We hear the deep anguish in your heart, and we stand with you in this painful season, lifting your burden before the Lord. The pain of being separated from your children—especially when they have chosen distance—is a wound that only God’s healing touch can fully mend. We grieve with you, for this is not the way it was meant to be. Children are a heritage from the Lord, a gift to be cherished, and the enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy what God has ordained (John 10:10). But we declare that the thief will not have the final word over your family.
First, we must address the spiritual battle raging around you. Custody battles, division, and estrangement are not merely legal or emotional struggles—they are spiritual warfare. The enemy desires to sever the bonds of love and loyalty that God has placed within families. But we rebuke every assignment of the devil against your children in the name of Jesus. We break every generational curse, every lie, and every spirit of division that has tried to take root. The Word declares, *"No weapon that is formed against you will prevail; and you will condemn every tongue that accuses you in judgment. This is the heritage of the Lord’s servants, and their righteousness is from me,"* says the Lord (Isaiah 54:17). We stand on this promise, believing that God will restore what has been broken.
We also recognize the weight of your grief. The silence from your children is a heavy burden, and the fading memories of their voices and laughter are a sorrow that only a parent can truly understand. But even in this, we are reminded that God collects every tear in His bottle (Psalm 56:8). He sees your pain, and He is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). We pray that the Holy Spirit would comfort you in ways that surpass human understanding, reminding you of the love that cannot be erased—even when it feels distant.
Yet, we must also speak truth into this situation. While we do not know the full circumstances of your custody battle, we urge you to examine your own heart and actions through the lens of Scripture. Have you sought reconciliation in humility? Have you pursued peace, even when it was difficult? The Bible instructs us, *"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men"* (Romans 12:18). This does not mean compromising truth or enabling sin, but it does mean extending grace, patience, and love—even when it is not reciprocated. Have you prayed for your children with a heart free from bitterness? Have you released them into God’s hands, trusting Him to work in their lives, even when you cannot?
We also encourage you to seek godly counsel and support. Isolation only deepens the pain, but walking with wise, Spirit-led believers can provide strength and perspective. Proverbs 11:14 tells us, *"Where there is no counsel, the people fall; but in the multitude of counselors there is safety."* Do not carry this burden alone. Allow others to stand with you in prayer and practical support.
Now, we lift your children before the Lord in prayer:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up these precious children whom You have entrusted to this parent. Lord, we ask that You would break every chain of deception, bitterness, or unforgiveness that has taken root in their hearts. Soften their spirits to receive truth and love. We declare that they are not beyond Your reach, and we ask that You would draw them back to their parent with cords of kindness and bands of love (Hosea 11:4). Restore the years that the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25), and let them know the depth of their parent’s love—not just in words, but in the assurance of Your presence.
Father, we also pray for this parent. Strengthen them in their weakness, Lord. When they feel like giving up, remind them that Your strength is made perfect in their weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9). Renew their hope, and let them see glimpses of Your faithfulness even in the waiting. Guard their heart from bitterness, and fill them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Help them to remember that You are a God who restores, redeems, and heals. Even now, we declare that the enemy’s plans will not prevail. You are working all things together for good (Romans 8:28), and we trust You to bring beauty from these ashes.
We also ask, Lord, that You would intervene in the legal battles. Frustrate the plans of those who seek to harm this family, and let justice and mercy prevail. Give wisdom to the judges, lawyers, and all those involved in this custody battle. Let Your will be done, and let Your name be glorified in the outcome.
Finally, we pray that this parent would draw near to You, Lord. In the midst of this storm, be their anchor. Let them hear Your voice saying, *"Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right hand"* (Isaiah 41:10). May they find their identity and worth in You alone, knowing that even if their children do not acknowledge them, You never leave nor forsake them (Hebrews 13:5).
We pray all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, the One who came to bind up the brokenhearted and set the captives free. Amen.
Do not lose heart, dear one. The same God who parted the Red Sea, who raised Jesus from the dead, and who holds the stars in place is fighting for you and your children. Keep praying. Keep trusting. Keep loving—even from a distance. Your faithfulness is not in vain, and God sees every sacrifice you have made. The day will come when He will wipe away every tear, and there will be no more separation, no more pain. Until then, stand firm in His promises.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
be-an-encourager.blogspot.com
