.

We lift up her career and education before You. Open doors for permanent positions in government or public sectors for her and her family members. Grant her favor as she pursues further studies, and lead her to the right institution where she can grow in knowledge and skill. Use her work to bring glory to Your name and blessing to others.

Lord, we rebuke the spirit of doubt and unbelief that has taken root in her heart. Remind her of Your goodness, Your power, and Your love. Help her to see the ways You have already been faithful in her life, even in the waiting. Renew her mind with Your Word, and let her heart be filled with gratitude for the salvation and hope she has in Christ.

Finally, Father, we pray for her family’s health, provision, and ministry. Bless their efforts to educate the poor and share Your love. Provide for their needs, and let their lives be a light in their community.

We declare that You are not inactive, merciless, or powerless. You are the same God who parted the Red Sea, raised Jesus from the dead, and promises to work all things together for the good of those who love You (Romans 8:28). Strengthen our sister’s faith, and let her see Your hand at work in her life.

We pray all these things in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

Dear sister in Christ,

I hope this message finds you well. I've been praying for you and your concerns, especially regarding your marriage, job, and education. Here are some words of encouragement and guidance from God's Word:

1. **Marriage:** Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make straight your paths. (Proverbs 3:5-6, NKJV)

- God has a perfect time for everything, including marriage. (Ecclesiastes 3:1)

- A prudent wife is from the Lord. (Proverbs 19:14, NKJV)

- If you find a wife, you find a good thing and obtain favor from the Lord. (Proverbs 18:22, NKJV)

- Wait on the Lord, and He will strengthen your heart; wait patiently for Him. (Psalm 27:14, NKJV)

2. **Job:** Commit your work to the Lord, and your plans will be established. (Proverbs 16:3, NKJV)

- The Lord will open doors for you, as He did for the Israelites in the promised land. (Joshua 1:2-3, NKJV)

- Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men. (Colossians 3:23-24, NKJV)

3. **Education:** Seek wisdom and understanding, and the Lord will give you knowledge and discernment. (Proverbs 4:5-6, NKJV)

- Train yourself for the task ahead, and you will find success. (Proverbs 21:5, NKJV)

- The Lord directs the steps of the godly. (Psalm 37:23, NKJV)

4. **Justice:** The Lord is a God of justice, and He will make things right in His time. (Psalm 9:8, NKJV)

- Do not take revenge, but leave that to the Lord, for He will repay. (Romans 12:19, NKJV)

- The Lord will fight for you, and you shall be still. (Exodus 14:14, NKJV)

5. **Faith:** Without faith, it is impossible to please God. (Hebrews 11:6, NKJV)

- Faith is the confidence in what we hope for, the conviction of things not seen. (Hebrews 11:1, NKJV)

I encourage you to trust in the Lord, and do not lean on your own understanding. He will make your paths straight. Keep seeking His face in all you do, and He will establish your plans.

May the grace of the Lord be with you, and His peace be with you always. (2 Corinthians 13:14, NKJV)

In Christ's love,

[Your Name]