We hear the deep longing in your heart for a complete makeover of your life, for favor, happiness that stays, a new home, peace for yourself, your mom, your three children, your spouses, your pets and your friends, and for your work with your salon and studio and online presence to thrive, and we join with you to seek God's will together in Jesus' name.
We want to gently speak truth in love about some of the language and desires you expressed. There is no such thing as luck or bad luck turning to good luck for the believer. Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights James 1:17, and all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose Romans 8:28. We are not to chase luck or uncommon favor as a force, but to seek first God's Kingdom and his righteousness and all these things will be given to you as well Matthew 6:33. Happiness that depends on circumstances will fade, but true joy and peace come from delighting yourself in Yahweh and He will give you the desires of your heart Psalm 37:4 and from trusting in Yahweh with all your heart and not leaning on your own understanding Proverbs 3:5-6. What you describe as sting and negative energy, scripture calls sin, trials, and spiritual opposition, and we are called to be transformed by the renewing of your mind Romans 12:2 and to know that if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation, the old things have passed away, behold, all things have become new 2 Corinthians 5:17. We also want to lovingly rebuke the idea that we can speak a makeover into existence one hundred fold as a formula. God is sovereign and His favor is not a magic incantation but His gracious presence as we walk in obedience, humility and diligence.
We also want to address your desire to find your boo on Tinder. We understand the longing for companionship, but we encourage you to pursue courtship with the goal of marriage and not simply a partner or a boo. We believe in the sanctity of marriage as a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman as outlined in the Bible. The husband and wife become one flesh Genesis 2:24 and marriage is to be held in honor among all and the bed undefiled Hebrews 13:4. Tinder and similar platforms often encourage casual, non-committal relationships and can lead to fornication, which is sex before or outside of marriage, and God calls us to abstain from sexual immorality and to know how to possess our own vessel in sanctification and honor 1 Thessalonians 4:3-4. We encourage you to not be unequally yoked with unbelievers 2 Corinthians 6:14, but to pray for a godly spouse, another Christian believer, if it is God's will for you to marry, and to pursue that relationship with purity, accountability and counsel, looking toward marriage that honors God rather than seeking a temporary connection. We also pray for your marriages and the spouses you mentioned, that those covenants would be strengthened in Christ.
We rejoice that you mentioned the blood of Jesus, for it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Jesus said I am the way, the truth, and the life, no one comes to the Father, except through me John 14:6 and there is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved Acts 4:12. It is by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God Ephesians 2:8. We encourage you to continue to place your full trust in Jesus Christ for forgiveness, new life and eternal inheritance, which is far greater than any earthly inheritance or phone call you may be waiting for.
We pray for your practical needs as well. We pray that God would provide for a safe and peaceful home, for unless Yahweh builds the house, they labor in vain who build it Psalm 127:1, and that you would find contentment and provision as you work heartily, as for the Lord, and not for men Colossians 3:23, in your salon, your studio and any part time work He provides. We pray for integrity and favor in your online photos and videos, not for vanity but that whatever you do, you do all to the glory of God 1 Corinthians 10:31. We pray for your health and the health of your family and even your pets, knowing the Lord cares for all His creation, and we ask for His healing and sustaining grace, for beloved, we pray that you may prosper in all things and be healthy, even as your soul prospers 3 John 1:2.
We now pray together for you.
Father in heaven, we come before You in the precious name of Jesus Christ and through His blood. We ask for Your will to be done in this dear one's life. Transform her from the inside out, renew her mind and give her the peace that surpasses all understanding as she makes her requests known to You Philippians 4:6-7. Replace anxiety and worry with trust in You, for You have said to cast all your worries on Him, because He cares for you 1 Peter 5:7. We ask that You would remove any influence of sin and darkness and fill her home with Your light and joy. Provide for her, her mother, her three children, their spouses, her friends and her pets according to Your riches and wisdom. Give her diligence and wisdom in her salon and studio work, open doors for honest work that provides and honors You. If it is Your will, bring a godly husband into her life, a man who loves You and will lead a Christ centered marriage, and keep her pure and guarded until that time. Help her to find her happiness and delight in You alone, knowing that You know the plans You have for her, plans for peace, and not for evil, to give her hope and a future Jeremiah 29:11. We ask for good health, thriving souls, and positive hope rooted in Christ, not in luck, and we trust You to turn what was meant for harm into good. We thank You for the inheritance we have in Christ, an imperishable inheritance kept in heaven, and we ask for Your provision for her daily needs. Let all her communication online and in person be seasoned with grace and truth. We pray this in the mighty and saving name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, amen.