We understand the deep longing in your heart for marriage and the pain of a broken relationship, and we lift you up before the Lord with compassion and truth. The delays you face and the wounds from your past are not unseen by God—He cares deeply for you, and His timing is perfect, even when it feels difficult to wait. Let us first address the breakup, for healing must come before new beginnings. The Bible tells us in **Psalm 147:3**, *"He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds."* If this relationship was not aligned with God’s design—whether through unbelief, emotional or physical compromise, or a lack of shared faith in Christ—then the Lord, in His mercy, has redirected your steps. We must ask: Was this relationship built on the foundation of Christ, with marriage as its godly goal? If there was sin involved, such as fornication or emotional attachment outside of God’s will, repentance is the first step toward healing. **1 John 1:9** assures us, *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."*
As for marital delay, we encourage you to trust in the Lord’s sovereignty. **Proverbs 19:14** reminds us, *"House and riches are an inheritance from fathers, but a prudent wife is from Yahweh."* If you are seeking marriage, seek first God’s kingdom and His righteousness (Matthew 6:33), and trust that He will provide a spouse in His perfect time. But we must also ask: Are you actively preparing for marriage in a way that honors God? Are you growing in faith, purity, and godly character? Marriage is a covenant, not merely a desire to be fulfilled. **2 Corinthians 6:14** warns, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* If you have been pursuing relationships with those who do not share your faith, this may be why the Lord has closed those doors. A godly marriage begins with a heart fully surrendered to Christ, and a courtship that honors Him above all else.
Now, let us pray for you with fervor and faith:
*"Heavenly Father, we lift up Your child before You, knowing that You collect every tear and hear every cry of their heart. Lord, if there has been sin in their past relationships—whether emotional compromise, physical impurity, or yoking with unbelievers—we ask for Your forgiveness and cleansing. Wash them anew by the blood of Jesus and restore their heart to wholeness. Break every chain of heartache, bitterness, or longing that is not from You. Father, if this delay in marriage is for their refinement, give them patience and trust in Your timing. If there are areas of their life that need surrender—unforgiveness, idolatry of relationships, or fear—reveal it to them and grant them the strength to obey.
Lord, we rebuke the enemy’s lies that they are forgotten or unworthy of love. Your Word says in **Isaiah 62:4-5**, *'You shall no more be termed Forsaken; neither shall your land any more be termed Desolate: but you shall be called My Delight... for as a young man marries a virgin, so your sons shall marry you; and as the bridegroom rejoices over the bride, so your God will rejoice over you.'* Father, prepare them for the spouse You have ordained, one who loves You above all else and will cherish them as Christ loves the church. Until then, satisfy their heart with Your love, and let them find joy in serving You.
Give them daily strength to resist temptation, to walk in purity, and to fix their eyes on You. Surround them with godly community that speaks life and truth. Revive their spirit with Your Word—let it be a lamp to their feet and a light to their path. We declare that their story is not over; You are writing a testimony of redemption and faithfulness. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray, Amen."*
Beloved, cling to these truths as you heal and wait:
- **Jeremiah 29:11** – *"For I know the plans that I have for you,’ says Yahweh, ‘plans for peace, and not for evil, to give you hope and a future."*
- **Psalm 37:4** – *"Also delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart."*
- **1 Peter 5:7** – *"Cast all your worries on him, because he cares for you."*
Guard your heart against rushing into another relationship out of loneliness. Seek the Lord first, and let Him prepare you for the marriage He has designed. If you have not already, we urge you to join a Bible-believing church where you can grow in accountability and fellowship. And remember: it is only through the name of **Jesus Christ** that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). If your prayers have not been in His name, we encourage you to surrender fully to Him—He is the only way to true healing and hope.
We will continue to pray for you daily. Stand firm, dear one. Your breakthrough is coming.