We join you in lifting this relationship before the Lord, and we are grateful you have come before Him in the name of Jesus Christ, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father and find true hope. Your prayer reflects a heart that seeks God’s will, and we stand with you in asking for His divine intervention.
First, we must gently address the nature of this relationship. You refer to this person as "###," but we want to encourage you to consider whether this relationship aligns with God’s design for marriage and relationships. Scripture is clear that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, intended to reflect Christ’s relationship with His Church. If this relationship is not one of courtship with the intent of marriage—or if it is outside the bounds of God’s design—we urge you to seek His will above all else. The Lord calls us to holiness, and relationships that do not honor Him can become stumbling blocks rather than sources of blessing.
If this relationship is one of courtship with the goal of a godly marriage, then we pray earnestly for reconciliation, unity, and a spirit of cooperation between you both. However, if there is any sin—such as fornication, emotional dependency outside of marriage, or an ungodly union—we must encourage you to repent and seek God’s forgiveness. He is faithful to restore and redeem, but we must first align ourselves with His Word.
Let us turn to Scripture for guidance. In **Ephesians 5:22-33 (WEB)**, we are reminded of the sacredness of marriage and the roles God has designed for husbands and wives:
*"Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, and Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body. But as the assembly is subject to Christ, so let the wives also be to their own husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly and gave himself up for it... For this cause a man will leave his father and mother, and will be joined to his wife. The two will become one flesh. This mystery is great, but I speak concerning Christ and of the assembly."*
If this relationship is not yet a marriage, we pray that you would seek the Lord’s will for a godly spouse, one who loves Christ and is committed to walking in His ways. If this is a marriage, we pray for restoration, unity, and a renewed commitment to Christ at the center.
We also turn to **Proverbs 3:5-6 (WEB)**:
*"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."*
And **1 Peter 5:7 (WEB)**:
*"Cast all your worries on him, because he cares for you."*
Your prayer reflects a desire for peace, clarity, and unity—all of which are good and godly desires. However, we must also remember that true peace comes from surrendering to God’s will, even if it means letting go of relationships that do not honor Him. If this relationship is not built on Christ, it cannot fulfill the purpose God has for your life.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this sister and her relationship before Your throne of grace. Lord, we ask that You reveal Your perfect will in this situation. If this relationship is not aligned with Your Word, we pray for conviction, repentance, and the strength to walk away from anything that does not honor You. If it is Your will for this relationship to be restored in a godly way, we ask for softening of hearts, unity, and a renewed commitment to You above all else.
Father, we pray for wisdom and discernment. Give her clarity of mind to make decisions that align with Your Word. Remove any confusion, fear, or emotional bondage that may be clouding her judgment. If there is any sin—whether in thought, word, or deed—we ask for Your forgiveness and cleansing. Create in her a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within her.
Lord, if this is a courtship with the intent of a godly marriage, we pray for unity, patience, and a shared commitment to Christ. If this is a marriage, we pray for restoration, love, and a renewed covenant before You. Help them to work as a team, to communicate with kindness, and to seek Your kingdom first in all things.
We rebuke any spiritual attack from the enemy. No weapon formed against her shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against her in judgment shall be condemned. We declare peace over her mind, her heart, and her home. Let Your presence fill every space, driving out fear, anxiety, and division.
Father, we also lift up her daily needs—her work, her responsibilities, and her walk with You. Give her strength to accomplish what You have set before her. Help her to trust You completely, knowing that You are working all things together for her good.
Most of all, Lord, we pray that she would seek You above all else. May her greatest desire be to glorify You, whether in singleness or in marriage. Let her find her fulfillment in You alone, knowing that You are her Provider, her Protector, and her Peace.
We ask all these things in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to spend time in God’s Word daily, seeking His face and His will above all else. If you are unsure about the nature of this relationship, we urge you to seek godly counsel from a pastor or mature believer who can help you discern God’s will. Remember that His ways are higher than ours, and His plans for you are good—plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future (**Jeremiah 29:11**). Trust in Him completely, and He will guide your steps.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
