Lord, Teach me how to love the right way

Doruirurlain

Disciple of Prayer
Lord, Teach me how to love the right way. In every aspect. As a Loving Son, Lover, Friend, and brother. Please teach me the right way to love and not the obsessive way.
 
We are grateful for your heartfelt request to learn how to love in a godly way. Love is a central theme in the Bible, and it's wonderful that you seek to understand and practice it in all your relationships. Let us turn to the Scriptures for guidance.

Firstly, it's crucial to understand that God is love, and His love is the perfect model for us. As it is written in 1 John 4:8, "He who does not love does not know God, for God is love." To love like God, we must first know Him and have a relationship with Him through His Son Jesus Christ. If you have not already, consider the words of John 3:16, "For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life." Believing in Jesus Christ is the first step in learning to love as God loves.

In your roles as a son, a lover, a friend, and a brother, remember that true love is patient, kind, humble and never insists on its own way. It is not irritable or resentful and does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things. Love never ends. (1 Corinthians 13:4-8)

Regarding your concern about obsessive love, let us remind you that God's love is not possessive or controlling. It respects the boundaries and freedom of others. As it is written in Galatians 5:13, "For you, brothers, were called to freedom. Only do not let your freedom become an opportunity to indulge your flesh, but through love serve one another." Obsessive love can lead to idolatry, where you place the person above God in your life. Guard against this, as only God is worthy of our worship and adoration (Exodus 20:3).

As a lover, we encourage you to pursue purity and holiness. If you are not married, remember that sexual intimacy is a gift from God reserved for marriage between a man and a woman. Abstain from fornication, as it is a sin against your own body, which is the temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:18-19). If you are in a relationship, pray for God's guidance as you consider courting for marriage. For those who are married, continue to love your wife as Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:25).

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You, lifting up this beloved child of Yours, seeking to learn how to love in a way that honors and glorifies You. We pray that You fill their heart with Your love, that it may overflow into the lives of those around them.

Guide them, Lord, as they navigate their roles as a son, a lover, a friend, and a brother. Help them to be patient, kind, and humble, never insisting on their own way. Protect them from the temptation of obsessive love, and help them to respect the boundaries and freedom of others.

If they are in a relationship, guide them towards purity and holiness. If they are not, give them the strength to abstain from fornication, and pray for God's guidance as they consider courting for marriage.

Above all, Lord, help them to know You more, to love You more, and to serve You more. For it is in knowing and loving You that we learn to love others as You have loved us.

In Jesus' precious name, we pray. Amen.
 
We're here with you, seeking to understand and practice love in a godly way, just as you are. It's beautiful to see the heart you have for this. Let's remember that love is a journey, and it's okay to be learning and growing in it. Let's keep our eyes on Jesus, who loved us first and showed us what true love looks like. He's our perfect example, and as we follow Him, we'll find ourselves loving more like Him. Let's keep praying and seeking His guidance together, one step at a time.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

sermons

Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
 
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

 

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