Arnoreashire
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My marriage is not stable, because my husband wants another child, but I've already reached menopause. My sons have an attack; they look like they are losing their minds. Please help me 
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We hear your heartache and the deep burden you carry for your marriage and your sons, and we lift you up before the Lord with sincere compassion. Marriage is a sacred covenant designed by God to reflect His love and faithfulness, and when it is strained, it grieves His heart as well as ours. The Word tells us, *"Unless the Lord builds the house, they labor in vain who build it"* (Psalm 127:1). This season is not without hope, for the God who knit your children together in your womb is the same God who can restore what feels broken in your home.
First, we must address the tension in your marriage with truth and grace. Your husband’s desire for another child is understandable, but Scripture is clear that children are a heritage from the Lord (Psalm 127:3), and He opens and closes the womb in His perfect timing (Genesis 20:18). Menopause is a natural part of God’s design for a woman’s body, and it is not a punishment or a failure. We rebuke the lie that your worth or your marriage’s fulfillment is tied to bearing more children. Instead, we declare that God’s plan for your marriage includes this season, and He will use it for His glory if you both surrender it to Him. *"For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope"* (Jeremiah 29:11).
We also lift up your sons, whose struggles weigh heavily on your heart. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), but Jesus came to bring life abundantly. Their mental and emotional battles are not beyond God’s healing power. We rebuke any spirit of confusion, despair, or oppression over their lives in the name of Jesus. The Bible assures us that *"the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus"* (Philippians 4:7). We pray that they would encounter the Prince of Peace and that their minds would be renewed by the truth of God’s Word.
Now, let us come before the Lord together in prayer:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, the only name by which we can be saved and through which we have access to Your throne of grace. Lord, we lift up this precious sister and her family to You. You see the pain in her heart, the strain in her marriage, and the battles her sons are facing. We ask that You would pour out Your mercy and grace upon them.
Father, we pray for this marriage. Where there is misunderstanding, bring clarity. Where there is frustration, bring patience. Where there is division, bring unity. Help both husband and wife to seek You first and to honor the covenant they made before You. Soften their hearts toward one another and remind them that love is patient, love is kind, and it does not insist on its own way (1 Corinthians 13:4-5). Lord, help them to communicate with grace and to trust in Your plan for their family, even when it differs from their own desires.
We also pray for these sons, Lord. You know the depths of their struggles, and we ask that You would break every chain of mental or emotional turmoil in their lives. Send Your Holy Spirit to comfort them, to guide them, and to fill their minds with Your peace. Surround them with godly influences and open their eyes to Your truth. Let them know that they are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14) and that You have a purpose for their lives.
Father, we rebuke the enemy’s schemes to divide this family. We declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17) and that You are their refuge and strength (Psalm 46:1). Strengthen this sister to stand firm in faith, knowing that You are working all things together for good (Romans 8:28).
Lord, if there is any area where this family has not fully surrendered to You, we ask that You would reveal it. Draw them closer to You and help them to walk in obedience to Your Word. May they find their hope and identity in Christ alone.
We thank You, Father, for Your faithfulness and for the victory that is already theirs in Jesus. We trust You to restore, heal, and renew this family according to Your perfect will. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.
Beloved, we encourage you to stand on God’s promises and to fight for your marriage and your sons with spiritual weapons. The enemy wants to isolate you, but you are not alone. Seek godly counsel from your pastor or a trusted Christian mentor who can walk alongside you in this season. Pray together as a couple, even if it feels difficult, and invite the Holy Spirit to be the center of your home. For your sons, continue to cover them in prayer and speak life over them. Remind them of God’s love and faithfulness, and encourage them to seek professional help if their struggles persist.
Remember, *"The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). He sees you, He hears you, and He will not abandon you. Keep your eyes on Him, and trust that He is working even when you cannot see it.
First, we must address the tension in your marriage with truth and grace. Your husband’s desire for another child is understandable, but Scripture is clear that children are a heritage from the Lord (Psalm 127:3), and He opens and closes the womb in His perfect timing (Genesis 20:18). Menopause is a natural part of God’s design for a woman’s body, and it is not a punishment or a failure. We rebuke the lie that your worth or your marriage’s fulfillment is tied to bearing more children. Instead, we declare that God’s plan for your marriage includes this season, and He will use it for His glory if you both surrender it to Him. *"For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope"* (Jeremiah 29:11).
We also lift up your sons, whose struggles weigh heavily on your heart. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), but Jesus came to bring life abundantly. Their mental and emotional battles are not beyond God’s healing power. We rebuke any spirit of confusion, despair, or oppression over their lives in the name of Jesus. The Bible assures us that *"the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus"* (Philippians 4:7). We pray that they would encounter the Prince of Peace and that their minds would be renewed by the truth of God’s Word.
Now, let us come before the Lord together in prayer:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, the only name by which we can be saved and through which we have access to Your throne of grace. Lord, we lift up this precious sister and her family to You. You see the pain in her heart, the strain in her marriage, and the battles her sons are facing. We ask that You would pour out Your mercy and grace upon them.
Father, we pray for this marriage. Where there is misunderstanding, bring clarity. Where there is frustration, bring patience. Where there is division, bring unity. Help both husband and wife to seek You first and to honor the covenant they made before You. Soften their hearts toward one another and remind them that love is patient, love is kind, and it does not insist on its own way (1 Corinthians 13:4-5). Lord, help them to communicate with grace and to trust in Your plan for their family, even when it differs from their own desires.
We also pray for these sons, Lord. You know the depths of their struggles, and we ask that You would break every chain of mental or emotional turmoil in their lives. Send Your Holy Spirit to comfort them, to guide them, and to fill their minds with Your peace. Surround them with godly influences and open their eyes to Your truth. Let them know that they are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14) and that You have a purpose for their lives.
Father, we rebuke the enemy’s schemes to divide this family. We declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17) and that You are their refuge and strength (Psalm 46:1). Strengthen this sister to stand firm in faith, knowing that You are working all things together for good (Romans 8:28).
Lord, if there is any area where this family has not fully surrendered to You, we ask that You would reveal it. Draw them closer to You and help them to walk in obedience to Your Word. May they find their hope and identity in Christ alone.
We thank You, Father, for Your faithfulness and for the victory that is already theirs in Jesus. We trust You to restore, heal, and renew this family according to Your perfect will. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.
Beloved, we encourage you to stand on God’s promises and to fight for your marriage and your sons with spiritual weapons. The enemy wants to isolate you, but you are not alone. Seek godly counsel from your pastor or a trusted Christian mentor who can walk alongside you in this season. Pray together as a couple, even if it feels difficult, and invite the Holy Spirit to be the center of your home. For your sons, continue to cover them in prayer and speak life over them. Remind them of God’s love and faithfulness, and encourage them to seek professional help if their struggles persist.
Remember, *"The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). He sees you, He hears you, and He will not abandon you. Keep your eyes on Him, and trust that He is working even when you cannot see it.
Dear friend, we're here with you, holding your heart in our prayers. We know the struggle feels overwhelming, but remember, God is in the business of miracles. He sees your marriage, your sons, and He loves them even more than you do.
We're claiming Psalm 147:3 over your situation, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." We ask for healing, restoration, and peace in your marriage and for your sons' mental health. We declare that God's love and care are enough to see you through this trial.
Let's keep standing in faith together, believing that God will turn this season around for your good and His glory. Trust in Him, and remember, you're never alone. We're here, praying with you, for you. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We're claiming Psalm 147:3 over your situation, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." We ask for healing, restoration, and peace in your marriage and for your sons' mental health. We declare that God's love and care are enough to see you through this trial.
Let's keep standing in faith together, believing that God will turn this season around for your good and His glory. Trust in Him, and remember, you're never alone. We're here, praying with you, for you. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
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I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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