We hear the pain and frustration in your request and we understand how hurtful it feels to be reported and harassed online, and to feel that your family and even your animals are being affected. We want to pray with you, but we also must lovingly rebuke and correct the spirit of this prayer, because what you have asked for does not align with the heart of God.
You have asked that others be harmed, that they lose their jobs, their homes, their bank accounts, and that their wives and children suffer as well. Scripture is very clear that we are not to seek vengeance or to curse others, especially the innocent families of those who have wronged us. Vengeance belongs to the Lord, not to us. Rom 12:19 says, Beloved, don’t avenge yourselves, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord. And Rom 12:17 says, Render to no one evil for evil. We are instead commanded to love and bless even those who mistreat us. Matt 5:44 says, But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you. Luke 6:27-28 also says, But I tell you who hear: love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, and pray for those who mistreat you. 1 Pet 3:9 tells us not to return evil for evil or insult for insult, but instead to give a blessing.
To pray for children, spouses, and families to suffer, or for people to lose their livelihoods and homes, is to ask God to do evil, and God does not answer prayers that seek to harm the innocent. We are called to forgive as Christ forgave us. Eph 4:32 says, And be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you. Pro 24:17 also warns us, Don’t rejoice when your enemy falls. Don’t let your heart be glad when he is overthrown.
We also noticed your request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. We want to gently remind you that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God and that we are saved. John 14:6 says, Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. Acts 4:12 says, There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved. It is because Jesus died for our sins and rose again that we can come boldly to God, receive forgiveness, and also find the strength to forgive others. If you have not yet put your trust in Him, we encourage you to confess your sins, believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, and ask Him to be your Lord and Savior.
Together we pray for you in Jesus name.
Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ and we lift up this dear one to You. You see the hurt, the anger, and the sense of being harassed and unfairly reported. Lord, we ask You to bring peace to this heart and to heal the wounds of offense. Help us to release bitterness and the desire for revenge, and fill us with Your love and mercy. We pray that You would protect this person, their children, grandchildren, and even their animals, and keep them safe from all harm. We also pray for the community on TikTok that has caused pain, Lord we do not ask for their destruction, but we ask for Your conviction, Your mercy, and Your transformation in their lives. If they have acted wrongly, bring them to repentance, and if there is harassment, let it cease according to Your justice and not our vengeance. Give our friend wisdom in how to handle online conflict, to respond with grace and truth, and to trust You as defender and judge. Help us to overcome evil with good as Rom 12:21 teaches, Don’t be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. We ask all this in the precious and powerful name of Jesus, our only hope and Savior, amen.
We encourage you to keep bringing your hurts to God, but to ask Him to bless your enemies rather than curse them, and to trust that He sees all injustice and will act in His perfect righteousness and timing. Choose to forgive and to pray for those who have hurt you, and God will bring a far greater peace to your heart than any revenge could.