We join with you in prayer together in Jesus' name and bring your heartfelt cry for healing and restoration before the Lord God Almighty. We hear your longing for a normal, healthy love life, for a godly marriage between a man and a woman, for a stable home where you can keep your two cats and have provision for daily needs, and for wholeness in your mind, spine, energy and spirit. We agree with you that God is able to heal what has been broken and to flip what the enemy has meant for evil into good for His glory.
We want to gently bring some biblical clarity as we pray. You have claimed Deut 28:13 which says Yahweh will make you the head, and not the tail, and you will be above only, and you will not be beneath, if you listen to the commandments of Yahweh your God. This precious promise is conditional upon walking in obedience and trust before the Lord, it is not a formula we loosen or speak into existence by our own power. We do not create life with our words, God does, and we pray according to His will. 1 John 5:14 says This is the boldness which we have toward him, that if we ask anything according to his will, he listens to us. We also remember Rom 8:28 which says We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose, and Gen 50:20 which says You meant evil against me, but God meant it for good. We rebuke every lie, every unnecessary delay, and every assignment of the enemy against your love life and your future marriage, for 2 Cor 10:4-5 says the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds, and Isa 54:17 says No weapon that is formed against you will prevail. We ask the Lord to permanently cut off those assignments and to establish you in His truth and peace.
We also want to encourage you regarding what a normal love life means in God's eyes. We believe in the sanctity of marriage as a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman as outlined in the Bible, for Gen 2:24 says Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh. We strongly endorse marriage and pray that you will find a godly spouse. Courtship should be with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer, for 2 Cor 6:14 says Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. If you are in a courtship, we encourage purity and holiness, for Heb 13:4 says Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers, and 1 Cor 6:18 says Flee sexual immorality. Sex before or outside marriage is fornication or adultery and does not honor God. A good marriage is built on being found faithful, for Prov 18:22 says Whoever finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh, and Psalm 37:4 says Also delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. The right person for you will be one who loves the Lord first, who finds you attractive and loves you sacrificially, accepts you, lifts you up, and puts you first in a Christlike way as Christ loves the church, and who will be a good and safe presence for you and for your cats and your household.
We also gently correct the thought that your favor, anointing, glory, joy and power are something you earned. All favor and anointing are gifts of grace from God, not wages we earn. Phil 4:6-7 says In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus. Your soul, your mind, your family and even your pets are entrusted to you by the Lord, and we belong to Him when we are in Christ. John 14:6 says Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me, and Acts 4:12 says There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved. We thank you for pleading the blood of Jesus over your life, for it is only through His name and His blood that we have access to the Father and lasting victory.
We pray together now.
Father in heaven, we come before You together in the mighty name of Jesus Christ and we lift up this dear one to You. Lord, we ask for Your healing upon this love life and upon the heart that has felt delayed, lied to, and assigned by the enemy. We rebuke every lie and every work of darkness and we ask You to cancel every unnecessary assignment and delay in Jesus' name. Let Your perfect will be done urgently yet in Your perfect timing, for Your timing is good and Your plans are for welfare and not for calamity, to give a future and a hope as Jer 29:11 says. Lord, restore wholeness to the mind, to the spine, to energy and strength, for You give power to the faint and increase strength to those who have no might. Let Your favor, Your anointing, Your joy and Your glory rest upon this life from glory to glory, not because it is earned, but because of Your mercy and grace.
Father, we ask that You flip what the enemy has used for bad and turn it for good greatly and permanently. Establish this one as the head and not the tail as they walk in obedience to You, grounded in Your Word. Provide a stable, good home to stay, a place that is safe and lasting where these two cats can remain and daily needs like provision and connection are met, for You know we need these things and You are our Provider. Above all, we ask for a great and glorious marriage of the Lord, a good thing in this life, a covenant marriage between a man and a woman that honors You for a lifetime. Bring the right godly husband who is a believer, who will click with this heart, who will truly like, love, find attractive, accept, cherish and stay, who has a heart to lift up and to put this one first in love as Christ commands, and who will be a good thing for the household and for the cats You have entrusted. Keep this courtship pure and holy until marriage, and let it be built on Your Word.
We thank You that we can come boldly through the blood of Jesus. Seal this prayer, guard the soul and mind and body, and let Your peace guard the heart. We trust You to answer according to Your perfect will. In Jesus' name we pray, amen.