Marital delay, and how to overcome a breakup
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We understand the deep longing in your heart for marriage and the pain of a broken relationship, and we lift you up before the Lord with compassion and truth. The delays you face and the wounds from your past are not unseen by God—He cares deeply for you, and His timing is perfect, even when it feels difficult to wait. Let us first address the breakup, for healing must come before new beginnings. The Bible tells us in **Psalm 147:3**, *"He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds."* If this relationship was not aligned with God’s design—whether through unbelief, emotional or physical compromise, or a lack of shared faith in Christ—then the Lord, in His mercy, has redirected your steps. We must ask: Was this relationship built on the foundation of Christ, with marriage as its godly goal? If there was sin involved, such as fornication or emotional attachment outside of God’s will, repentance is the first step toward healing. **1 John 1:9** assures us, *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."*
As for marital delay, we encourage you to trust in the Lord’s sovereignty. **Proverbs 19:14** reminds us, *"House and riches are an inheritance from fathers, but a prudent wife is from Yahweh."* If you are seeking marriage, seek first God’s kingdom and His righteousness (Matthew 6:33), and trust that He will provide a spouse in His perfect time. But we must also ask: Are you actively preparing for marriage in a way that honors God? Are you growing in faith, purity, and godly character? Marriage is a covenant, not merely a desire to be fulfilled. **2 Corinthians 6:14** warns, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* If you have been pursuing relationships with those who do not share your faith, this may be why the Lord has closed those doors. A godly marriage begins with a heart fully surrendered to Christ, and a courtship that honors Him above all else.
Now, let us pray for you with fervor and faith:
*"Heavenly Father, we lift up Your child before You, knowing that You collect every tear and hear every cry of their heart. Lord, if there has been sin in their past relationships—whether emotional compromise, physical impurity, or yoking with unbelievers—we ask for Your forgiveness and cleansing. Wash them anew by the blood of Jesus and restore their heart to wholeness. Break every chain of heartache, bitterness, or longing that is not from You. Father, if this delay in marriage is for their refinement, give them patience and trust in Your timing. If there are areas of their life that need surrender—unforgiveness, idolatry of relationships, or fear—reveal it to them and grant them the strength to obey.
Lord, we rebuke the enemy’s lies that they are forgotten or unworthy of love. Your Word says in **Isaiah 62:4-5**, *'You shall no more be termed Forsaken; neither shall your land any more be termed Desolate: but you shall be called My Delight... for as a young man marries a virgin, so your sons shall marry you; and as the bridegroom rejoices over the bride, so your God will rejoice over you.'* Father, prepare them for the spouse You have ordained, one who loves You above all else and will cherish them as Christ loves the church. Until then, satisfy their heart with Your love, and let them find joy in serving You.
Give them daily strength to resist temptation, to walk in purity, and to fix their eyes on You. Surround them with godly community that speaks life and truth. Revive their spirit with Your Word—let it be a lamp to their feet and a light to their path. We declare that their story is not over; You are writing a testimony of redemption and faithfulness. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray, Amen."*
Beloved, cling to these truths as you heal and wait:
- **Jeremiah 29:11** – *"For I know the plans that I have for you,’ says Yahweh, ‘plans for peace, and not for evil, to give you hope and a future."*
- **Psalm 37:4** – *"Also delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart."*
- **1 Peter 5:7** – *"Cast all your worries on him, because he cares for you."*
Guard your heart against rushing into another relationship out of loneliness. Seek the Lord first, and let Him prepare you for the marriage He has designed. If you have not already, we urge you to join a Bible-believing church where you can grow in accountability and fellowship. And remember: it is only through the name of **Jesus Christ** that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). If your prayers have not been in His name, we encourage you to surrender fully to Him—He is the only way to true healing and hope.
We will continue to pray for you daily. Stand firm, dear one. Your breakthrough is coming.
As for marital delay, we encourage you to trust in the Lord’s sovereignty. **Proverbs 19:14** reminds us, *"House and riches are an inheritance from fathers, but a prudent wife is from Yahweh."* If you are seeking marriage, seek first God’s kingdom and His righteousness (Matthew 6:33), and trust that He will provide a spouse in His perfect time. But we must also ask: Are you actively preparing for marriage in a way that honors God? Are you growing in faith, purity, and godly character? Marriage is a covenant, not merely a desire to be fulfilled. **2 Corinthians 6:14** warns, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* If you have been pursuing relationships with those who do not share your faith, this may be why the Lord has closed those doors. A godly marriage begins with a heart fully surrendered to Christ, and a courtship that honors Him above all else.
Now, let us pray for you with fervor and faith:
*"Heavenly Father, we lift up Your child before You, knowing that You collect every tear and hear every cry of their heart. Lord, if there has been sin in their past relationships—whether emotional compromise, physical impurity, or yoking with unbelievers—we ask for Your forgiveness and cleansing. Wash them anew by the blood of Jesus and restore their heart to wholeness. Break every chain of heartache, bitterness, or longing that is not from You. Father, if this delay in marriage is for their refinement, give them patience and trust in Your timing. If there are areas of their life that need surrender—unforgiveness, idolatry of relationships, or fear—reveal it to them and grant them the strength to obey.
Lord, we rebuke the enemy’s lies that they are forgotten or unworthy of love. Your Word says in **Isaiah 62:4-5**, *'You shall no more be termed Forsaken; neither shall your land any more be termed Desolate: but you shall be called My Delight... for as a young man marries a virgin, so your sons shall marry you; and as the bridegroom rejoices over the bride, so your God will rejoice over you.'* Father, prepare them for the spouse You have ordained, one who loves You above all else and will cherish them as Christ loves the church. Until then, satisfy their heart with Your love, and let them find joy in serving You.
Give them daily strength to resist temptation, to walk in purity, and to fix their eyes on You. Surround them with godly community that speaks life and truth. Revive their spirit with Your Word—let it be a lamp to their feet and a light to their path. We declare that their story is not over; You are writing a testimony of redemption and faithfulness. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray, Amen."*
Beloved, cling to these truths as you heal and wait:
- **Jeremiah 29:11** – *"For I know the plans that I have for you,’ says Yahweh, ‘plans for peace, and not for evil, to give you hope and a future."*
- **Psalm 37:4** – *"Also delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart."*
- **1 Peter 5:7** – *"Cast all your worries on him, because he cares for you."*
Guard your heart against rushing into another relationship out of loneliness. Seek the Lord first, and let Him prepare you for the marriage He has designed. If you have not already, we urge you to join a Bible-believing church where you can grow in accountability and fellowship. And remember: it is only through the name of **Jesus Christ** that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). If your prayers have not been in His name, we encourage you to surrender fully to Him—He is the only way to true healing and hope.
We will continue to pray for you daily. Stand firm, dear one. Your breakthrough is coming.
Dear friend, we're here with you, holding your heart in our prayers. We understand the ache of a broken relationship and the longing for marriage. It's like waiting for a beloved friend who's running late, and we know it's hard. But remember, God's timing is always perfect, even when it's difficult to wait.
Let's focus on healing first. The Bible tells us in Psalm 147:3, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." We need to ask ourselves, was this relationship built on the foundation of Christ, with marriage as its godly goal? If there was sin involved, like fornication or emotional attachment outside of God's will, we must repent and ask for forgiveness. 1 John 1:9 assures us, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."
As for the delay in marriage, trust in the Lord's sovereignty. Proverbs 19:14 reminds us, "House and riches are an inheritance from fathers, but a prudent wife is from the Lord." Seek God's kingdom and His righteousness first (Matthew 6:33), and trust that He will provide a spouse in His perfect time. But let's also ask, are we actively preparing for marriage in a way that honors God? Are we growing in faith, purity, and godly character?
Let's pray for you with fervor and faith:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we lift up Your child before You, knowing that You collect every tear and hear every cry of their heart. Lord, if there has been sin in their past relationships, we ask for Your forgiveness and cleansing. Wash them anew by the blood of Jesus and restore their heart to wholeness. Break every chain of heartache, bitterness, or longing that is not from You. Father, if this delay in marriage is for their refinement, give them patience and trust in Your timing. If there are areas of their life that need surrender, reveal it to them and grant them the strength to obey.
Lord, we rebuke the enemy's lies that they are forgotten or unworthy of love. Your Word says in Isaiah 62:4-5, 'You shall no more be termed Forsaken; neither shall your land any more be termed Desolate... for as a young man marries a virgin, so your sons shall marry you; and as the bridegroom rejoices over the bride, so your God will rejoice over you.' Father, prepare them for the spouse You have ordained, one who loves You above all else and will cherish them as Christ loves the church. Until then, satisfy their heart with Your love, and let them find joy in serving You.
Give them daily strength to resist temptation, to walk in purity, and to fix their eyes on You. Surround them with godly community that speaks life and truth. Revive their spirit with Your Word - let it be a lamp to their feet and a light to their path. We declare that their story is not over; You are writing a testimony of redemption and faithfulness. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray, Amen."
Beloved, cling to these truths as you heal and wait:
- Jeremiah 29:11 - "For I know the plans that I have for you, says Yahweh, 'plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.'"
- Psalm 37:4 - "Delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart."
- 1 Peter 5:7 - "Cast all your worries on him, because he cares for you."
Guard your heart against rushing into another relationship out of loneliness. Seek the Lord first, and let Him prepare you for the marriage He has designed. If you haven't already, we urge you to join a Bible-believing church where you can grow in accountability and fellowship. Remember, it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). If your prayers have not been in His name, we encourage you to surrender fully to Him - He is the only way to true healing and hope.
We will continue to pray for you daily. Stand firm, dear one. Your breakthrough is coming.
Let's focus on healing first. The Bible tells us in Psalm 147:3, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." We need to ask ourselves, was this relationship built on the foundation of Christ, with marriage as its godly goal? If there was sin involved, like fornication or emotional attachment outside of God's will, we must repent and ask for forgiveness. 1 John 1:9 assures us, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."
As for the delay in marriage, trust in the Lord's sovereignty. Proverbs 19:14 reminds us, "House and riches are an inheritance from fathers, but a prudent wife is from the Lord." Seek God's kingdom and His righteousness first (Matthew 6:33), and trust that He will provide a spouse in His perfect time. But let's also ask, are we actively preparing for marriage in a way that honors God? Are we growing in faith, purity, and godly character?
Let's pray for you with fervor and faith:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we lift up Your child before You, knowing that You collect every tear and hear every cry of their heart. Lord, if there has been sin in their past relationships, we ask for Your forgiveness and cleansing. Wash them anew by the blood of Jesus and restore their heart to wholeness. Break every chain of heartache, bitterness, or longing that is not from You. Father, if this delay in marriage is for their refinement, give them patience and trust in Your timing. If there are areas of their life that need surrender, reveal it to them and grant them the strength to obey.
Lord, we rebuke the enemy's lies that they are forgotten or unworthy of love. Your Word says in Isaiah 62:4-5, 'You shall no more be termed Forsaken; neither shall your land any more be termed Desolate... for as a young man marries a virgin, so your sons shall marry you; and as the bridegroom rejoices over the bride, so your God will rejoice over you.' Father, prepare them for the spouse You have ordained, one who loves You above all else and will cherish them as Christ loves the church. Until then, satisfy their heart with Your love, and let them find joy in serving You.
Give them daily strength to resist temptation, to walk in purity, and to fix their eyes on You. Surround them with godly community that speaks life and truth. Revive their spirit with Your Word - let it be a lamp to their feet and a light to their path. We declare that their story is not over; You are writing a testimony of redemption and faithfulness. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray, Amen."
Beloved, cling to these truths as you heal and wait:
- Jeremiah 29:11 - "For I know the plans that I have for you, says Yahweh, 'plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.'"
- Psalm 37:4 - "Delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart."
- 1 Peter 5:7 - "Cast all your worries on him, because he cares for you."
Guard your heart against rushing into another relationship out of loneliness. Seek the Lord first, and let Him prepare you for the marriage He has designed. If you haven't already, we urge you to join a Bible-believing church where you can grow in accountability and fellowship. Remember, it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). If your prayers have not been in His name, we encourage you to surrender fully to Him - He is the only way to true healing and hope.
We will continue to pray for you daily. Stand firm, dear one. Your breakthrough is coming.
JesusourLordandSavior
Beloved of All
Thank you Heavenly Father for blessing us with another day, and for all you do for all of us. All glory and honor belongs to you Father. I lift this prayer up on your glory Father God and ask that you grant your perfect will. In Jesus name I pray. Amen
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
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Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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