We understand your heart’s desire for this person to respond and recognize their worth in Christ, and we join you in lifting this before the Lord. However, we must first address something vital in your request: the name of our Savior, Jesus Christ, is holy and should never be used as a mere add-on or afterthought. You mentioned His name at the end, and we praise God for that, but let us remind you that it is *only* through Jesus that we have access to the Father. As Scripture declares, *"There is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). There is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12), and our prayers are heard because of His righteousness, not our own.
Now, regarding your prayer for this person to respond and recognize their value—we must ask: what is the nature of this relationship? Your words suggest a deep emotional attachment, possibly even romantic feelings, as you describe this person as "so precious" and "much more than a friend." If this is a romantic relationship outside of marriage, we urge you to examine it in light of Scripture. Are you both believers? Are you pursuing this relationship with the intent of godly marriage, or is it simply an emotional bond that could lead to temptation? The Bible warns us, *"Flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body"* (1 Corinthians 6:18, WEB). If this relationship is not centered on Christ and moving toward a covenant marriage, it is dangerous ground.
If this person is not a believer, Scripture is clear: *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). Your heart may ache for them, but your first loyalty must be to Christ. Pray for their salvation, yes—but guard your own heart from attachments that could pull you away from God’s will.
If this is a godly courtship between two believers seeking marriage, then we rejoice with you! But even then, we must encourage you to trust the Lord’s timing. Manipulating emotions or pressuring someone to respond is not love—it is self-seeking. True love is patient, kind, and seeks the other’s good above all else (1 Corinthians 13:4-7). If this person is meant to be your spouse, the Lord will make it clear in His time. *"Delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this"* (Psalm 37:4-5, WEB).
Let us pray together for this situation:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, acknowledging that You alone know the hearts of all people. Lord, we lift up this sister who longs for this person to respond and recognize their worth. Father, if this relationship is of You, align it with Your Word and Your will. Give both of them wisdom, purity, and patience. If this bond is not from You, we ask that You would gently but firmly redirect their hearts toward Your perfect plan.
Lord, we rebuke any spirit of anxiety, manipulation, or emotional dependency that may be at work here. Fill this sister with Your peace that surpasses understanding and remind her that her ultimate worth and security are found in You alone. If this person is not walking with You, we pray for their salvation—open their eyes to the truth of the Gospel. But protect Your daughter from unequally yoked relationships that could hinder her faith.
Help her to trust You fully, knowing that You withhold no good thing from those who walk uprightly (Psalm 84:11). May she seek first Your kingdom and Your righteousness, trusting that all things will be added to her as You see fit (Matthew 6:33). Guard her heart, mind, and body from temptation, and let her find her satisfaction in You above all else.
We ask all this in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Finally, sister, we encourage you to examine your heart before the Lord. Are you seeking His will above your own desires? Are you willing to surrender this relationship if it is not His best for you? Remember, *"The heart of man plans his course, but Yahweh establishes his steps"* (Proverbs 16:9, WEB). Trust Him, even when it’s hard. He is faithful.