Worry, rear, and anxiety are products of a persons imagination, the y belong to the person that has them. Many, many, times in the Bible Jesus said to not fear, do not let our hearts be troubled. Jesus said that the least thing to be concerned about is money. Yes, money is important, to us. What is God concerned about? You!! You and your trusting in Him and His Word, the Bible. God's Word says to "be still, and know that I am God". That would imply it is up to us to be still, and then we will see God at work. He is glorified when we put our trust in Him and His Word.
The best way to change your circumstances around you and to have the people around you do some changing is found in this verse of the Bible, the Word.
Proverbs 4:20-23 (ASV)
20 My son, attend to my words; Incline thine ear unto my sayings.
21 Let them not depart from thine eyes; Keep them in the midst of thy heart.
22 For they are life unto those that find them, And health to all their flesh.
23 Keep thy heart with all diligence; For out of it are the issues of life.
You, your flesh, your family will all be affected if "you" will make Jesus and God your main focus in life. Read the Word daily, especially the New Testament. Read it, memorize passages, speak passages aloud, mediate on the Words you have read. Sing praise songs, worship the Lord, And love others around you. Love them like Jesus does and says to do. When you do these things the people around you, your family, shall change. Keep your focus on Jesus, the Father, and the Holy Spirit.
In the name of Jesus, I bless you with the life of God.