Love Return

Starotel

Disciple of Prayer
ഞാൻ സ്നേഹിക്കുന്ന ഷാനു എന്ന് ഞാൻ വിളിക്കുന്ന ### യുടെ സ്നേഹം എനിക്ക് തിരിച്ചു പഴയതുപോലെ കിട്ടണം. ഇപ്പോൾ അവൻ എന്നെ എല്ലാം ബ്ലോക്ക് ചെയ്തിരിക്കുകയാണ്. അവനെ ശല്യപ്പെടുത്തി കൊണ്ടിരിക്കുന്ന വിദ്യ. ആർ എന്ന് പറയുന്ന പെൺകുട്ടിയുടെ ശല്യം പൂർണ്ണമായും ഒഴിവാക്കി എന്നിൽ മാത്രം അവൻ ഒതുങ്ങി കൂടണം എപ്പോഴും എന്നെ വിളിക്കുകയും സംസാരിക്കുകയും സന്തോഷത്തോടെ ഇരിക്കുകയും ചെയ്യണം. ഞങ്ങളുടെ കല്യാണം എത്രയും പെട്ടെന്ന് ആരുടെയും ശല്യമില്ലാതെ രണ്ട് വീട്ടുകാരുടെയും പൂർണ്ണ സമ്മതത്തോട് കൂടി നടക്കുകയും വേണം.
 
Topic Automatically Translated From Malayalam Language:

I want to get back the love of ###, whom I call Shanu, whom I love, like before. Now he has blocked me completely. ###, who is harassing him. He should completely avoid the harassment of the girl who says "R" and confine himself to me only, always call me, talk to me and be happy. Our marriage should take place as soon as possible without any harassment from anyone and with the full consent of both families.
 
We understand the deep longing in your heart to restore this relationship, but we must first address this situation with truth and biblical wisdom. The emotions you’re expressing reveal a desire for love, security, and commitment—all good things—but they must be pursued in a way that honors God. Let us examine this carefully in light of Scripture, for God’s ways are higher than ours, and His plans for us are always for our ultimate good.

First, we notice that this request does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, through whom alone we have access to the Father. The Bible is clear: *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). If you do not yet have a personal relationship with Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to turn to Him first. He is the only One who can truly satisfy the deepest longings of your heart. *"Jesus said to him, ‘I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me’* (John 14:6, WEB). Without faith in Christ, our prayers are empty, and our desires—no matter how strong—will never be fulfilled in the way God intends.

Now, let us address the relationship itself. You speak of wanting to "get back the love" of this man and for him to avoid another woman who is harassing him. We must ask: is this relationship built on a foundation that honors God? Are you both committed Christians seeking to glorify the Lord in your lives? The Bible warns us not to be *"unequally yoked"* with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB), for such relationships often lead to spiritual compromise and heartache. If this man is not a believer, we strongly encourage you to reconsider your desire for this relationship. A marriage between a believer and an unbeliever cannot fulfill God’s design, which is for a man and woman to *"become one flesh"* (Genesis 2:24, WEB) in a union that reflects Christ’s love for His Church (Ephesians 5:22-33, WEB).

Additionally, your request reveals a desire to control this man’s actions—wanting him to avoid another woman, to call you, to talk to you, and to marry you quickly. This is not love as the Bible defines it. Love *"doesn’t seek its own way"* (1 Corinthians 13:5, WEB). True love is patient, kind, and selfless. It does not demand or manipulate. If this man has blocked you, it may be a sign that he is not the one God has for you. Forcing a relationship—even through prayer—when the other person is not willing is not biblical. We must trust God’s timing and sovereignty. *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight"* (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB).

We also must address the mention of harassment. If there is another woman involved, and if she is truly harassing him, that is sinful and wrong. However, it is not your place to "bind" this man to you or to demand that he cut ties with others. That is between him, God, and the authorities if laws are being broken. Your focus should be on seeking God’s will, not on controlling another person’s choices.

Lastly, marriage is a sacred covenant before God, not something to be rushed for emotional fulfillment. The Bible tells us that *"it is better to take refuge in Yahweh than to put confidence in man"* (Psalm 118:8, WEB). If marriage is God’s will for you and this man, it will happen in His perfect timing and with the blessing of both families—but only if it aligns with His Word. If not, God has someone far better for you, someone who will love you as Christ loves the Church.

Let us pray for you now, asking God to align your heart with His will and to give you peace and wisdom.

---
**Prayer:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this precious soul who longs for love and restoration. Lord, we ask that You reveal Yourself to them in a powerful way. If they do not yet know You as their Savior, we pray that You would open their eyes to the truth of the Gospel—that Jesus Christ died for their sins and rose again, and that salvation is found in no other name. Draw them to Yourself, Father, and fill the emptiness in their heart with Your perfect love.

Lord, we ask for Your wisdom in this situation. If this relationship is not of You, we pray that You would give them the strength to let go and trust in Your perfect plan. Remove any ungodly soul ties or emotional dependencies that are not from You. If this man is not a believer, we pray that You would either save him or make it clear that this is not the path You have for them. Guard their heart from idolatry, for we know that anything we love more than You becomes an idol.

Father, if there is harassment or sinful behavior happening, we ask that You would expose it and bring conviction. Protect this man and this sister in Christ from any ungodly influences. But Lord, we also ask that You would give them a spirit of surrender—help them to release this desire to control and instead trust in Your sovereignty.

If marriage is Your will for them, prepare the way, Lord. Soften hearts, unite families, and let it be a godly union that brings glory to Your name. But if it is not Your will, give them the grace to accept it and the faith to believe that You have something far better in store.

Fill them with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding. Remind them that You are their first love, their Provider, and their Protector. Let them find their identity and worth in You alone. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
---

We encourage you to spend time in God’s Word, seeking His face above all else. *"Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this"* (Psalm 37:4-5, WEB). Sometimes, the desires of our heart change as we draw closer to Him. Trust that His plans for you are good, even when they don’t match your own.

If you are not already part of a Bible-believing church, we urge you to find one where you can grow in your faith and receive godly counsel. Surround yourself with believers who can support you in prayer and hold you accountable to God’s Word. And remember: *"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted, and saves those who are crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18, WEB). He sees your pain, and He will never leave you nor forsake you.
 
We understand your longing for love and restoration, dear one. We've been where you are, and we know the pain of a seemingly unrequited love. But remember, God's ways are higher than ours, and His plans are always for our ultimate good.

We've been praying for you, asking God to fill your heart with His love and peace. We've also been seeking His wisdom in this situation. Here's what we feel led to share with you today:

First, we want to encourage you to focus on your own growth in Christ. "Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind" (Romans 12:2, WEB). Spending time in God's Word and in prayer will help you navigate this situation with wisdom and grace.

Next, we want to remind you that God is the only one who can truly satisfy the deepest longings of your heart. He loves you more than you can imagine, and He wants what's best for you. Trust that His plans for you are good, even if they don't align with your current desires.

We also want to encourage you to let go of any bitterness or resentment you may be feeling towards this man or the other woman involved. Forgive as you have been forgiven (Ephesians 4:32). Harboring these feelings will only cause more harm to your own heart and soul.

Lastly, we want to remind you that God is in control. He sees your pain, and He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). Trust in His timing and His sovereignty. He has a plan, and it's a good one.

We'll continue to pray for you, dear one. We ask that God would give you the strength to let go of this relationship if it's not His will, and the faith to trust in His perfect plan for your life. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

sermons

Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
 
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

 

Similar Requests

Please pray for the return of someone I care about very deeply. We haven’t spoken in years, however I reached out recently and have not heard back. I long for a response everyday. I want to reconcile, apologize, and be good with this person again. I love them so much and want them back in my...
Replies
5
Views
72
Dear heart of Jesus, in the past I have asked for many favors. This time I ask for this very special one: bring my former fiancée ### back to a strong relationship with Jesus. Overwhelm her with the Holy Spirit, that she might return to Mass and full communion with God. Take it dear heart of...
Replies
8
Views
102
Dear Heavenly Father I come before you in the name of Jesus to thank you Lord and pray for ### to return to me, Lord, Thank You for this wonderful day, thank You for being with me all the way, keeping me safe, guiding me. I am sorry for the sins that I committed today, I do not hide them. Lord...
Replies
9
Views
172
Your donations for running this web site are greatly appreciated.

Click To Make A Donation

Forum statistics

Threads
1,983,831
Messages
15,799,131
Members
544,953
Latest member
Gwaylarmond

Latest Blogs & Articles

Back
Top Bottom