We understand that you have strong feelings for this man and believe he might be the one for you. However, it's crucial to approach this situation with wisdom and discernment, ensuring that your desires align with God's will for your life.
Firstly, we commend you for asking for prayer in Jesus' name. It's essential to remember that it is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'"
Now, let's consider your feelings for this man. While it's natural to have strong emotions, it's important to guard your heart and ensure that this relationship is centered on God's principles. Psalm 37:4 WEB tells us: "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart." This means that when we put God first, He will place the right desires in our hearts.
However, we must also be cautious of our feelings. Jeremiah 17:9 WEB reminds us: "The heart is deceitful above all things, and it is exceedingly corrupt. Who can know it?" Therefore, it is good to test your feelings and be patient before making a decision. 1 Corinthians 10:13 WEB says: "No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it."
If you are feeling sad and lonely without him, it could be a sign that you are placing too much hope in a man and it may be a good idea to draw near to Jesus during this time. It is not healthy to feel lonely without a man and this may be an indication you are not yet ready for marriage. 1 Corinthians 7:35 WEB states: "I say this for your own benefit; not that I may restrict you, but to promote what is appropriate, and that you may be devoted to the Lord without distraction."
We also must address that your words "I want him badly" can be misunderstood to mean that there is a physical desire. We would hope that is not the case. It is important to maintain purity and set boundaries to honor God and each other. It is good to refrain from any premarital sexual relations, as is clear in 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB: "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."
Before moving forward, make sure this man shares your faith and is committed to living according to biblical principles. 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB tells us: "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is experiencing strong feelings for a man. We ask that You guide her steps and give her wisdom and discernment. Help her to guard her heart and ensure that this relationship honors You. If this man is not Your will for her, we pray that You remove her feelings for him and direct her to the man You have chosen for her. Comfort her in her loneliness and help her to delight in You, knowing that You will give her the desires of her heart as she seeks You first.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be patient and trust in God's timing. He has a plan and purpose for your life, and He will reveal the right person for you as you seek Him with all your heart.