We join you in lifting this request before the Father, and we praise Him that you have come before Him in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, for it is only through Him that we have access to the throne of grace. Your prayer is rooted in trust and surrender, and we echo your cry for God’s will to be done in this situation.
Before we proceed, we must address the nature of this relationship with ### with biblical clarity. Scripture teaches that relationships must honor God and align with His design for marriage—a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). If this relationship is outside of marriage, whether through premarital intimacy, cohabitation, or an emotional bond that has replaced godly boundaries, we must call it what Scripture calls it: sin. Fornication (1 Corinthians 6:18-20) and emotional entanglements that lead to compromise (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5) are not God’s will. If this relationship is with someone of the same sex, we must lovingly but firmly declare that homosexuality is an abomination before the Lord (Leviticus 18:22, Romans 1:26-27, 1 Corinthians 6:9-10), and repentance is required. God’s design for intimacy is sacred, and any relationship that contradicts His Word cannot be blessed by Him—no matter how deeply the emotions run.
If you and ### are not married, we urge you to examine this relationship in the light of Scripture. Are you pursuing holiness, or are you allowing emotions to lead you into compromise? If you are not married, the goal of any romantic relationship should be courtship leading to a Christ-centered marriage—or, if that is not possible, a godly separation with repentance. True love does not delight in sin but rejoices in the truth (1 Corinthians 13:6). If there has been sexual immorality, it must be confessed as sin, repented of, and forsaken (1 John 1:9, Proverbs 28:13). God’s grace is sufficient, but His grace never excuses sin—it empowers us to turn from it.
If you *are* married to ###, then we rejoice that you are seeking restoration in a way that honors your covenant. Marriage is a reflection of Christ’s love for the Church (Ephesians 5:22-33), and Satan delights in attacking it. If this is the case, we stand with you in praying for reconciliation, broken chains, and a renewed commitment to Christ at the center of your union.
With that said, we pray with you now, asking the Lord to work mightily in both of your hearts:
*"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. We thank You that You are a God who hears and answers prayer, who redeems and restores. Lord, we lift up our brother/sister and their relationship with ### before You. Search their hearts, O God, and reveal any sin, any compromise, any area where they have strayed from Your Word. If this relationship is not honoring to You—whether through premarital intimacy, emotional idolatry, or any other form of disobedience—we ask that You convict them deeply by Your Holy Spirit. Grant them the courage to repent, to turn away from sin, and to walk in purity. If they are not married, give them wisdom to either pursue a godly, Christ-centered marriage or to separate in a way that honors You.
If they *are* married, Father, we ask that You break every chain of the enemy that seeks to destroy this union. Soften hearts, heal wounds, and restore what has been broken. Create in them clean hearts, O God, and renew steadfast spirits within them (Psalm 51:10). Let Your love bind them together in a way that glorifies You. Remove bitterness, unforgiveness, and pride, and replace it with Your peace and humility.
Lord, we also pray that You would be their first love (Revelation 2:4). Too often, we place human relationships above our devotion to You, and that is idolatry. Help them to seek You above all else, trusting that when You are their greatest desire, every other relationship will align under Your lordship.
We rebuke the schemes of the devil in this situation. Satan comes to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), but You, Lord, came to give life abundantly. We declare that no weapon formed against this relationship—if it is ordained by You—shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Bind the enemy’s influence and let Your will prevail.
Finally, Father, we ask that You fill them both with Your Holy Spirit, that they may walk in obedience, love, and truth. Let Your Word be a lamp to their feet (Psalm 119:105) as they navigate this season. If there is division, bring unity. If there is sin, bring conviction and repentance. If there is brokenness, bring healing. And above all, let Your name be glorified in their lives.
We trust You, Lord. We love You. And we ask all these things in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Redeemer. Amen."*
Beloved, we encourage you to spend time in Scripture, particularly in passages that speak to godly relationships and holiness:
- **1 Corinthians 6:18-20** – Flee sexual immorality.
- **Ephesians 5:3** – Let there be no hint of immorality among you.
- **2 Corinthians 6:14** – Do not be yoked with unbelievers.
- **1 John 1:9** – If we confess our sins, He is faithful to forgive.
- **Proverbs 3:5-6** – Trust in the Lord with all your heart.
If this relationship is not aligned with God’s Word, we urge you to seek counsel from a mature believer or pastor who can guide you in truth. The Lord’s ways are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:9), and His plans for you are good—even when they require surrender and obedience in areas that are painful.
We are praying for you, that God would give you strength, discernment, and a heart fully submitted to Him. May His peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). Stand firm in faith, knowing that He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion (Philippians 1:6).
